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Peregrine Took Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-28-09 07:18 PM
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Can this be true? Some places are now holding "casket-less wakes?"
I heard a woman on the radio say she attended such a wake.

The deceased is not in a box of any sort but is viewed sitting in a favorite position such as a woman on the couch reading a book or a man in a lounge chair watching the tv - with the tv on. Sort of like a tableau of olden days.

Is this a joke or urban myth? Seems crazy to me but I've heard that wakes have gotten rather unorthodox lately with heavy metal music, etc.
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yawnmaster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-28-09 07:31 PM
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1. sounds believable. would be...interesting eom
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Dangerously Amused Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-28-09 11:34 PM
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2. Here:
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mopinko Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-29-09 08:35 AM
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8. he really ties the room together.
bwahahahaha

i do think that back in the day poor folks just laid out on the table. at least i believe irish wakes were that way.
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-28-09 11:35 PM
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3. That's been around for a number of years already.
Old news. Not even interesting any more.
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Blue_Tires Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-29-09 08:44 AM
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9. i remember a few years ago they had some dude setup
in an easy chair, wearing his steelers sweatsuit, beer and remote control in hand....
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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-28-09 11:38 PM
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4. I went to wake where the deceased was standing up - his casket
was propped up so he was standing.

He never wanted anyone looking down on him in life so he didn't want them looking down on him in death (or at least at his wake, since he was buried in the ground).

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crispini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-29-09 06:41 AM
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5. What a horrid idea!
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CBGLuthier Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-29-09 07:16 AM
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6. My late brother in law
was not posed but he also was not in a box. Just lying on his side on a table. Which I guess may have been his favorite position.
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-29-09 07:33 AM
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7. I've already told my kids that when I die...
I don't want burial, I don't want cremation. I want my body sent to the taxidermist!
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old mark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-29-09 08:57 AM
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10. We have arangements to be cremated, plan to have a very simple
Edited on Thu Oct-29-09 08:57 AM by old mark
memorial get together instead of a funeral, certainly no mummified body on display, not even an urn of ashes.
Although I'd kind of like to have my Les Paul Special go with me.......


mark
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Gidney N Cloyd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-29-09 10:56 AM
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11. The term "living room" came from the end of the practice of laying out the dead at home...
...in the "parlor." There was also a practice in the old days of taking pictures of the dead bodies lying in state in somewhat natural positions in the home parlor.
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NecklyTyler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-29-09 07:03 PM
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12. Prop Me Up Beside the Jukebox

Prop Me Up Beside the Jukebox

Joe Diffie

Well I ain't afraid of die'n,It's the though of being dead
I wanna go on being me once my eulogys been read
Don't spread my ashes out to sea, don't lay me down to rest
You can put my mind to ease if you fill my last request

Prop me up beside the jukebox when I die
Lord I wanna go to heaven but I don't wanna go tonight
Fill my boots up with sand, put a stiff drink in my hand
prop me up beside the jukebox when I die

Just make your next selection and while your still in line
You can pay you last respects one quarter at a time

Prop me up beside the jukebox when I die
Lord I wanna go to heaven but I don't wanna go tonight
fill my boots up with sand put a stiff drink in my hand
prop me up beside the jukebox when I die

Oh prop me up beside the jukebox when I die


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-BLYacRq0Q


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Adams Wulff Donating Member (658 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-29-09 08:10 PM
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14. This was the first thing I thought of too! n/t
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elana i am Donating Member (626 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-29-09 07:54 PM
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13. yeah kinda creepy...
in the 1800's it was memento mori. this must be a new spin on an old idea.

although, i can't imagine anything about funerals that isn't creepy, since they're merely a social construct for the living and make no difference whatsoever to the deceased.
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