Ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have fallen in love with?

:popcorn:

:P

:loveya:

So I had to resort to chasing lesbians. :P

ohh never mind :hi:

:P

Sorry, little tired today. Makes no sense, stuff doesn't. :P

you know?

atleast you have a better shot of getting laid

:P

nt

n/t

But, what're you gonna do?

Maybe a better question would be, "Ever acted on a feeling about someone when you shouldn't have?"

Just my two cents.

But have you?

Early and often.

I have too.

:insert smiley holding chest and saying "ouch":

I recommend against it.

They didn't like me as someone to have sex with though. They only wanted to have sex with women who they didn't like as people.

I grew up in a socially conservative area and the most attractive, self assured, accomplished young men who were not in monagamous relationships seemed to be like this. For some reason, they wanted me to be their friend. They did not want me as one of their conquests. One of my male friends said "I respect you too much to ever sleep with you." I believe that he was telling the truth since he generally had no respect for his conquests.
Perhaps, now that they are out of high school and college, they have matured and changed.

:(

Married man. I was lovesick from age 18 to age 48, mostly in my mind. That's right. It took me thirty years to get over it.

He's dead now. End of story.

My advice? Don't do it. If you feel you can't help it, get some counseling.

He was 34 and I was 21. It was a bad idea.

Karl Rove


but it turned out that he's not gay :hide:



I knew I shouldn't have done it, but the MC Rove rap was just too sexy for my shirt.

:wow:

I would classify "anyone who does not love me back" in that category, and there are too many names to recall. One was a really awful woman. Some were decent women. A few were wonderful women. Most were friends. Oh well.

For 28 years.

seriously... I have a natural talent for it.

havent we all?


especially my best friend

:P

from him. He's gonna be bad news.

:(

Really dodged a bullet there.

:thumbsup:

You know how the song goes ...
I could have missed the pain
But I'd have had to miss the dance

Keeps us from being too arrogant when others do the same.

:(

Its more of a situation thing. Met someone who I probably don't ever have a chance of hell of being with because of the difficulties (distance, life situation, and some other complicating factors) but I keep hoping things work out. BTW, it was totally accidental because neither of us was looking for that kind of thing when we met, in a non dating/hook up situation. Most unexpected. I keep hoping though. What else can I do?:shrug:

I'm trying to end it permanently but it keeps coming back to life and smacking me around.

:eyes:

Grrrrr ....

Doin it right now, matter of fact.

Wish I could stop it. But there's no fucking way.

I'm powerless.

Sigh.

what is "should" :shrug:

I mean we fall for who we fall for.

I write lyrics about it all the time.

I don't mind, but what do I get? I'm an orgasm addict, but something's gone wrong again and I love you more.

Why do I hear a harmony in my head?

:crazy:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jRE79bxfMtY

And yeah, who hasn't?

I must tell you how much I'm loving your bug!

I hope you'll keep him!

It looks so damn real...

:rofl:

It even catches me off guard sometimes and I think there's a bug on my own screen.

obvious benefit or lesson looking back on it, where I didn't gain something from the relationship in some way. That was about ten years ago, it lasted 9 months, and I guess I feel like it "might" have been a mistake because I don't feel the person every loved me, they were just a user. But the truth is, I went through some pretty extreme things (financial difficulties, three cars that wouldn't run, etc) after the breakup, and I guess I learned that I am a survivor and no matter what happens I will work around it. If I just don't limit myself in terms of what I believe I can soldier through, then I can make it through anything. So I guess I gained some things from that, even though they were more after the relationship, rather than during. I *should* have learned at that point not to assign virtue to someone just because other people see them in a positve light, but I've had to revisit that one a bit...that one keeps coming back around, and until I learn to trust my gut instinct it probably will.

Lloyd: What are the chances of a guy like you and a girl like me... ending up together?

Mary: Well, that's pretty difficult to say.

Lloyd: Hit me with it! I've come a long way to see you, Mary. The least you can do is level with me. What are my chances?

Mary: Not good.

Lloyd: You mean, not good like one out of a hundred?

Mary: I'd say more like one out of a million.

(pause)
Lloyd: So you're telling me there's a chance.

n/t


lost

Get your act together and stop listening to Steely Dan and prog rock!
:hide:

and I can't imagine regretting that experience. I wouldn't have my kids if I hadn't, either.

and shouldn't, but not love.

and paid for it in many, many ways.

Huh?

A case where I fell in love with her when I know I shouldn't of.. and then she fell in love with me when she knew she shouldn't have. .

I know.. that may not make sense... but.. it's complicated.. to the point I can't fully explain it.

Haven't seen her in two and a half years... hope her life's better.

still love him today although I haven't seen him for 33 years.

Thirty three years. Ouch. I haven't seen mine for fourteen. It hurts every day, still.

At least twice, if not three times. HELL ON EARTH.