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Critizing/talking about a grown man who is still living with his, mom. Not because she needs his help. But he has spoiled him. he works as a bag boy at a store. He could get a better job, he has no health problems. He has just been spoiled by his mom. She does not make him pay any bills or help out with the household chores. He just lives there. Btw he is close to 40. He has no car. either he drives his moms's or she takes him to work. He has been like this all of his life. He doesn't do anything b/c she lets him get away with it. I was moody b/c I had a someone try to set me up with him. And set up it would be.
someone told me that me talking about this moocher (and that is what he is doing..) is the same as someone poking fun of someone for the way they look, their weight, their disablity etc.
Those things can't be helped. However, the guy is just lazy and spoiled. has been spoiled by his mother. She does everything for him. Up to putting up his laundrey. I could understand if he was menatll handicapped. But he is not. No ilness of any sort.
I'm getting a lecture on a message where I was talking in between friends only. one of my friends told me that i was being mean by complaining about the dude. Maybe i am...but I can't stand to see someone mooching off their mom. I understand that someone may lose their job and may have to go to their parents for help. but how many people would just do nothing to help their parents out? Even if it was to buy some food, or cook dinner? How many would have your mom fold your underroos for you? or sit there on the computer all day while your mom was cleaning the house?
(yes, his mom is to blame too).
But anyhow (Excuse the not making any sense. my meds are kicking in).
Me talking about a moocher...worse a mom moocher..to someone talking about me having MS. Or talking about someone who has a crappy job but is still doing what they can. and would feel bad if they had to go to their parents for help.
I've known other guys, who refused to work or would be fired from differnet jobs b/c they ener showed up for work. Their girlfriends would have to support both of them..as well as do all the housework.
To me, Moocher is not the same as somene who has fallen on hard times due lay offs or an illness.
Moocher are just people that got spoiled by their parents.
did I make any sense? I'm stoned off my meds.
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