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Mike 03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 07:53 PM
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If you ever cheated on someone, a loved one, what happened? What went through your mind? Why did
Edited on Sat Mar-27-10 07:54 PM by Mike 03
you do it?

And I won't judge you, believe me.

What was the aftermath? Did you make amends, or was communication cut off and you were not able to re-connect.
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DoBotherMe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 09:37 PM
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1. Revenge
Then divorced him. :evilgrin: Dana ; )
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Urban Prairie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 10:45 PM
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2. She was still married, but was separated from her husband
I still regret to this day what resulted from my doing so, although she never found out that I "cheated" and she was doing so as well with me, obviously.

She was an awesome, sweet, intelligent and graceful lady who deserved far, far better than what she got from her adulterous husband and then me, whom she loved with all of her heart (that I crushed when I finally told her that I wanted out of our long relationship).

I hope that she is happy now with the man that she married a few years after I dumped her. If she really did put a "hex" on me for my future relationships, like she hinted at during the last time that we were together, as a means of revenge, it worked quite well in my case, unfortunately. :(
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 10:49 PM
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3. I dunno if it was cheating but I dated two guys at the same time
One of them was single, and he thought I was overly into him. The other one was in a relationship, and he thought I wasn't into him enough.

And that's all I have to say about that. :D
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lazarus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-28-10 03:02 AM
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4. I wan't thinking
It's only happened once, and I sincerely regret it, but I was messed up in the head at the time, it was a long distance relationship, and I let myself get into a situation I could easily have avoided. I was stupid that night. She of course found out, relationship over, and I learned a valuable lesson I thought I already knew.
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sagetea Donating Member (471 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-28-10 10:51 AM
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5. Okay...I don't talk much but I feel like I should reply
My ex-husband used to get phone numbers from women in front of me, I guess to hurt me. I lived 5 days a week in another town for my job, he was out of work and I think he felt unmanly? or something because I was the bread winner. Anyway, I could not do anything right in his eyes, he cut me down and belittled me so much.

I ended up having an affair it lasted 3 days, I felt so guilty I told my husband, and he laughed then introduced me to his girlfriend! I ended up divorcing him. 18 yrs. later, I still feel bad about cheating on him.

Ho
sage
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-28-10 10:53 AM
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6. Never did it. Never will.
If I feel the urge? I will leave him first rather than humiliate him like that.

I hate cheaters. Sorry. I've seen too many families and people I care about destroyed by the selfish actions of people who cheat.
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-28-10 11:17 AM
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7. i am a beast of the appetites
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