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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 03:15 PM
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Bad News~Have lost my job
Just told about an hour ago.

Am not going to be rehired because I'm "not a good fit." Principal wouldn't elaborate beyond saying I needed to read the two standards he thinks I should work on, one of which is about arranging my classroom to suit my SpEd students. He knows I don;t have a classroom. Am a floating teacher, and have no say so in the room arrangement and other things needed to go in a classroom particular to the classes I teach.

If it were about just the $1.5 budget cuts in our district, he should have said so.

Meanwhile, am already cutting out things in my life, services I use for my home, so I can start saving to make another move, probably back to Tucson. California is too expensive to live in, and it took the last three years just to be able to get a teaching job here in this little ag area of CA.

I will no longer be able to afford living near my grandchildren :cr:

Am just home for lunch, but wanted to post this.
Am upset.
Am trying to not let my ego be affected by this, and it won't after a while.

Have to begin a new plan A.

Will check back in later when home from work.

Am so glad you guys are here.

Thanks.


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AwakeAtLast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 03:17 PM
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1. Oh my goodness, that is awful!
So sorry. :hug:

I'm an educator, too. My corporation is looking at RIFing next year.

Totally stinks.

:hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:39 PM
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36. Am so fortunate to have such good friends at work, in my life and here
Thank you!

:hug:
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PaddyBlueEyes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 03:17 PM
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2. Hang in there
you arent alone :hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:40 PM
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37. am not alone because of people like you here
thank you, paddy :hug:
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motely36 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 03:18 PM
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3. Good Luck
:hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:41 PM
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39. Luck and planning
and hoping the planning gets lucky


thanks for you support, motely :hug:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 03:20 PM
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4. Ahh sweety
:hug:

Good thoughts and vibes going out to you in hopes something wonderful
comes you....

you and all the other DUers who don't have jobs.......
hell everyone who doesn't


lost
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:43 PM
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41. Landlord instantly lowered my rent when I told him
He's my son.

Am lucky there.

Thanks, lost :hug:

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hippywife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 03:23 PM
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5. Don't let the bastards get you down
Nelly, honey! :* :* :*
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:45 PM
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42. hippywife!
Thank you!

Just talked with best friend in OKC.

She wants me to move there to help out.

Thanks, hippywife! :hug:








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hippywife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 07:22 AM
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93. Are you thinking about it?
Help out doing what? Have you ever lived in OK before? Send me a PM when you get a chance. :hug:
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 03:30 PM
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6. My dear Whoa_Nelly...
Oh, no! Your administrator is a coward. Period.

Not a good fit, my ass!

Damn, but this makes me angry.

I am so very sorry, sweetie...

I'm so sorry you'll have to leave California...

:hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:47 PM
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43. Am making an app't with my union rep
It's all very weird.

All those I work with are shocked.

Thanks for your love, Peg :hug:




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Amerigo Vespucci Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 03:36 PM
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7. You're right, and most people miss the importance...
..."Have to begin a new plan A..."

The sooner we can do that, the sooner we can re-build our positive momentum.

I'm really sorry you had to go through this but I feel your attitude is extremely admirable, and many people in "different but similar" situations could learn from your response to the situation.

It is easier said than done, but when you're on the horse, and you get thrown, the best plan is to get back up on the horse as soon as possible. You've got plenty of support here from people working on their own "Plan A," so all the best to you and I hope you find yourself in a new, rewarding situation very soon.

:hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:50 PM
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44. Amerigo!
Always move to the reconnoiter position.

Just sensible.


I will survive.

Thanks for your support :hi: :hug:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 03:39 PM
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8. What a terrible loss for the kids you teach
and for you. :hug:

You know I'm always here for you.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:53 PM
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45. Oh, lizzie...
was just thinking about having to tell so many kids that I will miss them. :cry:

Have developed and nurtured some great friendships with so many teens.


Thanks re: being there.

You are so wonderful and loving.
Wish I had ways to help you, too. :hug:



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Bertha Venation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 03:41 PM
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9. Oh, god, Nelly
:hug: I am so sorry.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:56 PM
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46. Bertha...
Thanks. :hug:

You are awesome :loveya:


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blueraven95 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 03:48 PM
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10. good luck!
:hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:57 PM
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48. Thank you, blueraven
Send some of those spirit guides my way :hug:



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azmouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 03:49 PM
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11. One door closes, another opens.
I wish you the best of luck in whatever you do next. :hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:58 PM
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49. azmouse!
If I move back to Tucson, will we meet?

Thanks, azm* :hug:

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azmouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 03:02 PM
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102. I'm in Glendale but if you ever find yourself in this area
please let me know. I have yet to met another DUer and you could be the first!
I'm easy to recognize... big ears, long tail, fur all over. :D ... just kidding!

I used to live in Tucson. It's a beautiful city. I loved it there but my husband's job took us to the Phoenix area 8 years ago. I love it here too. I'm doing my part to make AZ blue!

Take care of yourself and don't let yourself get too down. Everything has a way of working out and you seem like a cheerful person who will do just fine. Good luck in whatever life brings your way.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 03:59 PM
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12. So sorry you lost your job.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:00 AM
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51. thank you, apple-g
My fellow teachers seem to be upset as well.

But!

Will nake it no matter what..always do

Thanks :hug:
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 04:00 PM
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13. Oh no!
I'm so sorry to hear this! :cry:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:01 AM
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52. Xema...
Thank you for your care and love :hug:


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myrna minx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 05:17 PM
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14. I'm so sorry that this happened to you.
Hang in there. :hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:02 AM
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53. Lounge Vibes
always the best.

Thank you, myrna :hug:

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foxfeet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 05:24 PM
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15. Oh, crap. I'm sorry.
I wish you the best and a smooth path ahead of you.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:03 AM
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54. your kindness...
thank you, foxfeet. :hug:

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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 05:25 PM
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16. I hope you're able to figure something out.
Good luck.
:hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:05 AM
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55. Already testing the waters and pulling together resources
something will be figured out.

thanks so much, Danger Mouse :hug:

(PS love your name! ;) )


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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 05:48 PM
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17. Man, that sucks
I'm truly sorry for your loss of that job. I feel the worst about the fact that you won't be so close to your grandkids 'cause I know how much you love them.

You will find something that is maybe much better I hope.

GIANT :hug: :hug::hug:




:loveya:


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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:06 AM
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57. Changes, SPK
we all have'em

...and am taking you up on those free hugs :hug: :hug: :hug:


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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:08 AM
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58. yes we do
its been said that the only person who likes change is a wet baby...

you got all the free hugs I can give you sweetie...

:loveya:
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GCP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 05:51 PM
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18. That sucks
He should have at least had the balls to give you the real reason - budget cuts.

:hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:32 AM
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59. Am making an app't with my union rep
Edited on Sat Jan-31-09 12:33 AM by Whoa_Nelly
who is also a school counselor at my site.

Not seeing her to beg the job, or seek recourse.

Am just gluing to lay it out.

Principal could have said "budget cuts", that is a valid statement.

But, he chose to say, "You don't fit in."
I asked, "What do you mean?"

Reply: "You're not a good fit, but you should look at the two teacher standards you could work on in the future,"
(very evasive...no eye contact thought this whole exchange)

The two standards:

1. arrange classroom to benefit you students

I don't have a classroom.
Am a floating SpEd, in that I share two classrooms with two teachers, and have limited space, let alone any say so in arrangement or class design, especially when their classrooms are set up for SpEd specifically designed programs.

2. Make a plan for those difficult students to create positive options
Have had two students that behaved so aggressively have had school security in to stop the violence. and, Have three students that are on the verge of being expelled because of disruption that affects all students, (one just yesterday concealing a weapon), and more, and have done all I can to keep them in and gain their cooperation in the classroom, sitting with them, working with them, and still have had to eventually exercise my lawful right to have them leave the classroom because of threatening behaviors toward me or other students (these few still throw things at or deliberately provoke those SpEd kids who are mentally challenged.)


Will update after I meet with my rep.

Seems this first year principal has an other agenda, simply seen with is "don't fit in " statement.

Thanks for your support, GCP :hug:


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VenusRising Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 05:52 PM
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19. I'm so sorry, Whoa Nelly.
I'm sending some good vibes your way.

:hug::loveya::hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:35 AM
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60. Vibes!
Thank you so much, Venus! :hug:

Lounge vibes...the best! :loveya:


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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 05:52 PM
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20. I am so sorry! These times sure are rough!
Edited on Fri Jan-30-09 05:52 PM by Shell Beau
:hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:37 AM
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61. Pics of BabyShell always make me smile and feel good
Her vibes are so sweet and pure
No doubt she's got you in her :hug:

Thanks, Shell :loveya:




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arcadian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 05:58 PM
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21. Sounds like it's their loss.
Sorry. :hi:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:38 AM
Response to Reply #21
62. Bet the principal is repug
:P


thanks, arcadian! :hi: :loveya:



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rug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 06:19 PM
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22. They always tell you on a Friday.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:41 AM
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64. At least get to keep working until end of May
and am contracted through end of July.

So, will have pay and insurance for a bit

Just so cold to say..."you don't fit in."

Lotsa tact and diplomancy on his (the principal) part. :eyes:

Thanks, rug :hug:

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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 06:20 PM
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23. File for unemployment NOW
on line whatever

it will take 2-4 weeks for the thing to be processed

file now
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:44 AM
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65. Hey underpants
Am teaching, so my contract is through end of July, but teaching pay ain't much...

Am not fired until I finish my time through end of May, and then they still have to pay tr=hrough end of contract in July.

Nonetheless, will have to gather now all funds available to make the adjustment and changes coming my way.

Thanks, underpants :hug:



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redwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 07:16 PM
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24. I'm really sorry.
:hug:


I think many of us will feel the sting of yhis lousy economy of we aren't already.
I hope you find some good news soon.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:51 AM
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67. If I don't find good news
will make some of my own!

Nayh, nyah to you Mr. Prncipal! So there! :P

(THAT felt good! :) )


Thanks, redwitch :hug:
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Dystopian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 07:31 PM
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25. So sorry...
This makes me sad and angry....The cuts in education are a crime. The reasons he gave you make no sense.
Hoping you find something you love with your new plan A, and can still stay close to your grandchildren.:hug:


peace~
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:52 AM
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68. Even if back to Tucson with me
Edited on Sat Jan-31-09 12:53 AM by Whoa_Nelly
only a 10 hour drive to see my babies.
(ten on the road I can handle.)


Thanks so much, dystopian :hug:


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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 07:34 PM
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26. Oh no!
That sucks! I'm sorry.
I hope your luck changes, but I know how rough the job situation is right now.



:-(

:hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:56 AM
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69. and have already spent four years trying to work steadily here
Came back to the San Joaquin Vally after 23 years only to be near son and babies.

The Universe keeps giving me a different message since have been here.

Thanks, Lara MN :hug:
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Sky Masterson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 07:46 PM
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27. I am sorry.
I have a great respect for Teachers.
I hope you find something soon. :hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:58 AM
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70. Sky Masterson!
have always loved that name!

Am not about to give up or give in.

Will do whatever needs to be done to survive.

Thank you, Sky :hug:

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scubadude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 07:59 PM
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28. First of all I wrap my arms around you,
for a big hug.

I hope you know your own self worth, and the fact that it is not tied to the opinions of others.

Reading your post you have Grandchildren, and I am jealous of you for that. Be happy for what you have and know that there will be more. You will go on, and if I get my wish, you will be happier than ever and fulfilled.

If you are ever in Chicago send me a note, \

Scuba
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:59 AM
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71. Chi-Town!
My mom grew up in Maywood (1920s)

Thanks for your love and support scuba :hug:

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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 08:01 PM
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29. I'm sorry, that sucks
Vibes to you on your new job search and possible move.

I hope it's not long.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:02 AM
Response to Reply #29
72. Am fortunate to ahve friends in many states and places
who are willing to offer me support and a place to live no matter what.

Things will work out, am sure of that.
(and, dammit, I will make sure that happens!)

Thanks, sniffa :hug:



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YankeyMCC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 08:07 PM
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30. So sorry to hear the news
best of luck going forward.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:03 AM
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73. Foward
The only way to go...

Thanks, Yankey :hug:


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femmocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 09:06 PM
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31. Oh no, Nelly! I'm sooooo sorry.
I know how hard you worked at your position. That principal was a coward and a liar (like most I have known over the decades).
He had no right to attack your skills. Instead, if there was a problem, he should been willing to help you to improve. What a typical jerkass administrator who has forgotten that he ever taught a class.

My opinion? If you don't have tenure, they let you go before they had to grant it to you. It's the new cost-cutting measure. Of course they lie about it. That is what they do. May he never have another night's sleep. And may he be the next to get canned!

I wish you better luck in AZ. I know it's hard to pick yourself up and start over, but you can do it. Keep us posted, OK?

Best wishes always. :hug: :loveya:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:09 AM
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74. All your kind words and warm thoughts...
Edited on Sat Jan-31-09 01:10 AM by Whoa_Nelly
:loveya: femmocrat!


Thank you.

He was (is) a coward.

I will make it no matter what.

Thanks :hug:


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LadyoftheRabbits Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 09:08 PM
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32. I'm so sorry
and you're right, we are here for you. :hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:11 AM
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75. Thank you DU member formerly known as lelapin
(psst! You'll always be lelapin to me ;) )


Thanks for being here :hug:


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Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 09:19 PM
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33. I'm sorry.
You sure aren't alone - I keep hearing of more and more. It is going to be a while before this country recovers from the mess the assholes have created. At least Tucson isn't that bad of a town ;-) (my favorite little city)
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:13 AM
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77. Have lived in Tucson several times
even went to high school there, so still have many friends there.

As the country recovers, so will I.
Will just try to do it a bit faster than the nation ;)

Thanks, Kali :hug:
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Fire1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 09:23 PM
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34. No teacher's unions in CA?? Damn!
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:15 AM
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78. Am setting an app't with my rep for this next week
She;s also a counselor at my school.
Will update when I know more, that's for sure!

Thanks, Fire! :hug:


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Fire1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 08:41 AM
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94. Good for you! Don't go down without a fight!!
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 09:59 PM
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35. I'm very sorry. :(
I hope you can find a better job someplace else quickly. :hug:

It sounds like he's reducing his budget with malice. I just don't get why some people with authority use situations like this to mess with people. :(
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:17 AM
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79. He is an egotistical prick...
and yes... would call that malicious.

Will let you know more after I meet with my union rep.

Thanks, ThomCat :hug:



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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 02:00 AM
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89. I hope your union rep can give you some kind of good news.
:hug:

Please keep us up to date. I'll be thinking about you and sending you good vibes. :)
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:41 PM
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38. So sorry to hear this Nelly

Hang in there and keep us updated. :( :hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:18 AM
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80. Life changes...
The Lounge is a saving grace.

Thanks for being here, SallyMander :hi: :hug:



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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:43 PM
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40. Sorry WN
I hope your new plan A goes without a hitch.

:hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:20 AM
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81. A New and Improved Plan A !
Hitches to be expected.

Dealing with them all...no other choice.

Thanks for being here, Inchie :hug: :hug: :hug:



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Zoigal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-30-09 11:57 PM
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47. Have you talked with the rep of your local teachers' union?
They may be able to help you. Sorry you have to go through this. Don't forget to document
everything. Doesn't sound like your principal is very well informed as to what your teaching duties
entail. Good luck. Keep us posted. z
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:22 AM
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82. Sound advice, Zoigal
Am contacting my rep this weekend set an app't to talk with her.


So appreciate your help here. :hug:


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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:00 AM
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50. I wish I had something intelligent to say --
:hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:23 AM
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83. Just you being here means the world to me, TA
thank you :loveya: :hug: :hug:


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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:06 AM
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56. Aw, Nelly
I'm so sorry! I'm glad you're going to talk to your union rep; this sounds kind of sleazy to me, the way it happened.

Big hugs and vibes coming your way, sweetie. :loveya: :hug: :loveya:

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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:25 AM
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84. Sleazy
That's a great word for it all!


Thanks so much, SG!

you know I :loveya:


:hug: :hug: :hug:
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:40 AM
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63. What can I say .. I'm sorry seems too trite.
:hug:

I hope you can find another job so that you can stay close to the grandchildren.

I wish I could help.

:loveya:

aA
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:28 AM
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85. aA! Your words are always a comfort
I love you, too :loveya;

Thanks so much :hug:


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The Doctor. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:48 AM
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66. I'm so sorry.
Love to meet the Principal. Administrators... they're all like that.

Hope plan 'A' is effective.

Don't forget to check back in... alright?
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:30 AM
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86. Hey, Doctor!
It's always Plan A...

Changes mean New plan, new hopes.

Thanks for being here :hug:


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The Doctor. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:42 AM
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88. Thank you.
Being here is almost all I do.

Depending on whose 'here' we're talking about.

Feel free to hit me up, and do keep an eye on the plan.

For whatever 'here' is, I'll be here for you.

Cheers,

The Doctor.
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grasswire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:11 AM
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76. could you live WITH your grandchildren?
Would that work? You are so knowledgeable about so many things, maybe there's another way to make money besides being in a school district.

Just hoping for the best for you!
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 01:35 AM
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87. Not a good idea to live with son, DIL and grandkids
Edited on Sat Jan-31-09 01:36 AM by Whoa_Nelly
They have and need their own lives.

Am renting a house from son, and he just cut me a huge break on rent because of this.

Will do what I have to do, and still will be as near as I can with the grands, even if it is a 10 hour drive from Tucson.

Thanks for your love and care, grasswire :hug: :hug: :hug:



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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 02:03 AM
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90. Oh Nelly, I'm so sorry...
Losin a job can be devestating especially the way you were "handled"...
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 10:22 PM
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103. Was doing to reply this morning, but didn't sleep much last night.
Am better after a day of unwinding here at home.

Thanks for your care and support, WC! :hug: :loveya:


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lildreamer316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 06:57 AM
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91. I am so very sorry.
I hope you will be able to stay near your grandchildren...
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 10:25 PM
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104. lildreamer
Right now am pulling together emotionally and finacially.

Will know exactly where I am headed for sure by Spring Break in April.

Even if I do move to Tucson, will only be a 10 hour drive away...a drive I've made more times than I can count, so it really goes by quickly, and isn't a hassle.

Thanks for your support, lildreamer :loveya: :hug:

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SalmonChantedEvening Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 07:10 AM
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92. Oh Nelly :(
This is awful news, I'm so sorry. :cry: :hug:

He wasn't even aware of your status as a floater. And he's laying you off.

:grr:

Huge hugs and loving vibes hun. :hug: :loveya: :hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 10:30 PM
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105. Actually, the floater thing was discussed at my second eval meeting
when he told me I needed to rearrange the room I was in, and I told him I couldn't as it wasn't my room.

Have to wonder if he had already made that decision back in December, and is being selective in the "facts" he wants to use.

Am overwhelmed some tonight, but better than I was yesterday when this all come down with no warning.

Thanks for being here, SCE :hug: :loveya:

And a special lolcat for you!




And one that was me last night... ;)





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blockhead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 08:45 AM
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95. sorry Nelly
:hug: :pals:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 10:31 PM
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106. Thank you, blockhead
:loveya: :hug:
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fight4my3sons Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 09:37 AM
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96. I'm so sorry.
:hug:

If you move back to Tucson, are you already certified there? I know how frustrating it is to go through all of the testing to get certified in another state - I'm doing that now in Maine. Let us know how it goes with your union rep.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 10:34 PM
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107. Have two degrees and certification in both
Gen. Ed K-8, and SpEd K-12

have a friend there in education, and she says they are always using emergency certification with a one year waiver for SpEd.

But, sometimes I think just getting into something else, like using my Interior Design degree.

I will find work.

Thanks for your support, f4m3s! :hi: :hug:


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Callalily Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 09:56 AM
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97. I am so sorry to hear this.
This crappy economy is taking it toll on far too many good employees.

Those of us still with jobs, well, we're all on pins and needles, because we too could be let go anytime.

Wishing you all the best and hope your new Plan A is a success.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 10:36 PM
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108. Thank you, callalily aka my pal, Simply Fugue!
Am fortunate to have loving friends who are willing to give me a hand up when I need it, so am sure I will make it no matter what.

:hug: :loveya: :hi:


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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:26 PM
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98. YOUR PRINCIPAL MUST be CHALLENGED on his rating! "Re-arrange"
a classroom that you are an itinerant teacher in?

"Not a good fit"??

He needs to be MADE to:

1. Define his terms;

2. Document his INTERIM recommendations/warnings to you, complete with time-lines, goals, evaluation methods;

3. Show that any termination decision is NOT based on budget.

ANY further dealings with this administrator MUST include a Union Rep. ANY. Do NOT be suckered into a "Can you come into my office for a sec?" request!!
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 10:41 PM
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109. If I do have another meeting, will have my union rep with me
Edited on Sat Jan-31-09 10:41 PM by Whoa_Nelly
If I had known that this was going to be the termination that will take place at the end of the school year meeting, would have had her there yesterday when I met with him.

I was given no warnings.

Am setting up a meeting with my union rep, who is also fortunately is a counselor at my school.

Thank you for your outrage on my behalf, WinkyDink :hug:

Always good to have support...you are so appreciated :loveya: :pals: :hi:


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InAbLuEsTaTe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 12:58 PM
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99. Sorry to hear about your unfortunate situation. Don't give up - things will turn around.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 10:43 PM
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110. Am almost 55
So, as tiring as this kind of thing can be, I still have confidence in myself that things will right themselves somewhere along the way.

Thanks so much, InAbLuEsTaTe :pals: :hi: :loveya:


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LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 02:48 PM
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100. So sorry to hear this...it seems to be going around. Hang in there.
:hug:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 10:44 PM
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111. philboy LeftyFingerPop!
Thank you. :hug: :loveya: :pals:


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Ptah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 02:57 PM
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101. I'm saddened to hear this news, Whoa_Nelly, and also know you will
land on your feet.

:hug:

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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-31-09 10:46 PM
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112. With good friends like you being here for moral support
How could I not?

Thanks, Ptah :hug: :loveya: :hi:





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