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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:18 PM Original message |
Do you think that an 11-year-old who recently lost her father should see a grief counselor? |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:21 PM Response to Original message |
1. you know my answer |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:22 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. i sure do. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:27 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. have you had an sitdown with your mom about this? |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:43 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. i don't know how my mom is dealing with it. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:49 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. has ariel spoken with the school counselor at all? |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:52 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. she has a social worker but i don't think much has taken place there. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:54 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. why don't you want to broach the topic with her? |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:57 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. i'm not ignoring it. i'm just not sure where to start. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 09:00 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. sit her down and ask her how she is doing |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 09:07 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. might have to do that. not sure how much, if anything, mom has done. |
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Bennyboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:22 PM Response to Original message |
2. Absolutely.....ASAP too..... |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:24 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. she wants to wait till school is over...that is, IF she even does anything. |
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Bennyboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:28 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. She is doing this child a HUGE disservice..... |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:44 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. yeah...and father's day is coming up. and her father's birthday. |
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latebloomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:24 PM Response to Original message |
5. How could she be OK? |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:42 PM Response to Reply #5 |
9. She isn't okay...she's just hiding it. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:27 PM Response to Original message |
6. The sooner the better, my dear Elrond! |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:47 PM Response to Reply #6 |
14. i'm starting to wonder if there's some denial going on there. |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:42 PM Response to Original message |
10. yes and the sooner the better. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
13. Yes! n/t |
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LeftyFingerPop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
15. I was 11 when my dad died and.... |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
21. I've yet to experience a death close to me, but unless that 11 year old |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
22. Yes. 11 is a tough age anyway |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 09:39 PM Response to Original message |
24. If your mother thinks that your sister "seems okay" |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 09:47 PM Response to Original message |
25. My grandfather died when I was 11 |
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noel711 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 10:09 PM Response to Original message |
26. Do you all have a sensitive pastor? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 10:14 PM Response to Original message |
27. yes, what harm could it do? on the other hand if she needed one and wasnt given one |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 11:20 PM Response to Original message |
28. Maybe you all need one. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 11:35 PM Response to Original message |
29. It definitely couldn't hurt, and it might help a lot. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 12:43 AM Response to Original message |
30. I have a different take on this. I would be reluctant to push it *unless* |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 12:53 AM Response to Original message |
31. I wish I had had that option when I married a man with three kids who had lost their mother. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 12:56 AM Response to Original message |
32. you already know the answer, Elrond n/t |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 01:01 AM Response to Original message |
33. Yeah ASAP |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 01:15 AM Response to Original message |
34. absolutely |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 01:57 AM Response to Original message |
35. Yes, Yes, Yes |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 06:00 AM Response to Original message |
36. Each situation is different. Grief is personal, with no time limits. |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
37. I think it is important kids go through grief the right way. She doens't sound out of the ordinary |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 01:36 PM Response to Reply #37 |
43. Not to pick but there really is no "right" way... which is why, sometimes |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 02:29 PM Response to Reply #43 |
44. That's true - everyone goes through it differently but there are some benchmarks |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 02:32 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. I don't subscribe to the stages of grief. Otherwise I agree with |
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WannaBeGrumpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
38. Me and BabyG got to this thing through hospice called Sandcastles.... |
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Throckmorton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 11:03 AM Response to Original message |
39. Yes, And speak from personal experiance |
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Coyote_Bandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
40. Speaking from experience |
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RFKHumphreyObama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 12:17 PM Response to Original message |
41. I'm so sorry for your family Elrond |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-09-08 01:33 PM Response to Original message |
42. Absolutely. I'm assuming this opinion has been backed up by many who agree. |
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