What do you seek in a friend yet neither expect or want in a lover?

NJmaverick

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Mon Aug-31-09 06:27 AM
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What do you seek in a friend yet neither expect or want in a lover?

Are you attracted to people who are healthy for you to be around?

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suninvited

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Mon Aug-31-09 06:38 AM
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1. I finally figured it out

you are writing a book about all of us, right?

:woohoo:

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NJmaverick

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Mon Aug-31-09 08:25 AM
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3. Would it be under fiction or non-fiction?

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suninvited

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Mon Aug-31-09 08:26 AM
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5. ha ha!

I don't know that answer.

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Auggie

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Mon Aug-31-09 08:31 AM
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6. Science fiction?

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Chan790

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Mon Aug-31-09 07:11 AM
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2. Willingness to be scarce when I owe them money?

:evilgrin:

Um...f*ck no!...what's the fun in that? I want dangerous, unhealthy lovers who own whips and whose idea of a good time involves informing me in the act that they're robbing a convenience store. (I'm not pulling that out of thin air...I dated that person and it's probably the most-fun relationship I've ever had. Healthy? No. Fun? Yes.

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NJmaverick

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Mon Aug-31-09 08:26 AM
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4. At least you have the proper perspective

which I would think at least mitigates the unhealthy part

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Ohio Joe

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Mon Aug-31-09 08:38 AM
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7. Lets see...

1 - Nothing. I prefer that I am good friends with any lovers I have.

2 - Oh no... no, not at all. I make bad... just simply awful choices when it comes to relationships. They always seem to be exactly what I want at first but then... I don't know, it just turns out what I thought was wrong.

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