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I was sexually assaulted in a church, after months of unwanted, direct behavior lobbed at me. After the assault, I walked home from school on extra-curricular nights because I did not want to sit to one of the little whores that used to make one set of facial expressions, but after that incident turned into looks of hatred. (Gee, should I have let her friend do what she wanted?! What the hell was said of that incident, to say the least I did not deserve those looks... before or after that night of horror...)
I was molested, by two separate people, as a child and into my teen years. How much detail information do you like to read?
I was heckled, insulted, and more on a daily basis. By many. "God's joke" was one of MANY comments.
Bullies openly said to seek me out because "he never fights back".
"Peers" shoved me out of group projects. Yet even in 11th grade, I still felt alone and rejected because I had to do everything on my own.
I was framed, a lot of times. Hell, even one of the invites for my facebook page - one still in the invite queue is one who I think set me up for something I did not do...
The school district kept supporting these vermin. Time and again. I still don't know why I was never listened to or why my parents were always shot down. (Oh, what they said WOULD be implemented in school districts as needed, years later.)
Incidentally, not listening to mum and dad, the school bus bullying got so bad that they drove me to school. And there were years' worth of complaints about what other students were doing to me. Oh, it didn't start as bullying. It started with trickery, against me, and my naivety let it happen. To actually provoke a fight was unconscionable, and my parents told me to seek authority anyway. Should I have gone the 'boys will be boys" route and fight the fuckers? Oh, that's right, those who do go off to jail so the real; bullies can continue on.
Even in senior year, it was a nightmare.
When I got to college, with grades skyrocketing, I knew it was the ambient environment... but even when I asked my parents to go to another school district, they said the problems would still go on, but only made by other students. I will never know if they were right.
And even with improvements, supervisors have no clue why I'm afraid of certain personality types. Once again, how much information do they want to know? These supervisors have books on psychology too. So I will question their ability if they're only going to make comments and not do scary shit like ASK QUESTIONS. I've learned not to volunteer information... apart from right now, obviously...
Maybe rethugs are right; compassion is a mental illness. I still have loads of sympathy and empathy for people when I should be looking out for #1 only.
In short, for every emo post, there's a bigger emo. And I know there are emos much more emo-like than I would ever be.
In shorter, we've all come through a lot. You can quit or you can continue. It's up to you what you do.
At least you're married and have someone who loves you. You try being in my shoes for a day. Your life would NEVER be the same, have no doubts.
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