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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 03:47 PM Original message |
Divorce and separation were just discussed |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 03:56 PM Response to Original message |
1. kind of sounds like you both might be right |
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dugaresa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 04:04 PM Response to Original message |
2. as an outsider and someone who doesn't know you, i feel funny giving advice |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 04:05 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. Thanks for sharing your story. |
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gmoney (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 05:06 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. well, that's one reason separation precedes divorce |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
5. I am sorry. I will pray things work out for the best |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 05:15 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. Thanks. I know things have been tough for you recently. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 05:39 PM Response to Original message |
7. *hugs* What a diffcult decision. If you do see a therapist, make sure he gets in there too |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 06:23 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. We did that --marital counseling --almost two years ago. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 10:53 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. :^( *hugs* |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 10:02 PM Response to Original message |
9. So you need to see a therpist b/c you're not interested in his fossils? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 11:06 PM Response to Original message |
11. Having a therapist on your side during this process |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 11:54 PM Response to Reply #11 |
12. Thanks. I've been there previously--after first marriage of 7 years--five years |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 12:04 AM Response to Reply #12 |
13. Btw, if my partner told me I was being destructive of the relationship |
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JCMach1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 01:02 AM Response to Original message |
14. I would try to sort out the depression from the relationship first... |
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peacefreak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 07:11 AM Response to Original message |
15. I'm sorry you're going through this. |
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timtom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 10:22 AM Response to Original message |
16. It is your duty to be there for him. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 04:29 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. I really hope you're kidding. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 04:32 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. Thanks, CP. No rabbi or priest would be consulted because |
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timtom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 04:58 PM Response to Reply #22 |
25. Even though you're responding to someone else, |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 08:08 PM Response to Reply #25 |
30. I figured you forgot the sarcasm thingy. I've done that, too. |
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timtom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 08:46 PM Response to Reply #30 |
34. Thank you for being gracious. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 10:59 PM Response to Reply #34 |
38. Thanks. Happy 2010 to you, too. |
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timtom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 04:54 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. My dear California Peggy, |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 04:56 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. My dear timtom... |
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timtom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 05:03 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. By the way... |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 06:31 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. You underestimate Dear Abby! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
17. my hubby is a computer tech. 16 yrs and i still know little and dont want to know |
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phasma ex machina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 11:38 AM Response to Original message |
18. A divorce always makes me sad because it reminds me of a death. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 04:25 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. It is a death -- of a dream. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
21. I've been doing some thinking and researching. I've decided |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 06:28 PM Response to Original message |
27. He's a psychiatrist and expects you to change for him? Physician, heal thyself! |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 08:09 PM Response to Reply #27 |
31. Hmm. Seems like I've said that myself a few times. |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
29. My divorce was without a doubt the worst, most painful, |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 08:18 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. Oh, crim son I am so sorry you are still feeling such loss. It's probably |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 08:33 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. crim son |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
35. I'd try therapy. Sad to see a 25 year marriage go down the tubes when it could |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 09:44 PM Response to Original message |
36. Why don't you take some time apart - you don't have to make any final decisions |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 10:50 PM Response to Original message |
37. I am so sorry to hear you are having a tough time |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 11:03 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. The forgiveness thing (of him) is clearly an issue with me. In our case |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 11:12 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. I have a good friend currently struggling through divorce |
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