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Well, of course, I am... But now that I have your attention, let me be more specific! :)
As expected, the word of my newly-single status has hit the gossip mill (which I hate, but what can you do?) of the relatively small community and crowds where I run and frolic. Now, all of a sudden, guys are hitting on me and it makes me uncomfortable, quite frankly. I guess I should be flattered and enjoying it, but it's enough to keep me home most nights. I've been telling people that it's just "too soon" but I know from past experience that it's not going to get any better.
I don't know what the root is. I can honestly admit that I don't take complements well, either; again, they make me feel uncomfortable and anxious- I don't know how to respond, usually. Part of it could be shyness- I AM shy, but not horribly so. And a lot of the fellas hitting on me are people that I know to some extent. But that, in itself, makes it weird- I see them as friends, and not potential "dates."
My gut tells me that some self-esteem issues might be at work here. I just really don't see myself as any great catch, so it puzzles me (on some levels) why anyone would be interested. This isn't to say that I'm depressed, or have a pathologically low opinion of myself (after all- children and small animals generally don't run away screaming at the sight of me! LOL).
Anyhoo... I was just wondering if anybody else got the heebie-jeebies about being scouted in that way. As I said- it SHOULD be something that is comforting or ego-boosting, but instead it makes me want to crawl under a rock and avoid social situations... <sigh>.... What a mess, I am!
Thanks for any input, Loungers!
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