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Digit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 12:05 AM
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What if you knew your mgr called his wife to bring in her prescription drugs
For a co-worker who had a migraine, and traveled from home bringing the drugs, and you witnessed it being handed to the co-worker. The co-worker took the drugs and was miraculously better an hour later.
We are talking prescription drugs here....I had regular aspirin on hand.

The mgr is an SOB of the worst sort who just got you (me) fired for bogus crap.

Would you be tempted to spend your own money for a lie detector test to send to HR or would you keep your trap shut and know you may not be able to find another job in this economy and may end up losing your house as a result.

Yep, I am a tad bitter. If I had done shared prescription drugs, I would have been gone a LONG time ago.
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MsTryska Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 12:22 AM
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1. i share prescription drugs all the time - so i'm not the best person to ask.
If it were me i'd skip it - if they helped the coworker in pain - they helped. Migraines are horrible.


I know you're angry right now - but i'd let this one go. Take some time off - get the unemployment worked out, and regroup for the next job.
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Digit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 12:52 AM
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4. This company does not allow unemployment....
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LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 01:13 AM
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9. You can fight them on that. n/t
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lukasahero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 09:03 AM
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12. That's illegal.
Unless you've been fired for cause, they can't "not allow" unemployment. That's not their call to make.
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MsTryska Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 10:31 AM
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16. if they fired you you should be eligible for unemployment
from the State. At least that's how it workds here in Georgia.
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 11:57 PM
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24. If you're fired you get unemployment.
Not the company's decision.
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1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 09:28 PM
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23. and if the drugs helped, perhaps talk to your coworker into approaching a doctor...
for a prescription...

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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 12:31 AM
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2. It's migrane medication, not heroin.
I'd let it go.
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 12:32 AM
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3. consenting adults yadda yadda n/t
None of my business.

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Digit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 12:54 AM
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5. Extremely strict company, or I would not have even brought it up.
That's all I have.
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Fenris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 12:57 AM
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6. Is there a company policy prohibiting the exchange of pharmaceuticals between spouses?
I think I am failing to see the scandal in all of this.
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Digit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 01:10 AM
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8. The mgr called his wife in order to give it to a CO-WORKER
NON-RELATED.
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LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 12:59 AM
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7. I'd leave it alone. Happens all the time. JMO. n/t
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 03:25 AM
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10. What a strange and petty urge on your part. Also: "...I had regular aspirin on hand"?! Do you
even know what a migraine is?

There are so many things wrong with your OP, but the worst thing about it IMO is your obliviousness to the pain of a coworker. Also to a little thing called the integrity of your own employment record. The last thing you want to do if you're newly unemployed is pointlessly burn the last company you worked for.

If you do go to HR, you better hope no one there suffers from migraine.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 10:50 AM
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19. Yeah, I thought that about the aspirin, too
I get migraines. People who don't get them have no idea. And, asprin pretty much works for NOTHING, imo, not even a regular hedaache. At least for me.
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lukasahero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 09:02 AM
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11. As a migraine sufferer, trust, "regular aspirin" ain't gonna cut it
Let it go.
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suninvited Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 09:21 AM
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13. I have had migraines before
Edited on Fri Aug-29-08 09:53 AM by Imagine In Texas
and no amount of narcotics cause you to be miraculously better an hour later.

It was probably Imitrex or something related, and is non narcotic.

I first discovered Imitrex when one of my employees had her wife (who worked for a doctor) bring me some Imitrex one day when I was in horrible pain. Yes, she probably could have gotten in trouble for doing it. The girl did me a huge favor.

On Edit: Imitrex is also over the counter in Europe.
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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 09:25 AM
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14. I doubt your charges would cause him to lose his job
but it could end up hurting you, in terms of you burning your bridges
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noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 09:38 AM
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15. I don't understand the relevance of you having aspirin.
That's like saying you don't know why they called 911 after someone's hand was cut off - you had a band-aid on hand.

If aspirin were effective for your coworker, I promise they would have gladly taken it. If they didn't, accept that they know it wasn't going to work. When I have a migraine, aspirin's about as useful as offering me a stick of gum.

I would suggest alerting on your own thread and asking the mods to delete it, because it makes you look small-minded and nasty to be mulling over the possibilities for getting two people fired because one took pity on the other when they were in pain. I'm glad you aren't my coworker.
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 10:38 AM
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17. I get migraines - I'd mind my own business
And be happy it wasn't me who was suffering with one.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 10:47 AM
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18. For something like this, it doesn't bother me at all
Edited on Fri Aug-29-08 10:48 AM by LostinVA
Some migraine-type meds that are script only here are OTC in alost of Europe. When my sister lived in Germany, she used to send me this OTC green pill that worked wonders. I can't remember the name of it, but I know it was script only here. I actually think it was nice of the boss to do that.

It would be different if it was Vicodin, Ritalin, etc.

My mom and sister are both nurses, and we all share meds (and they send me free samples) all the time. We are very bad.
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 08:27 PM
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20. Once or twice, I'd not notice. After the second time, I'd find a way to comment
to the recipient about the medical dangers posed by prescription drugs: for example, two or three days later, at lunch time, mentioning a story about some medical emergency created by a similar event, told as is completely ignorant of the events and with the comment How can people be so careless of their health?

If it occurred regularly, I'd assume it wasn't migraine medication but drug-dealing, I'd stay as far away from it as possible and remain as ignorant of it as possible, while diligently looking for another job
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 08:30 PM
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21. Well, being spiteful wont get you your job back.
If you can live with yourself, sure why not turn him in?
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-29-08 09:19 PM
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22. I know several coworkers who have shared medication
In situations where the cowrker would have had to left work and possibly sought medical attention without that help. If the person turns out to have a chronic condition, they should really see a doctor and get their own prescription. Sometimes occaisions arise though where a person just begins exhibting symptoms or perhaps hadn't had problems with their condition for a while and no longer had medicine.
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S n o w b a l l Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-30-08 12:12 AM
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25. WTF? Jesus Christ...
I'm glad I don't work with most of you. It's not anybody's fucking business what kind of medication you're on,prescription or non prescription as long as you do your job. Talk about pettiness...sorry, but you're it. .
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Lil Missy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-30-08 12:15 AM
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26. I'd drop it. Since you were fired, it would sound like "sour grapes".
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