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romantico (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 10:49 AM Original message |
I'm 37 and she is 22. Can This Work? |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 10:53 AM Response to Original message |
1. Age is a number |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 12:37 PM Response to Reply #1 |
14. You betcha. Good advice. |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 02:57 AM Response to Reply #14 |
47. If you can accept that she will not have the frame of reference you do... |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
2. I know a couple who have been married nearly 40 years and they have a 13 year age gap |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
3. You're both adults... |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 11:46 AM Response to Reply #3 |
6. In 13 years you will be 50 and she will be 35. That is when the age thing hits home. |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 11:32 AM Response to Original message |
4. Bahahahahaha! Sorry.... |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 07:45 PM Response to Reply #4 |
28. You're still a hottie... |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 08:14 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. Oh gawd, so are you! |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
5. I've always seen it as less about age and more about where you are in life. |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 11:48 AM Response to Original message |
7. What are you looking for here? I'm bothered that you mention |
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romantico (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 12:35 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. Well |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
8. I had a similar age difference with my ex. |
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MilesColtrane (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 11:52 AM Response to Original message |
9. Sure, it can. |
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Mountainman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 08:12 PM Response to Reply #9 |
32. OK, I'm 62, so I should find a 39 year old? |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 09:21 PM Response to Reply #32 |
39. Why not? n/m |
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backwoodsbob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
10. of course it can work |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
11. if you say yes, to that same question every day for the rest of |
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Flaxbee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
12. I got married when I was 29, he was 44; we're now |
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mcctatas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 12:53 PM Response to Original message |
15. When my husband and I met, I was 21 and he was 34... |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 12:53 PM Response to Original message |
16. Sure, if you're looking to impress at your 20th high school reunion |
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dembotoz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
17. the difference is a consideration. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 03:55 PM Response to Original message |
18. power differences is what you need to watch out for |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 09:31 AM Response to Reply #18 |
52. This is the only advice I think the OP needs to read. nt |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 09:37 AM Response to Reply #52 |
53. thanks honey! |
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kath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
19. well, if you were a woman who wanted a relationship with a 15 yrs-younger man, you'd be called all |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 04:46 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. So what's your point? |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 09:23 AM Response to Reply #20 |
51. Stigma on men dating much younger women? Well there SHOULD be a stigma if.... |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 09:21 AM Response to Reply #19 |
50. Exactly........... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 08:25 PM Response to Reply #19 |
59. I call myself a "cougar" |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 05:13 PM Response to Original message |
21. You decide. You'll both take a little ribbing, and from some people; |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 07:31 PM Response to Original message |
22. Do you have the same goals in life? Are you both interested (or not) in starting a family? Because |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 07:39 PM Response to Original message |
23. Yes, age is just a number. |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 07:42 PM Response to Original message |
24. Just depends on the people. |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 07:43 PM Response to Original message |
25. As long as you guys are happy with working the parts together... |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 07:44 PM Response to Original message |
26. No. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 07:45 PM Response to Original message |
27. I was 19 and ThinkBlue1966 was 32. It can definitely work. |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 07:46 PM Response to Original message |
29. I'm 47 and she's 31... |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 01:51 AM Response to Reply #29 |
42. She must have been a baby when Lelapin was born! |
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az chela (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
30. Age is just a number.My son is your age and I am always |
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Mountainman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 08:06 PM Response to Original message |
31. Yes, I was 40 and she was 23. This year is our 23 wedding anniversary. |
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romantico (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 08:33 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. Thanks! |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 09:18 PM Response to Reply #31 |
37. Yeah, but how big's the age difference now? |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
35. Probably Not In The Long Run |
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TheFriendlyAnarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 08:41 PM Response to Original message |
36. There's a good 9 year difference in my parents' ages, |
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callous taoboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
38. One question: Does she know Aretha Franklin? |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 08:01 AM Response to Reply #38 |
49. She don't remember the queen of soul! |
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callous taoboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 08:44 AM Response to Reply #49 |
60. Will these two be able to dance together, or talk at all? |
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ThoughtCriminal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
40. Rule of thumb |
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Pushed To The Left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-22-08 09:46 PM Response to Original message |
41. Only 2 opinions that matter: yours and hers. If you two are happy, I say go for it! |
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Rosco T. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 02:00 AM Response to Original message |
43. Age is a question of mind over matter... |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 02:04 AM Response to Original message |
44. My serious answer is; Only one way to find out. |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 02:05 AM Response to Original message |
45. In the gay community its not that uncommon |
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1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 02:46 AM Response to Original message |
46. i guess it would depend on the definition of "can this work"... |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 07:33 AM Response to Original message |
48. From personal experience |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 09:55 AM Response to Original message |
54. YES!!!! (n/t) |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 11:40 AM Response to Original message |
55. my wife and I are 8.5 years apart and we get along great |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 11:41 AM Response to Original message |
56. Haruka was 23 when we first started seeing each other |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 11:46 AM Response to Original message |
57. Well, A) You will have something in common with McSame.. |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 12:12 PM Response to Original message |
58. Of course it *can* work, but the question is will it? |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 09:34 AM Response to Original message |
61. It can probably work |
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