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Edited on Wed Apr-08-09 09:20 AM by Chan790
I strongly recommend looking at assisted home-care as an option...it's often the best and least expensive option. You and Medicare pay someone to be there whatever he needs (4, 8 or worst case scenario 24 hours a day), do the sorts of things that he needs done (housework, make sure he's clean, cook meals for him, basic medical, etc.) and to check in on him. And he gets to live at home...which it's been my experience is all many older Americans really want. The sort of residential-care that Medicare will pay for is the sort for people who need constant-care in a monitored medical environment (The mentally-ill, Alzheimers or Parkinson's patients, people with medical conditions requiring constant monitoring and/or care beyond a level which can be provided at home such as congestive heart failure, emphysema, cancer or in some cases diabetes.) usually; think less community and more hospital or worse-case a warehouse.
The biggest thing I remember qua affordability was that Medicare will basically force him to spend pretty much his life's savings on his residential-care before they'll begin to pay for much of anything as far as any sort of residential-care (home-care gets better coverage as they'd prefer to not be responsible for housing the elderly.) will be covered.
So if you decide that he does need to be in a residential care situation, you need to make him as poor on paper as you can before you apply, otherwise the patient-contributed share will make him poor...if he's ever wanted to give money to charity or buy nice things (it's been my experience that WWII vets (like my paternal grandfather) also tend to be Depression-era kids and they wouldn't spend a needless dime on themselves ever.) or take a trip to Greece or a cruise to the Caribbean (you'd be amazed to find out how easy it is to hire a caretaker or nurse to go on a cruise with a client. I knew a guy who decided that it was cheaper to book around the world tours on Carnival for him and a live-in nurse than to go into an assisted-living facility. He'd truly been everywhere...about 8 times.) or splurge on loved-ones or himself...now's the time to do it.
The smartest thing my maternal grandfather did when he got sick was arrange through probate for the immediate disbursement of his will. He owned nothing...the house, the cars, the land, the stamp collection, even his clothes (he was worth millions)...had been inherited by my mother and uncles. If he had ended up in residential care, he'd have been a pauper either way.
Beyond that...define acceptable. It is possible to find very nice homes/facilities on medicare. The fancy assisted-living condo communities you see advertised though (with the pools and the golf and the "dignity to live in your own space yadda yadda yadda". What I am concerned you mean by "acceptable".)...are a scam, don't do it. Most run like this: They get you to buy the condo-space then when you pass-on, they sell your condo to someone else...you don't actually own the condo as a fungible asset. You're not buying the condo, you're buying the amenities. They bill Medicare for the medical care and if you have too many assets, well...go back to the top of this post and read it again...Medicare pays out often on the level of what minimal amount can they pay for and still make sure that you can afford to pick up the difference and get the care. Having nothing is an asset in this case.
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