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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 11:23 AM Original message |
GRRRR - My ex is causing me such HELL with Little MB... |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 11:31 AM Response to Original message |
1. If you can take the high road here... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 11:33 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. I would never blame the ex to the kid - I think that is |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 04:03 PM Response to Reply #2 |
58. Good on ya, Blue. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 04:09 PM Response to Reply #58 |
61. He does not have any designated "summer time" with her, |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 04:12 PM Response to Reply #61 |
63. And you say he's a Hillary supporter....? |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 04:15 PM Response to Reply #63 |
64. ... |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 11:43 AM Response to Original message |
3. I wonder if he had a bad camp experience as a kid |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:03 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. He never went to camp as a kid. His mom stayed home |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:08 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. Then can you send him an email (documentation) with only one topic? |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:11 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. That is basically the gist of what I sent him. |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:11 PM Response to Reply #12 |
13. Do you still have a lawyer on retainer? |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:15 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. No longer on retainer, but easily accessible should I choose to |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:17 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. Probably worth it to give your child this camp experience. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:20 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. One of the best things about the camp is that |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
5. He's using the custody order to vent his anger. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:08 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. I know, but c'mon he's not being realistic. |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:13 PM Response to Reply #7 |
14. His anger is irational and unrealistic. |
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sakabatou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
6. Ask for a valid argument |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:08 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. I did that and all I got were chirping crickets. |
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sakabatou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:09 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. Since he has failed to bring up a valid argument |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:24 PM Response to Reply #11 |
22. Exactly my thinking.... |
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OneGrassRoot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
10. I went through similar seemingly needless power plays... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:23 PM Response to Reply #10 |
20. He has eased up already on many things... |
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OneGrassRoot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:29 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. Holy crap, I don't blame you for not wanting her to go back there... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:51 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. Before we bought this new house, we lived 5 minutes |
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OneGrassRoot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:58 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. EXACTLY.... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 01:11 PM Response to Reply #32 |
36. Thank you.... |
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Tyler Durden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
15. A warning: |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:18 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Thank you Tyler Durden... |
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Tyler Durden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 01:07 PM Response to Reply #18 |
34. Ex has been telling the kids it was all my fault from the first moment they understood english. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 02:18 PM Response to Reply #34 |
40. WOW, I am sorry that your EX has treated you that way. |
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Tyler Durden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 03:17 PM Response to Reply #40 |
49. NEVER take the fall for the ex. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 03:42 PM Response to Reply #49 |
54. You are so right...and that makes me sad. |
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Tyler Durden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-11-08 06:39 AM Response to Reply #54 |
68. My Late father used to say: |
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Zoigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 02:10 PM Response to Reply #15 |
38. Is there some aspect of the camp that the EX disapproves of |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 02:17 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. Not that I am aware of.... |
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Zoigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 02:21 PM Response to Reply #39 |
41. Your EX certainly isn't thinking of the welfare |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 02:31 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. She can be the biggest nag ever |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
21. Is he scared for her? |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:42 PM Response to Reply #21 |
27. He hasn't said anything about that. |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 04:23 PM Response to Reply #27 |
66. if he is saying 'no' |
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conscious evolution (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
24. Send her anyway |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:44 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. I am thinking of just paying the deposit even if I |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:36 PM Response to Original message |
25. i can't be much help |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:45 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. You are very sweet :) |
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JustABozoOnThisBus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
26. Can you recruit your ex-MIL as an ally? |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:46 PM Response to Reply #26 |
30. Great idea - but unfortunately No.... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 12:59 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. But I betcha they got some miserable marriages! |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 01:11 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. ROFL |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
37. How old is your daughter? |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 02:24 PM Response to Reply #37 |
42. My daughter is 8 years old. |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 02:38 PM Response to Original message |
44. Good luck, but I advise against just sending her anyway. More important to work this |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 02:56 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. I can't just "send her anyway" without being in |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-11-08 08:39 AM Response to Reply #45 |
69. my comment was more directed against some of the advice others were giving you |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-11-08 08:54 AM Response to Reply #69 |
70. He knows all about the other camp - and even if she went |
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Coyote_Bandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 02:56 PM Response to Original message |
46. Could it be that the ex objects because |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 02:59 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. This same camp offers a two week "starter" program |
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Coyote_Bandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 03:10 PM Response to Reply #47 |
48. Be sure |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 03:17 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. Thanks for the great advice. |
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huskerlaw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 03:34 PM Response to Original message |
51. As a child of divorce... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 03:39 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. Very sage advice... |
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huskerlaw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 03:52 PM Response to Reply #52 |
56. The truth is always best |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
53. Silence is not cooperative. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 03:58 PM Response to Reply #53 |
57. I think the lawyer, unfortunately, will see dollar signs when |
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LynneSin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-11-08 09:05 AM Response to Reply #57 |
71. I hate to say it but the Lawyer might be money well spent |
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Eurobabe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
55. Sounds to me like.... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 04:06 PM Response to Reply #55 |
59. I'm sure you are right in that he is trying to control the |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 04:09 PM Response to Reply #59 |
60. Are yall in separate towns far away from each other? |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 04:10 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. We live 15 minutes apart and he sees her at |
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Eurobabe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 04:19 PM Response to Reply #59 |
65. Sorry you have to go through this... |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-10-08 04:36 PM Response to Original message |
67. She needs to do the asking. Then it is not a power play over you but is |
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