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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 10:59 PM Original message |
How do you relate to a friend who has had a family member murdered? |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 11:24 PM Response to Original message |
1. Willl no one respond to me tonight? Maybe it's too late for something this serious. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 11:26 PM Response to Original message |
2. Listen to her... |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 11:41 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. Thanks, pawkicker ... |
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easttexaslefty (740 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 05:44 PM Response to Reply #2 |
28. Southpawkicker |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
3. Sounds like this |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 01:16 AM Response to Reply #3 |
13. Yup, she is definitely hurting right now. I just don't want to add to it. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 11:35 PM Response to Original message |
4. You are describing me. |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 12:11 AM Response to Reply #4 |
9. That you for your perspective, MrsGrumpy. |
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grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 05:18 PM Response to Reply #4 |
26. I remember when my dad died just before Christmas several years ago. |
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easttexaslefty (740 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 05:45 PM Response to Reply #4 |
29. Oh boy...do I ever understand, unfortunately |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
5. I've never been through anything like that. |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 12:28 AM Response to Reply #5 |
10. Thanks for your response. And I am sorry if I was confusing or didn't make it clear. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-23-08 11:47 PM Response to Original message |
7. Aw, Lil Missy... |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 12:30 AM Response to Reply #7 |
11. Thanks Peg, |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 12:02 AM Response to Original message |
8. Can understand your sympathy for what she's going through |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 12:47 AM Response to Reply #8 |
12. Thanks Whoa_Nelly, but I respectfully disagree on a major point. |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 10:24 AM Response to Reply #12 |
19. Apologies |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 05:52 PM Response to Reply #19 |
31. I can see how you took it that way. My apologies for not being clear. |
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yewberry (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 01:23 AM Response to Original message |
14. It is really hard, no matter what you do |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 01:50 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Thank you, tofunut. |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 06:31 AM Response to Original message |
16. Be there. But set some boundaries for when they cross the line. |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 06:51 AM Response to Original message |
17. Although this may be |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 07:17 AM Response to Original message |
18. I dated someone whose sister was murdered |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 10:36 AM Response to Original message |
20. I had a family member murdered. |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 04:44 PM Response to Reply #20 |
21. Thanks for sharing your story about your dad. |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 04:46 PM Response to Original message |
22. Thank you all for your responses. |
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LiberalEsto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 05:09 PM Response to Original message |
23. Just listen |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 05:15 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. Wise statement. Thank you. |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
24. My Grandfather was murdered. |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 05:41 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. Ditto |
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easttexaslefty (740 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-24-08 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
30. What helps me is when people say his name |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-25-08 02:15 AM Response to Reply #30 |
33. Thank you for suggesting that I followed your advice and did that .... |
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easttexaslefty (740 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-25-08 12:47 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. I know it can be difficult to listen to that much pain |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-25-08 01:43 AM Response to Original message |
32. ***Update*** I did see her tonight, and she was totally cool. |
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1gobluedem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-25-08 10:14 AM Response to Original message |
34. A close friend of mine was murdered |
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