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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:21 PM Original message |
Somewhat awkward situation- And an unusual question... |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
1. Tell Your SO Right Up Front You're Not Going If Joe Is |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:32 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Well, I'm definitely going and will have a good time- with or without SO... |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:36 PM Response to Reply #2 |
9. Fuck Yeah It's Joe Or You |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:32 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Damn Skippy... |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:36 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. Actually, I'd just insist that the stash stays. |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
3. I wouldn't do this vacation with Joe at all if I were you |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:34 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. See above.... |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:33 PM Response to Original message |
5. IIRC this cruise goes to other countries |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:42 PM Response to Reply #5 |
13. It does.... |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
7. I'm not a big of ultimatums, but in this case, it's deserved - tell your SO either him or you. |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:38 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. Sadly enough.... |
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Jeff In Milwaukee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 09:39 AM Response to Reply #11 |
41. If you S/O picks her friend over you... |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:37 PM Response to Original message |
10. I'd bring it up now. |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:47 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. A vote to bring it up... I'm starting to think this is the best course of action. |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
12. I would tell SO I plan on going on this vacation period. With or without Joe and/or him however it |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:43 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. That's a given. |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:44 PM Response to Original message |
15. -I have flown three times since 9-11 |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:52 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Thanks for the honest answer... |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 03:22 PM Response to Reply #18 |
25. I figured hell...i am on vacation...i dont need to toke. |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 03:59 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. Somewhere, there is a line in the sand..... |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
17. *sigh* I travel with |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:57 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. I don't much think he'll go 7 days without.... |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 03:05 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Oh, you and I both know that |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 03:17 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. Actually.... |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
20. Joe's gottah go. |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 03:05 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. It's a complicated thing... |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
24. I have to say it sounds like you're not your SO's SO. Joe is. |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 03:27 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. Fair assessment- nothing I haven't heard before. |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 05:39 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. Good enough -- but if you're going to be in a threesome, it seems like you should be getting |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 09:36 AM Response to Reply #28 |
40. Well, it's not like I get nothing out of it.... |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 12:05 AM Response to Reply #26 |
30. the fact that you're pretending not to know them on the flights is itself viewed as suspicious |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 09:28 AM Response to Reply #30 |
38. I guess that is something to consider.... |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-28-09 11:59 PM Response to Original message |
29. i don't travel or associate with drug users period |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 09:54 AM Response to Reply #29 |
42. I hear all of that.... |
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Mugu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 12:09 AM Response to Original message |
31. The risk vs reward (for lack of a better word) ratio for traveling with dope is just too steep. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 12:29 AM Response to Original message |
32. KICK JOE'S POTHEAD ASS |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 02:57 AM Response to Original message |
33. I can say a few things |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 09:32 AM Response to Reply #33 |
39. The flights are actually into Fort Lauderdale. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 03:07 AM Response to Original message |
34. Except immediately after 9/11, I can't think of a worse time to attempt smuggling dope. nt |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 03:31 AM Response to Reply #34 |
35. True dat |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 05:09 AM Response to Original message |
36. that's what fedex is for. |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 09:57 AM Response to Reply #36 |
43. You've gotta be kidding me? n/t |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 12:29 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. not at all- why...? |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 01:01 PM Response to Reply #47 |
48. Wow. I had no idea you could do such a thing. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 01:07 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. i generally double-ziplock it and fold it in a t-shirt, or a pair of slippers. |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 01:55 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. Well, now that I think about it...... |
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baldguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 08:11 AM Response to Original message |
37. There's a reason couples are called "partners". |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 10:00 AM Response to Reply #37 |
45. I don't consider us "partners" |
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baldguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 02:01 PM Response to Reply #45 |
51. Well, I think it's significant that you use the term "Significant Other". |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 03:40 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. I say "significant other" because.... |
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la_chupa (357 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
44. you have bigger problems here than Joe |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 10:04 AM Response to Reply #44 |
46. The relationship is what it needs to be, by necessity.... |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 08:04 PM Response to Original message |
53. "The Netherlands Antilles has its own drug laws which are not the same as Holland. Our drug laws are |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 08:07 PM Response to Original message |
54. "Penalties for possession, use, or trafficking in illegal drugs in the Netherlands Antilles are |
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orion007 (466 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 09:57 PM Response to Reply #54 |
55. ?????? |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 10:03 PM Response to Original message |
56. Are you fucking nuts, or just a sucker for punishment? Why do you even ASK this |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 10:11 PM Response to Reply #56 |
58. I second that emotion |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 10:10 PM Response to Original message |
57. A suggestion |
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orion007 (466 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 11:12 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. I wish I could channel Tangerine Labamba right now |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 12:54 AM Response to Reply #59 |
62. Go for it |
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Dyedinthewoolliberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 11:45 PM Response to Original message |
60. Of course there are |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 12:34 AM Response to Original message |
61. Are you all driving to the airport together? |
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Q3JR4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 01:57 AM Response to Original message |
63. The relationship your S.O. has with "Joe" |
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