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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-27-08 11:53 PM Original message |
Poll question: Have you ever known or had to deal with a narcissist personality? |
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Fire Walk With Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-27-08 11:56 PM Response to Original message |
1. Yes. |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 12:00 AM Response to Original message |
2. yes. |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 12:21 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Do tell! Details? |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 07:55 AM Response to Reply #5 |
23. I would rather |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 09:11 AM Response to Reply #23 |
31. Same here. |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 10:09 AM Response to Reply #31 |
33. yeah...I know .. |
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AirmensMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 02:11 PM Response to Reply #33 |
41. ... |
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AirmensMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 02:11 PM Response to Reply #31 |
40. Here, too. |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-29-08 08:46 AM Response to Reply #2 |
64. Quick story: I worked with a Tech once who was a nasty, nasty Human being. |
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patomime (274 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 12:15 AM Response to Original message |
3. ...yes... |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 12:20 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. OMG! How could I forget about THAT one!! |
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patomime (274 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 12:50 AM Response to Reply #4 |
10. I know... |
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nytemare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 12:24 AM Response to Original message |
6. Sounds like both might be antisocial as well. |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 12:29 AM Response to Original message |
7. Yes |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 12:44 AM Response to Reply #7 |
9. I think the woman is more the pathological and destructive kind you refer to. |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 12:56 AM Response to Reply #9 |
12. NPD-ers are resistant to treatment. |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 01:00 AM Response to Reply #12 |
13. here's a really good web site |
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Flying Dream Blues (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 09:49 PM Response to Reply #9 |
51. The lying, public scenes and selective memory make me think of borderline personality disorder. |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-29-08 02:24 AM Response to Reply #51 |
56. I've wondered about BPD too. She always gets absolutely hysterical when called on bad behavior. |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 12:35 AM Response to Original message |
8. I went to college with approximately |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 12:55 AM Response to Original message |
11. Its actually a fairly common personality disorder |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 01:22 AM Response to Original message |
14. No, but everyone I know has had to deal with one. nt |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 07:52 AM Response to Reply #14 |
22. you--- |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 01:50 AM Response to Original message |
15. I dated one. |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 02:03 AM Response to Reply #15 |
17. I am convinced they don't truly "know" anyone else, because .. |
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Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 02:12 PM Response to Reply #15 |
42. That should make it easy to avoid such people in future! |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-29-08 08:27 AM Response to Reply #15 |
63. From your first and second paragraph, sounds like he was BPD. |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 01:57 AM Response to Original message |
16. Deal with a narcissist? Every time I look in the mirror... |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 02:29 AM Response to Reply #16 |
18. Ya bastige! |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 01:53 PM Response to Reply #18 |
36. Bastige? I'm a fargin' icehole! n/t |
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FloridaJudy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 03:57 AM Response to Original message |
19. Throw in a little Borderline Personality Disorder |
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Kickin_Donkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 05:29 AM Response to Original message |
20. Yes. It's one of life's great displeasures ... |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 06:00 AM Response to Original message |
21. Hell, I make Narcissus himself look like a self-loather. |
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tismyself (501 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 08:35 AM Response to Original message |
24. they are like dementors |
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CBHagman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 08:43 AM Response to Reply #24 |
25. Now there's an interesting analogy... |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 02:04 PM Response to Reply #25 |
38. please note.... |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 05:36 PM Response to Reply #25 |
44. Thanks for providing that list. Sure sounds like the woman I refer to. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 08:55 AM Response to Original message |
26. Jeebus. Hubby is a shrink and he had one in treatment several years ago |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 05:40 PM Response to Reply #26 |
45. What a nightmare!!! Scary! |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 09:02 AM Response to Original message |
27. How do I deal with MYSELF?!1 Or with circa 100,000 other DUers?!1 n/t |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 09:02 AM Response to Original message |
28. Know one?! One has been squatting in the WH for nearly eight years. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 09:04 AM Response to Original message |
29. the stbe's mom is classic narcissitic personality |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 09:04 AM Response to Original message |
30. Oh, yes |
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lizerdbits (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 09:52 AM Response to Original message |
32. A coworker who just quit |
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Bennyboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
34. Unfortunately, every single day of my life...... |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
35. No, I rarely go to GDP. |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
37. Yes, also someone in a power position at work. |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 02:07 PM Response to Original message |
39. Yes, god. There is flaming queen (and I say that as a gay guy) at work that sits near me.... |
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femmocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 05:26 PM Response to Original message |
43. Unfortunately I have worked for several school administrators who fit that bill. |
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BreweryYardRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 08:51 PM Response to Original message |
46. Joining the "Mother was a narcissist" club. |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-29-08 02:39 AM Response to Reply #46 |
57. I can take your word for it, and I know they can be very toxic. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 09:09 PM Response to Original message |
47. yes, and I've written about it here before |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 09:12 PM Response to Original message |
48. Yes & it sucks. |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 09:21 PM Response to Original message |
49. Yes, and he's been gone for over two years and I am still dealing with it all. |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-29-08 03:00 AM Response to Reply #49 |
58. As I mentioned above, I am not on this womans radar right now. |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 09:35 PM Response to Original message |
50. I disagree with your OP |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-28-08 10:46 PM Response to Original message |
52. Hell yes... |
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mokawanis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-29-08 12:03 AM Response to Original message |
53. Yes, I work in a psychiatric hospital |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-29-08 01:12 AM Response to Original message |
54. Yes, and that is why I am unemployed |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-29-08 01:23 AM Response to Original message |
55. Yes, a coworker who always asked people if they knew how "blessed" |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-29-08 03:10 AM Response to Reply #55 |
60. I would have taken taken that joint out of her mouth and thrown it out the window. |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-29-08 03:02 AM Response to Original message |
59. Yes |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-29-08 03:33 AM Response to Original message |
61. I find it rather interesting that there is not one single "NO" vote. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-29-08 08:24 AM Response to Original message |
62. Both these people may be narcissists, but sounds like they're bullies for certain. |
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Z_I_Peevey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-29-08 09:36 AM Response to Original message |
65. Only one at work, and we all work around her. |
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