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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:04 PM
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I found a mistake on a tombstone today
At the Northern California Veteran's Cemetery, no less.

Mr. Yarbrough cannot have served in the Marines in World War I if he was born in 1927. :crazy:
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:05 PM
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1. Maybe he lied about his age!
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:08 PM
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3. .
:think:
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LSdemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:07 PM
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2. Wouldn't that be the ultimate practical joke just to make stuff up on your tombstone?
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:11 PM
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4. Yeah it would
:patriot:

But the guy at the visitor center was APPALLED, so I don't think that's what happened. :P
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Debi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:25 PM
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7. Like Royal Tenenbaum?
"Died tragically rescuing his family from the remains of a destroyed sinking battleship."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Royal_Tenenbaums

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0265666/
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petronius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:20 PM
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5. Maybe they can get a chisel and gouge an extra I in there (I assume they meant WWII?)
I wonder how nobody noticed at the burial service - seems like it should be pretty glaring for those who knew him...
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:28 PM
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8. I felt really bad about it
Like nobody noticed before...

I think the way they do it there is they bury the person, and get the stone later, but still... nobody has visited the poor guy. :(
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jmm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:44 PM
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9. Maybe somebody did notice?
I have a great-grandmother buried in a veteran's cemetery and there's a mistake on her headstone. When she died there was no empty burial space near my great-grandfather so the family panicked briefly over what to do because they wanted them buried together but my grandfather and his siblings had young families so it would've been difficult to pay for having my great-grandfather moved. While they were making funeral arrangements they were contacted and told the family of the person buried next to him was having the remains moved so that space was available. Since she was a veteran so the government paid for her headstone and after all they had gone through the family never pushed too hard to have it fixed.
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:56 PM
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13. It's possible
I don't know anything about the guy other than what was on the stone. :shrug:
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petronius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:52 PM
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11. That is sad - it's always a downer in old graveyards to read the inscriptions
about undying love and never-to-be-forgotten family, except that you have to brush away the weeds and the dust to read it. That's partly why I want to be dumped at sea (cremated or not) - I'd rather not be the featured item in an abandoned and decrepit grave...
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Manifestor_of_Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:22 PM
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6. Gravestones are exempt from the hearsay rule!!
Information on headstones is admissible as an exception to the hearsay rule, like birth certificates and family Bibles with baptism records.

Woah, somebody better get that changed!


.....for this I went to law school.........:wtf:

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petronius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:48 PM
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10. So legally, the stone proves that this man served as a Marine at an age of -12?
Sounds like the family should send in a request for additional benefits...
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:56 PM
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12. Marines are burly, dude
They'll crawl out of the womb, kick your ass, and crawl back. :P
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petronius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 06:02 PM
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15. Sounds like this guy crawled out of somewhere a lot earlier than the womb
(Which is a train of thought I'm going to abandon NOW, because my overly-vivid imagination is causing me to feel imaginary pain...)
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 05:57 PM
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14. :)
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Burma Jones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 06:28 PM
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16. Why do you hate the troops?
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mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 07:21 PM
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17. you goin' goth or something...?
Edited on Wed May-21-08 07:22 PM by mike_c
Oh Morticia, isn't a lovely day to go down to the cemetery and window shop the gravestones?
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 09:51 PM
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19. I saw something today I have never seen before:
the fabled ONE LOG LOAD.

I think it was Doug Fir, and it filled the back of the log truck. :o
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mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 11:00 PM
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21. yeah, I saw one several years ago-- big Doug fir butt log...
Edited on Wed May-21-08 11:15 PM by mike_c
...that must have been eight feet diameter at the base. That was on the 299 (or maybe 96 on the other side of Hupa, I don't recall). There are some high volume stands left on the national forest up there, but none of that's been cut since Clinton came to office unless it was some salvage scam, which is probably most likely, now that I think about it. It's hard to imagine anything like that left on private land, although I have seen some 6-8 ft diameter Douglas fir up on Friday Ridge Rd that might be on private land. Just isolated trees, though. A former grad student and I climbed a couple of those back in '99 or 2000.

A one log load is pretty impressive. Tree was probablely 500 yrs old or more.

on edit: my original memory of that beast's size was probably over-enthusiastic, LOL. Monster logs inspire awe.
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madinmaryland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 08:16 PM
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18. You mean he didn't disrupt poorly??
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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-21-08 10:24 PM
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20. I found one in a veteran's cemetery 2 weeks ago
spelled the last name wrong.
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My Good Babushka Donating Member (966 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-22-08 07:34 AM
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22. my grandmother
ended up with a mistake on her headstone when she outlived the century. She already had 19-- carved on it, and she was pretty mad that she had to get it fixed. She died in 2006, though, so she won't have to change it again. We were beginning to wonder, she was pretty unstoppable.
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Jokerman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-22-08 07:38 AM
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23. They spelled "April" wrong on my mom's grave stone.
No one from the marker company noticed until it was in place.

We made them do another.
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Connonym Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-22-08 07:40 AM
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24. Eep!
a friend of mine lost her dad last year. They sent his body back to his native Scotland for burial and she was very upset to visit his grave site and note that his burial marker listed the date of his death as the date it was in Scotland even though her dad was in Wisconsin (and it was still the previous day) when he died. I thought that was pretty odd. Anyone know if it's common to do that?
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