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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:29 AM
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Did you guys know the Duggars have had their home declared a "church"
and therefore tax exempt? How dishonest is that?!
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Tangerine LaBamba Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:32 AM
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1. No shit?
Really?

Well, given the never-ending self-indulgence those cretins demonstrate by littering Mother Earth with their spawn, why would I be surprised that they're nothing but self-indulgent cheats?

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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 11:58 AM
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22. They say it's a "home church". I have no idea how they convinced the IRS,
but they did. A colleague called me last night to wish me a Merry Christmas and ask how my service went. When I told her I was watching the Duggar marathon, she asked if I knew their house was tax exempt. They claim to worship there, they videotape sermons and make podcasts, and have other people over for worship. Apparently. I found several references to this on the web but nothing that absolutely documents it. Still, it would help to explain how they support all those kids.
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Tangerine LaBamba Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 12:42 PM
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28. Lovely.
So they produce the kids and we get to support them.

Ah, wouldn't Jesus be proud?

(Is the insertion of that "sarcasm" emoticon really necessary here?)
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riverdeep Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:19 PM
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38. And that's what renders the argument
that it's simply their 'choice' quite mute. Personal choices have wide ranging impact in the real world.
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Tangerine LaBamba Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:30 PM
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39. "Choice" implies responsibility
That's not a whole lot to expect from people who are ostensibly mature enough to begin reproducing.

A lot of us are responsible.

Some aren't.

Selfish morans.
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Tangerine LaBamba Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:30 PM
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40. "Choice" implies responsibility
That's not a whole lot to expect from people who are ostensibly mature enough to begin reproducing.

A lot of us are responsible.

Some aren't.

Selfish morans.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 09:27 PM
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48. There are such things as home churches, but this does seem like a real comvenience for them
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mcctatas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:32 AM
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2. No way!!!!
really? Well hell, I could start a church in my house, sign me up!
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:34 AM
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3. I guess the tax write-off for 17 dependents wasn't enough for them.
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:35 AM
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4. ahem It is now 18 as of a few days ago.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:37 AM
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6. Probably incubating #19 by now.
It's been a few days.
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texanwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 03:08 AM
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13. I watch the show last night and Mom was hinting that #18 might be the last.
There were buying new baby stuff.

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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 03:11 AM
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14. Considering her age, it's a fair bet.
She's what, 42? Conception gets kinda difficult around then. I think my grandmother finally had her last at that age.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 10:23 AM
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17. Jim Bob said they both would like to have more.
But she had three c-sections already.
Maybe her OB-GYN is telling her to stop?
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spinbaby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 07:01 PM
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46. I were her OB-GYN
I'd have tied off a couple of vital parts while I was in there.

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Dont_Bogart_the_Pretzel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 01:11 PM
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31. It won't be the last one until GOD tells them so!
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foxfeet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 12:18 AM
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54. Are we sure her uterus didn't finally just fall out on the floor?
And (shudder) would that mean surrogacy with one of the older daughters is in the offing?
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:40 AM
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7. lol!
That's crazy. But you know what, they sure are cashing in on it with all the notoriety they are getting. Maybe that was the plan all along.
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 03:02 AM
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9. I believe that someone posted that there actually was a Duggar Family marathon today on TLC.
Edited on Thu Dec-25-08 03:07 AM by BrklynLiberal
I think it should be on the CHILLER channel.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 12:40 PM
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27. There have got to be easier ways to gain notoriety.
I guess this was all they could think of.
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:36 AM
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5. What a crock of crapola!!!
So now they do not even have to pay taxes...
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GinaMaria Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:41 AM
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8. Was that on their TV show?
How did you find that out? Can anyone declare their home a church? Not saying I would but, it's interesting to know what the criteria is.
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 03:04 AM
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11. Someone posted that question and got some answers, which include
the info about the Duggars having their house be a church.


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081018014101AA6aFvp
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GinaMaria Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 03:06 AM
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12. Thanks for the link
Edited on Thu Dec-25-08 03:10 AM by GinaMaria
Strange people.

From one of the posts in the link

Looking at the Duggar family (family of almost 20 - featured on the Discovery channel), they operate their home as a church, in addition to everything else they use their home for, and due to this they have a large amount of tax ride-offs. This has all been stated through their website and the reality-based show about them, so it's obviously not an impossible task.
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Lil Missy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 03:03 AM
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10. Child abuse, plain and simple. As in, child slavery. But, odds are a few of them are gay! LOL!
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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 08:31 AM
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15. Well, they apparently worship the gestation process. n/t
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philosophie_en_rose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 08:41 AM
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16. The poor Duggar kids.
They girls get all the burdens of teen parents.
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FloridaJudy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 11:02 AM
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18. I am so not a nice person
Because being the IRS auditor for those obnoxious people sounds like a dream job to me.
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NYC_SKP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 11:17 AM
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19. My initial response, Fuck those pseudochristian tax cheat assholes.
From wikipedia:

Michelle was named "Young Mother of the Year in Arkansas" in 2004<12><13>. The Duggars are conservative Baptists<14> who endorse the Quiverfull movement.
The Duggars state that their children are blessings from God. When they initially married, Michelle miscarried while on birth control. After no longer using it she was able to conceive many more times <15> .
Jim Bob Duggar is a former state legislator who served in the Arkansas House of Representatives from 1999 to 2002. The Duggars now say their income is derived from the commercial properties they own <16><17>. The Duggars claim they live debt-free <18><19> which Jim Bob has said is "the fruit of Jim Sammons' Financial Freedom Seminar" he attended years ago.
The Duggars raise their children using the buddy system, in which an older sibling assists the younger sibling in daily tasks. The older buddy "will get the younger ones' meals" <20>. According to Michelle, "They help them with their little phonics lessons and games during the day and help them practice their music lessons. They will play with them or help them pick out the color of their outfit that they want to wear that day, and just all of those types of things." <21>


My findings:
Arkansas is heavy on teh stoopid in their case.
Michelle's miscarriage took some brain matter with it (with apologies to any who've experienced this sad thing).
If their income is derived from commercial property holdings, they need to not be gaming the system as "a church".
I'm disgusted with them, and it's sad that their lives are glorified in a teevee show.

rant off/
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 11:20 AM
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20. Well, not only has her quiver been full too many times, now they have to do this.
Gee, I'll make my own church too. We'll see if that flies.
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 11:34 AM
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21. Great to know that my tax $$$ are going to support conservative fundies
like the Duggars. These people are a prime example why the term Christian is a derogatory term in the eyes of many in this country. Idolaters, the lot of them.
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 12:04 PM
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23. Those people force their older kids to raise their younger ones.
Frankly, it's disgusting. The younger children have never had real, involved parents--just their older sibling "buddies."

:puke:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 11:32 PM
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52. And from what I understand it is the older GIRLS who are bearing the burden
of their parents' reproductive irresponsibility.
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 12:25 PM
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24. I have seen congregations with less members.
;-)
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 12:28 PM
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25. evil people do evil things under cover of god for $$$, gosh, who knew?
Edited on Thu Dec-25-08 12:28 PM by pitohui
of course they are dishonest, it's the nature of this particular animal to be dishonest

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Initech Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 01:49 PM
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36. Like the Bible itself says - "The dark one will pose as creature of light."
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jmowreader Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 12:39 PM
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26. It's not dishonest at all


You know how many times Michelle had to see God to do that? There's no way it's NOT a church!
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Tangerine LaBamba Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 12:45 PM
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30. It's so creepy,
the way they dress the girls.

Does anyone else smell "cult"?
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jmowreader Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 01:22 PM
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33. That's the other reason it was declared a church
More things that will creep you out...google "far above rubies curriculum." It's a homeschool "unit study" program that teaches girls the value of homemaking as a "full time" profession. Apparently it's been rewritten in recent years to claim you can be a full-time homemaker in addition to being a full-time something else, to get it away from its reputation as a book that trained girls in the joys of being barefoot and pregnant.
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laconicsax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 05:55 PM
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42. Cult: [kuhlt]:
noun
-A particular system of religious worship, esp. with reference to its rites and ceremonies.
-The formal means of expressing religious reverence; religious ceremony and ritual.
-A system of religious belief and worship.

So yes, they belong to a cult.

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ikojo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 06:49 PM
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45. I wonder why extreme fundie Christians insist upon
dressing their daughters as if they walked out of Little House on the Prairie? The boys get to dress in far more modern clothes and hair styles than do the girls.

I watched a program showcasing the Duggars when they had "only"16 kids and they were going on a cross country vacation in a motor home. They stopped at the home of another family who had 14 kids! The older daughters were in the kitchen comparing notes on MENUS and going to the store.

I wonder how many of the Duggar kids will have more than one or two kids if that much? I come from a family of seven. My mom was divorced when I was six. I always felt like I was a burden and that she would have been happier if she had not had as many kids. I never wanted kids and neither did my now deceased younger brother.
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NV Whino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 11:38 AM
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69. I dread the the day the kids reach breeding age
and some of them are very close.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 01:21 PM
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32. Nice mansion. Looks like something a slave owner used to own.
But I digress; looking at the kids' faces, I dare say anything from "half of" to "all of" them are inbred.
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jmowreader Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 01:33 PM
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34. Their lineage is a little creepy...
Blonde hair is a recessive allele--the child needs to receive it from both parents to be blonde. Both Duggars are dark-haired, but a third of their children are blonde? There are so many children in this family you'll see a lot of recessive traits come to the surface, assuming both parents carry them, but it's a little strange that this trait would surface in a third of their offspring.

Gregor Mendel would have a field day in the Duggars' house.
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FloridaJudy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 10:58 PM
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49. A lot of kids are blond when very young
But their hair darkens considerably by the time they reach adulthood. My hair was almost white as a toddler - it's light brown (well graying) now. My son's hair was the same way. His dad's eyes were gray, mine are hazel, and his are very light hazel.

Hair and eye color are a lot more complicated genetically than our high school science texts lead us to believe.
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dropkickpa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 03:09 AM
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64. Meh, it's not that simple
My parents are both dark haired (brown and black), out of 6 kids, 3 are red heads, 2 are blondes, and one is a brunette. 1 red headed grandpa and a light brown haired grandpa both grandma's brunettes.
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SoxFan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 11:05 AM
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68. I beg to differ
It looks like there should be a Quiznos and a video rental place in there.

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gmoney Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 12:42 PM
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29. Then I guess I could show up on Sunday morning and attend services?
Maybe they're getting "Faith Based Initiative" money from the gummint, too?
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CBGLuthier Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 01:44 PM
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35. Keep Hate Alive! Keep HATE Alive!
I love you guys.
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:02 PM
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37. we should always hate and fear thieves and hold them up to public scorn
jesus himself had unkind words for those who used religion as a path to wealth

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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 02:47 PM
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41. Where did I use the word "hate"? This family is raising 18 kids
using resources like any other group of 20 people, and not supporting the community which provides those resources. I'm open to debate over tax-exemptions for non-profits. But that home is clearly a home, and no more a valid tax-exemption than your home.

That's all.
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Tangerine LaBamba Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 06:44 PM
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44. You didn't, and there was nothing hateful implied
Some people just need to be noticed.

There. The poster was noticed.

And you're looking smarter than ever. Well done!

:toast:
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ikojo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 06:43 PM
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43. I read a book, Unchosen, about Hasidic Jews who leave the fold
In that book one of the Hasidic rebels told the author relates that some Hasidim will have their homes declared synagogues in order to benefit from the tax breaks. When I read that it made me sick.


http://tinyurl.com/78gkwd
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ThatsMyBarack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 07:03 PM
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47. ....
There was a 40-ish woman who lived in Arkansas.
She had so many children....her uterus fell out.

The End.
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 11:27 PM
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50. My house is now the Church of Skepticism.
We have two parishioners: me and my Sweetie.
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Pierre.Suave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-25-08 11:28 PM
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51. Is that legal?
Seriously, can they legally do that?
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 12:16 AM
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Pierre.Suave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 12:19 AM
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55. you are preaching to us about being judgemental, yet...
Edited on Fri Dec-26-08 12:21 AM by jasonc
in your third sentence I read this...

Most pre- teen to teenage girls like to dress like little whores these days, spaghetti-strapped tops and their navals showing, tons of eye makeup,


SO, you may want to come off that high horse before you fall off and hurt yourself...
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 12:31 AM
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Pierre.Suave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 12:40 AM
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57. Did you make your way onto the wrong forum?
By chance?
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astral Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 12:45 AM
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58. jasonc I come here alot
If you or anyone here disagrees with my point of view, you got two choices:

---1 tell me what is your problem with my opinion
---2 ignore me

Well, you got three choices:

---3 complain and have my post deleted.

I never had kids so honestly don't know what I'd do with a teenage or pre-teenage daughter who was stretching my limits. So I got no business having an opinion, I simply have an opinion.

Discussion? Debate? I read every word of every post here very carefully before deciding to post myself. I realize I am the dissenting opinion. And I find the topic very interesting.

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Pierre.Suave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 12:49 AM
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59. Well it is not me that deleted your post
Edited on Fri Dec-26-08 12:51 AM by jasonc
I prefer to leave things up so that the poster can live with what they have posted.

but I honestly think you are arguing an indefensible position, how much time do you think each individual kid gets with mom and dad a day? You are assuming that their life is great, do you have any basis for that belief other than an assumption?

Appearances are deceiving, especially in "christian" families that are putting themselves out in the media, keep that in mind when assuming things based on your limited understanding of this family.

Unless you know them personally, then you should tell all.
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astral Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 12:57 AM
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61. You are right I am filling in the blanks and assuming alot
but I do not see that different from everyone else assuming the worst about this family.

If the moderator would be so kind as to tell me what happened to my post and why it would be very much appreciated.

If I EVER do something against the rules here I would not have done it deliberately. I don't post alot but I read alot of posts and pop up with a word or two when it moves me to say something.

When I was a kid I thought it would have beeen nice to have been part of a larger family, as I was one of two siblings. In some ways I had it good and in some ways not so good, but seeing this family's story when they were putting their house up (and I don't have a TV of my own so I don't see everything that may have been up about them) I thought it was great, they looked really happy, and felt good about the whole thing, except not being able to understand how one woman could actually want to go through pregnancy so many times.

I did not know about the church - tax shelter (if that's what it is) until reading it here tonite.

Do people know other pretty humungous families that they can desscribe what they see about the lifestyle these families lead? Here is another 'assumption' of mine-- people who wanna have a huge pile of kids are going to be way more involved in their family life than people who simply go 'oops, here comes another one!' every now and then, not really planning their pregnancies but simply going with the flow.

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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 12:54 AM
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60. Oy vey.
Because if a girl does not dress herself "respectfully" a boy/man cannot possibly be expected to respect her, and must go at her like a rutting deer.

:eyes:

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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 01:01 AM
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62. That is not exactly an ideal situation.
I guess I'm on a high-horse, then. I know when I was a kid parents had some reigns to pull in when it came to how you dressed to go out in public. I was pointing out at people complaining about how the girls were dressed in the family picture. Those kids are growing up with family values.

Those girls are having to raise all of their mom's younger babies. Having done that (with just one) and having discussed that with with my aunt (who did so long enough ago that the kids she raised are all over 60, one's had a stroke and one's long dead) I think I can say that's really not a fair thing to do to a kid.

"Family Values?" Now, what the heck are THOSE?

I'd say it's appreciating the family members you have, not trying to collect 'em all like Pokemon. Oh, and valuing Mom for something other than a full auto Baby Shooter (TM).

They are growing up with a close-knit family life and how many kids are raised that way now?

They have to SCHEDULE time with their parents. That's not a close knit family life. You can't be close to eighteen kids at once and still sleep. It's just not possible.

How many young girls are being taught by their parents to dress their body respectfully?

Teaching them to fear sex and putting them in little house on the prarie outfits is not teaching them to respect their body. It's shame.

How many parents are taking the time to teach their kids ANYTHING? Eating dinner together at home? Healthy natural food?

Please go look on the recipe section of their website. They wouldn't know a healthy natural food unless you drowned it in cream of mushroom soup and tater tots.

These kids got it MADE. They are very fortunate and I'll just bet they might know it too.

They've got money. What they don't have is 1. a childhood 2. regular one on one time with attentive parents. I had a pretty fucked up childhood, and I wouldn't trade mine for theirs in a million years.
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Pierre.Suave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 01:05 AM
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63. Very good points
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 05:20 AM
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65. Good post
I'll add: Mom is having more babies not because she wants more, she's having them because she thinks God wants her to have more.

Got it? :shrug:
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 09:48 AM
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67. excellent post.nt
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 09:46 AM
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66. how do you know they are good? by their amazing ability to breed?
this sort of behavior is highly selfish and selfcentered. if we all had 18 kids, do you think the planet can sustain it?

this is their god's earth.. they should make some effort to protect it!
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astral Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 12:02 PM
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70. Okay at what number of kids should the line be drawn?
Is six or eight too many? Eleven?
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 12:05 PM
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71. yes, those are all far too many. isnt protecting the earth god gave you a good trait?
again, how does one become good because they breed?
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