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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:55 PM Original message |
Why do so many guys make the same first date mistakes? |
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Pierre.Suave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:01 PM Response to Original message |
1. Maybe they are not smart enough to know that it isnt working for them... |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:01 PM Response to Original message |
2. Peacock. |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:07 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Wait... are you telling me the four-page (including cover sheet) resume I print out before every |
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keroro gunsou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:42 PM Response to Reply #5 |
12. funny story... |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:09 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. That's how I've always felt. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:45 PM Response to Reply #6 |
13. It's the advertising age. |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:43 PM Response to Reply #6 |
87. Hell, I'm socially inept and even I know better than that... |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 03:27 AM Response to Reply #6 |
110. Oh man...you gotta be crazy to be going out with Phds. |
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CBHagman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 08:54 AM Response to Reply #110 |
114. And it's not just the PhDs... |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 07:31 PM Response to Reply #2 |
101. EXACTLY |
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Gato Moteado (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:04 PM Response to Original message |
3. i have a feeling that when you meet guys on internet dating sites.... |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:11 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. Some have been blind dates arranged by friends or colleagues |
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kentauros (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:08 PM Response to Reply #7 |
16. I was single until I was 36. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:14 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. Maybe I'll take up yoga |
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kentauros (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:47 AM Response to Reply #20 |
42. I had the same kind of frustration for constantly meeting married women |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:13 AM Response to Reply #42 |
45. Actually, I just came to the end of a three year "giving up" period |
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kentauros (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 11:13 PM Response to Reply #45 |
105. Thanks! :) |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 12:26 PM Response to Reply #20 |
116. Murder the wife, console the husband. Easy in, but he will want to talk about it instead of you. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 01:42 PM Response to Reply #116 |
118. Ew. |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 02:22 PM Response to Reply #118 |
122. Sorry, my post was so silly that I thought that it wasn't needed. |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:06 PM Response to Original message |
4. I had a blind date kind of like that once, a brazillion years ago. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:14 PM Response to Original message |
8. I've had that experience in the past. |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:15 PM Response to Original message |
9. Probably they are desperate to make a good impression |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:21 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Napoleon Dynamite came to mind |
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Ikonoklast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
11. I love to ask a date about themselves |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
14. I've got this one. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:10 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. Well |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:50 PM Response to Reply #17 |
27. if you were looking at it from a sociobiological viewpoint, some guys |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:02 AM Response to Reply #27 |
29. My profile actually states that I'd prefer a long haired geeky |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:09 AM Response to Reply #29 |
33. I married a guy who was a long-haired artist turned geeky programmer |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:23 AM Response to Reply #33 |
36. Funny. I attended an illustration Master Class for Fantasy illustrators |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-14-08 02:52 PM Response to Reply #36 |
136. I used to attend comic conventions when I was single |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:21 PM Response to Reply #29 |
71. well, the problem is, a lot of guys don't seem to actually read the profiles either |
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Debau2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:54 PM Response to Reply #71 |
91. Had a guy email me |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 02:08 PM Response to Reply #91 |
92. nice. I've seen some real gems my female friends have gotten on |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 01:40 PM Response to Reply #91 |
117. Obviously he just looked at the photo and never bothered to read the |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 02:21 PM Response to Reply #71 |
121. That's true |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:59 PM Response to Reply #17 |
28. Thanks. (Also some insight) |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:07 AM Response to Reply #28 |
31. Give Chuck a copy of the classic "How to win friends and influence people" |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
15. A friend of mine said that when she first met her current gentleman friend |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:13 PM Response to Original message |
18. Men are just babies with money. |
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1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:14 PM Response to Original message |
19. yap, yap, yap! "heh, baby... but enough about me. tell me... what do you think about me?" |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:16 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Lol! I could have saved three paragraphs by just writing that |
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1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:38 PM Response to Reply #21 |
24. hang in there. some good guys are out there. i feel for your pain in this effort... |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:09 AM Response to Reply #24 |
32. Thanks CasualWatcher9 |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:23 PM Response to Original message |
22. Did you try to talk about yourself? |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:30 PM Response to Reply #22 |
23. Oh yeah. I talked about what I wanted to do with my life |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:44 PM Response to Original message |
25. Frankly, he, or "they", sound desperate to control what you learn |
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Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:46 PM Response to Original message |
26. That's always amazed me, too.... |
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Fox Mulder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:04 AM Response to Original message |
30. I wasn't like that when I was on dates. |
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pokerfan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:17 AM Response to Original message |
34. Because he already knows he wants in your pants |
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Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:26 AM Response to Reply #34 |
38. Ahh, but that's where he err's.... |
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pokerfan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:29 AM Response to Reply #38 |
39. It's all about sincerity |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:21 AM Response to Original message |
35. Orville Redenbacher hit on you? That's hilarious - I'd love to hear that story... |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:30 AM Response to Reply #35 |
40. Heheh, well I thought it was funny (and gross)... |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:51 AM Response to Reply #40 |
43. Whoah, smooth operator! That's a player who avoids all the first-date mistakes... |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:15 AM Response to Reply #43 |
46. Lol! And he said that line with the same creepy grin he has in his |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:26 AM Response to Original message |
37. I have the solution. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:34 AM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Oh, but the emails before hand are always great! |
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bluesbassman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:02 AM Response to Original message |
44. Fear or ignorance mostly. |
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crimsonblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:26 AM Response to Original message |
47. I always ask the girl about herself |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:33 AM Response to Reply #47 |
48. And you probably get more than one date from them too! n/t |
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crimsonblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:47 AM Response to Reply #48 |
49. well if that's what I was going for, then I would. |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 06:27 AM Response to Original message |
50. What? You don't find them as fascinating as they do? nt |
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Kutjara (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 06:34 AM Response to Original message |
51. I was the opposite when I was dating. |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 03:22 AM Response to Reply #51 |
109. Asking questions is key, but they have to be open ended. And they have to be emotional. |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 07:45 AM Response to Original message |
52. I think that's weird.... |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 10:36 AM Response to Reply #52 |
59. Heheh, yeah, I'm just looking for the same easy give and take that I have |
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sentelle (659 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 08:00 AM Response to Original message |
53. you want the truth? |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 09:47 AM Response to Original message |
54. I haven't gotten past your first paragraph yet, but I am SO escited for this thread! |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
55. Because we are trying to signal that we are a good match |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 04:44 AM Response to Reply #55 |
111. I think you're maybe not really getting the point |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 08:05 AM Response to Reply #111 |
113. That is not true for the large majority of women |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 02:31 PM Response to Reply #111 |
124. I don't know about the "total bum" part, but witty and intelligent is a must |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 09:13 PM Response to Reply #124 |
129. I'll admit that if the conversation is going poorly |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 10:19 AM Response to Original message |
56. We may be more interested in selling the product... |
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Amerigo Vespucci (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
57. OK, OK, I REALLY enjoyed your post, but can we PLEASE talk about ME now? |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 10:40 AM Response to Reply #57 |
60. "I can't help it; it's my nature", said the scorpion |
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Amerigo Vespucci (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 11:13 AM Response to Reply #60 |
64. A classic line from Rob Zombie's film "The Devil's Rejects"... |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:13 PM Response to Reply #64 |
69. Sounds like most of my friendships with men |
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kay1864 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:29 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. Sadly, that guy probably thought he was being funny |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:49 PM Response to Reply #72 |
78. Ha! Sounds like the Smurf studio was like every other |
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kay1864 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:18 PM Response to Reply #78 |
84. Belle in push up bra and fishnets? That's SICK! |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:28 PM Response to Reply #84 |
86. I'm also on "Democratic Match", but I've run into the very same thing there |
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kay1864 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:47 PM Response to Reply #86 |
89. Too bad...you seem like quite a catch |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 10:11 AM Response to Reply #89 |
115. Aww ,thanks |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 02:39 PM Response to Reply #86 |
125. The men on Democratic Singles mostly post political tirades against Bush |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 04:50 AM Response to Reply #84 |
112. Drinking Liberally's not a dating website |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 04:10 PM Response to Reply #78 |
95. that's hilarious! |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:47 PM Response to Reply #69 |
77. Lorien, the guy you're quoting... |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 10:35 AM Response to Original message |
58. I see this all the time; most people speak in "I, me, my". There are exceptions, but hard to find. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 10:44 AM Response to Reply #58 |
61. All humanity-or Americans specifically? |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 11:18 AM Response to Reply #61 |
66. All humanity. There MAY be some cultural exceptions, but I really doubt it. |
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panhead1961 (363 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
62. To use an air pump instead of trying to blow her up up yourself? |
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Locrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 10:58 AM Response to Original message |
63. ummm, because maybe he's, like, a loser? |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 11:15 AM Response to Reply #63 |
65. One of a very long line of them. There seems to be two types left |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
67. if it makes any sense, i am the polar opposite of Joe |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 11:22 AM Response to Original message |
68. Because most men aren't looking for a relationship, they're looking for an accessory that also fucks |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:20 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. I can rewrite this post exhibiting "women's" shallows uses for men. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:32 PM Response to Reply #70 |
73. Sadly, the older I grow, the more I realize that, it seems, an awful lot of people are shallow. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:35 PM Response to Reply #73 |
75. I think it is fear based; like consumerism. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:00 PM Response to Reply #75 |
80. I think that you have a good point there. Like the Marilyn Manson quote |
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Love Bug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:57 PM Response to Reply #68 |
79. Jesus, Rabrrrrrr, are you serious? |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:02 PM Response to Reply #79 |
81. Not *all* - just most. |
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Love Bug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 02:32 PM Response to Reply #81 |
93. I've attended many a science fiction convention in my time |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:10 PM Response to Reply #68 |
82. Gawd. That IS depressing |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:19 PM Response to Reply #82 |
85. Women liberating themselves sexually has lowered the bar for men. |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 03:08 AM Response to Reply #68 |
108. You speak the truth. People are shallow as fuck. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 02:42 PM Response to Reply #68 |
126. When you get into my age group, they're looking for a |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:33 PM Response to Original message |
74. I could have written this post |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 06:48 PM Response to Reply #74 |
98. .... |
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MsTryska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:41 PM Response to Original message |
76. *lol* my last internet date went like this: |
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Debau2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:52 PM Response to Reply #76 |
90. Internet dates! |
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MsTryska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 02:46 PM Response to Reply #90 |
94. well congrats on your marriage |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 06:51 PM Response to Reply #90 |
99. Congradulations on your marriage! though now I have to ask |
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Debau2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 08:38 PM Response to Reply #99 |
102. We met on... |
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skypilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:16 PM Response to Original message |
83. This isn't just a dating thing. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 09:59 PM Response to Reply #83 |
104. Yep, that sounds pretty much exactly like what I'm coming across again |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:44 PM Response to Original message |
88. What exactly is a date? (n/t) |
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TrogL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 04:19 PM Response to Original message |
96. Wanna date? You'd love me |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
97. If you have to ask for suggestions for a technique to |
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pink-o (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 07:29 PM Response to Original message |
100. Without getting all "Venus and Mars", men are just wired differently from us. |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 08:41 PM Response to Original message |
103. Try UUsingles.com |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 01:42 PM Response to Reply #103 |
119. Thanks, I'll look into it! |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 11:45 PM Response to Reply #119 |
130. Check out the Unitarians. |
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Pushed To The Left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 01:54 AM Response to Original message |
106. These days, I just try to be myself when I go on dates. What they see is what they get. |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 03:03 AM Response to Original message |
107. I'm the best first dater I know....the ONLY thing I do is ask questions. |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
120. Cause they are just trying to get into your shorts. |
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bullwinkle428 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 02:27 PM Response to Original message |
123. Well, I met my girlfriend through speed dating, just over 6 months ago - |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
127. I saw your picture in another thread |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-14-08 02:55 AM Response to Reply #127 |
131. Aw, Thanks |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-14-08 07:31 AM Response to Reply #131 |
133. If you want to find men that don't care about material things |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-14-08 09:58 AM Response to Reply #133 |
134. Done that |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-14-08 10:10 AM Response to Reply #134 |
135. Well there are volunteer activities and volunteer organizations |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-13-08 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
128. Sometimes I'm tempted to be downright rude |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-14-08 03:02 AM Response to Reply #128 |
132. Well, that would cut to the chase now wouldn't it? |
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CBHagman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-14-08 03:39 PM Response to Reply #132 |
137. I'm going to have to find that quotation... |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-14-08 04:06 PM Response to Original message |
138. I never dated |
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montanto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-14-08 04:29 PM Response to Original message |
139. Because they are idiots. |
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