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Pryderi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 08:54 PM
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Who, where and how old were you when you lost your virginity?
Edited on Tue Apr-20-10 08:55 PM by Pryderi
Her name was Teri, I was 18, in the back seat of a car.
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FarLeftRage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 08:59 PM
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1. Oh Lordy, I've told this a few times before...
Her name was Mary, I was 14 and in the lower bunk bed of a Shasta Trailer parked in my parent's garage in Connecticut.
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MajorChode Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 09:18 PM
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2. When I was 14 I ran away with the circus
Vivian was one of the performers. She always parked her trailer next to the clown's. The clowns had a party one night and she got me drunk and took advantage of me. She took me back to her place and we made wild passionate love as Entry of the Gladiators played loudly next door over and over. To this day whenever I hear clown music it takes me back. I can still remember the way her beard felt next to my young body.
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Manifestor_of_Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 10:36 PM
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7. Creative writing class, I see.

But did you hear about the trapeze artist who caught his wife in the act????


:rofl: :rofl:
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MiddleFingerMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 11:26 PM
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14. You're an evil, EVIL man.
.
You got me.
.
.
You got me REAL good.
.
.
I think this is a heavy case of denial/repressed memory.
.
My bet's on that third sentence being FACTUAL if you had just omitted one word.
.
"The clowns had a party one night and XXX got me drunk and took advantage of me."
.

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MajorChode Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 12:06 AM
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18. You haven't lived until you've tried clown sex
Red nose, orange wig, big floppy shoes, balloons used as sex toys, cats and dogs together...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g094B573iWI

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gemdem Donating Member (975 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 06:38 PM
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34. Not to mention the clown car....
Gotta be some sort of contortionist I'm guessing :)
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 09:20 PM
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3. Well, let's see....
Who: I was me, even way back then

Where: With a girl a couple of years younger than me

How old: 19. It took me a while. I was a late bloomer.
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petronius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 09:22 PM
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4. If I knew where it was it wouldn't be lost, right?
:shrug:
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Dr Morbius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 09:57 PM
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5. I didn't lose it. I sought relentlessly (& successfully) to cast it away. (nt)
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 11:14 PM
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13. Always with the Whitman allusions, Dr. Morbius.
Edited on Tue Apr-20-10 11:15 PM by Bucky
Walt, not Christine Todd.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 09:59 PM
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6. Me, plus a guy, in a bed, not quite legal.
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LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 10:37 PM
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8. I have not not my virginity yet.
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 11:13 PM
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12. Not not
Who's there?


Virginity


Virginity who?


Don Knotts


Mmmmm, donuts....
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Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 10:46 PM
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9. Her name
was Jennifer, I was 17, it was in Columbia, South Carolina.

How do you like that? I lost my virginity in Jesusland...
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velvet Donating Member (950 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 10:55 PM
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10. It was the first day of spring
Edited on Tue Apr-20-10 10:56 PM by velvet
... on a single bed. His name was Bob. :rofl:
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 11:10 PM
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11. I lost my virginity right before I had my sex change operation. My birth name was Teri and...
Edited on Tue Apr-20-10 11:11 PM by Bucky
I was so traumatized by a horribly disappointing sexual experience with some teenaged doofus in the back of his car that I decided I needed to become a man and never go through that hell again. I mean the dude wouldn't even rent us a decent hotel room. I knew I could do better.

Sadly, I have not.
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 08:00 PM
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37. ROFL
Great post!
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 11:34 PM
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15. Who?
Well, if you must know is was Miss. Stafford, the voluptuous home room teacher. I was in detention and she came up behind me while I was erasing the blackboard...
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sakabatou Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 11:40 PM
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16. I still have mine
But it will be taken by the girl I know.
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lazarus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 11:46 PM
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17. Her name was Mary
We had been together for over a year. I was 15, she was 16. In my truck on a dirt road in the country.
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abbeyco Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 12:08 AM
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19. Steve, in a boat, the night we graduated from HS
I was 18 and made it my personal vow that I'd wait until I'd graduated from HS. 8 hrs after my graduation ceremony, the deed was done.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 12:08 AM
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20. My girlfriend. My bedroom. 16. And I didn't lose it.
I wanted very much to get rid of it.
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Dyedinthewoolliberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 12:09 AM
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21. Mine is a sordid, tawdry
affair. I think I was 20 (old for a guy I suppose). There was money involved and it was in a foreign country..............
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abq e streeter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 12:37 AM
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22. This is sorta depressing; seeing guys say they were old to lose it at 19 and 20. I was 21
Edited on Wed Apr-21-10 12:40 AM by abq e streeter
but it was a matter of days after coming ( no pun intended) to New Mexico...If I had stayed in Illinois, I might be a 58 year old virgin for all I know. Her name was Ann; she was just 17( if you know what I mean... and the way she looked was way beyond compare), and it was in my dorm room at The University of New Mexico ( my 3rd, and final, college, and one of the few 21 year olds in the dorm which made me designated liquor connection for my floor).It was Labor Day weekend, but I actually remember very little of the whole night, although , oddly, I can still remember the brand of cheap tequila I'd bought that afternoon: Matador...I remembered being at some sort of party that evening, don't even know if it was in someone's dorm room or off-campus, and no recollection of how or where I met Ann..But we woke up together in my room, with ( and I'll avoid being graphic here) fairly conclusive evidence that we'd had some sort of sexual encounter.
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Dystopian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 03:18 PM
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30. fairly conclusive evidence?
You should have been a detective!:D
omg...that was funny.
Thank you for making me smile...
Although I'm sorry you don't remember it...

Twenty-one isn't bad....
My best friend was that age...
His claim to fame, "I was the only one who didn't get laid at Woodstock!"


peace~
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abq e streeter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 10:00 PM
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43. probably a good thing not to have remembered; first time and rip-roaring drunk
how memorable could it have been? Although she ended up being my girlfriend that whole school year, so I guess I wasn't too bad ( or she had incredibly low standards).
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PA_Progressive Donating Member (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 12:59 AM
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23. Hmm...
Josh, 18, back seat of his car.
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PaddyBlueEyes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 01:31 AM
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24. I'm so going to hell
I was 15, she was 17. Her name was Maeve, and it was in Gaelic Park in the Bronx, after Cardinal O'Connor's youth rally at Yankee Stadium...
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iris27 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 10:28 AM
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25. With spouse27, both 16, in the backseat of my Tercel.
He was dating somebody else at the time...oh, well... :evilgrin:
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MajorChode Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 02:55 PM
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27. My hat goes off to anyone who lost their virginity in a subcompact
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 10:44 AM
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26. My husband, boyfriend at the time.
I was 16, and he was 17. We were each others first. Awwww.
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Beer Snob-50 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 03:09 PM
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28. il remember the first time
it was dark, it was scary, i was alone.
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Withywindle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 03:12 PM
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29. Blacksburg, VA, 1985
I was 15. He was an embarrassing number of years older than me. He initially didn't want to - I wore him down over months.

I probably wasn't "ready" (whatever that means) but we used a condom and nothing bad happened and I really liked him, so I have no regrets at all. Virginity was never something I felt at all sentimental about.
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Missy Vixen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 05:54 PM
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31. It's classified
Yeah.

:woohoo:
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klm55500 Donating Member (50 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 05:56 PM
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32. 653
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abloy Donating Member (2 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 06:35 PM
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33. I have no idea...
Seriously, I must be the only person with this, but I have no idea when plus or minus a couple of months. There was a long series of biweekly outercourse sessions that gradually got a little closer each time, but there never really was a sudden transition like most people have.
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TripleKatPad Donating Member (241 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 07:56 PM
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35. An older guy I had a crush on, his house, 17-1/2
He was 21, a co-worker of my best friend.

I thought he was just the dreamiest.

The 3 of us got silly-drunk and high at his house.

We did the deed (In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida was on the 8-track) and he ended it by telling me he had just had an STD.

Very romantic.

Later I learned that he and my best friend got busy after I left.

Good times.
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Lucian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 07:59 PM
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36. I was 18 or 19 and she was married.
Good times.
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 08:01 PM
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38. I was old
22 1/2.

Her name was Nicole, and it was in her apartment near Storrs, CT
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Old Troop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 08:02 PM
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39. I was still myself, in the backseat of a car, 18
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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 09:15 PM
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40. I was me, 16, in the woods, at church camp.
but it was Unitarian, so what do you expect, anyways?
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mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 09:44 PM
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41. she was Carol, I was 15, it was in a basement...
...belonging to someone Carol was babysitting for. She was a couple of years older than me. And I think the kids were asleep, or maybe we just lost track of them....
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 09:57 PM
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42. I was 15, she was 14, in her bed when her parents were out.
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 10:12 PM
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44. As a southern gentleman, I don't disclose such tawdry indiscretions...
...one must have honor, sir...
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Dulcinea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-22-10 01:21 PM
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45. OK, I'll play.
My high school boyfriend, in his parents' bed while they were out bowling, on a summer night in 1983. I was 17, & had just graduated from high school.

The video playing on MTV: "Gimme All Your Lovin'" by ZZ Top.
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Dogtown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-22-10 03:03 PM
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46. *Shhhhh*!
isn't this a sex thread?
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-22-10 03:14 PM
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47. I was 79
and I lost it in a White House press conference.
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foxfeet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-22-10 03:19 PM
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48. Umm, with a guy or with a girl?
BTW, it's three dollars for me and five for the room.
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