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Bluzmann57 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:00 PM
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Should I apologize to this guy?
I'm outside checking out fluids on our vehicles and a neighbor wanders over and starts chatting. He sees the DU sticker on the car and asks about it. I tell him that it is a progressive web site that has people of differing opinions, but are basically of like mind. He starts ranting about "niggers, faggots, commies, un American", and on and on. I am getting angry and told him that he is the definition of stupidity. I also told a few other things which I will leave out. Now he seems to think I owe him an apology. I say "fuck him". And I would like to apologize to anyone who may have read this post. Please don't take any of the above stuff personally, I was just repeating what this guy said. I will also apologize to my brethren on DU for my foul language. But not to the neighbor. I'm still a bit steamed over this.
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Robb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:02 PM
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1. Keep it simple.
"I don't waste my time talking to closed-minded bigots." And walk.
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salinen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:05 PM
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4. No!
But if you left out calling him a RW pigfucking POS, you may need to see him again.
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Webster Green Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:03 PM
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2. Sounds like he owes YOU an apology....
He also sounds like a compleat asshole!
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mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:04 PM
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3. How about" I'm sorry you feel that way"
as one of the epithets he mentioned , I would object to an apology.
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Tandalayo_Scheisskopf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:08 PM
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5. You do not need to apologize...
For expressing your lack of patience with his anacephalic ramblings.

F*** him and the horse he rode in on.
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asthmaticeog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 02:34 PM
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22. Vocab award!
Anencephalic- GREAT word!

Oh, and Bluzmann57? You do not owe this troglodyte an apology. Though if he is a neighbor, you may find yourself needing to show an interest in keeping the peace somehow.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:10 PM
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6. No, you don't owe him an apology
You didn't start the conversation. He could have politely asked you what you found worthwhile about DU or progressive thought. But he didn't. So, nuts to him.

OTOH, if you guys have to share resources and this would make future encounters unpleasant, you might want to consider apologizing for the tone of your speech, not the content.
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nostamj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:12 PM
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7. yes....
"I am very sorry that you are the definition of stupidity and if you want help to change that, let me know."
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TXlib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:13 PM
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8. Tell him to stay off your property
or you'll drill him several 9-mm holes in his head.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:15 PM
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9. APOLOGY ?????
YOU SHOULD HAVE KICKED HIS ASS.
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Bluzmann57 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:18 PM
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10. That thought went through my mind
but Scott County jail is the LAST place I want to be on this, or any other day. Besides, I don't think he's worth the time and effort it would take.
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:56 PM
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14. Agreed
too bad he'd be the one running for a trial lawyer after you smacked him across the mouth
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Kamika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:19 PM
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11. well I don't know the details
I'd love to hear more details of what you told him before I judge him a complete idiot
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NoPasaran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:51 PM
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12. I would have invited him to leave
And then turned the hose on him.
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name not needed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:55 PM
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13. I would have invited him
to have me forcably kick him in his small, shrunken scrotum.
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nini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:57 PM
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15. No way..
he owes you an apology for his hate filled comments - the fact he couldn't deal with the reaction of someone who thinks like a human being is his problem not yours. We have to quit tolerating this crap and looking the other way to avoid conflict. These people are part of why this country cannot move forward. Tough $hit for him.

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Hong Kong Cavalier Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 01:58 PM
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16. NEVER APOLOGIZE for standing up to bigots!
You did good.
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Darth_Ole Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 02:12 PM
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17. Hell no!
You didn't start the conversation. You weren't bigoted. You didn't refer to anyone has a 'nigger' or 'faggot' or 'commie'.

The guy's hopeless. Let him apologize to you.
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Fleshdancer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 02:17 PM
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18. It's not your fault he's an idiot.
He responded in a very insulting manner to the fact that you belong to a progressive forum. He came into your space, asking about your sticker, and then insults you? Hell no you shouldn't apologize. An apology is formal recognition that YOU did something wrong.

Now if you went into his space, asked about a freeper bumpersticker, then started calling people with his beliefs redneck racist a**holes, then sure, you should apologize. But that's not how it happened.
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LTR Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 02:24 PM
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19. No, instead...
Ask him a question that I like to ask freepers:

What good thing has Bush ever done for you?

Then let him spend a few hours thinking about it.
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Bertha Venation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 02:30 PM
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20. If I were in your shoes: No. And here's why.
1. He wouldn't appreciate it.
2. He'd use it as an opportunity to start bashing all over again.
3. You don't need the aggravation.

On the other hand, if an apology would be going with who you are, then do it, and screw his reaction.

Let us know how the situation plays out.
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CanuckAmok Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-01-04 02:32 PM
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21. Hmmm...let me think...
Nah, fuck him!
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