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Minimus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 04:19 PM Original message |
Are you able to forgive and forget? |
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azmouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 04:26 PM Response to Original message |
1. It's something I need to work on. |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 04:29 PM Response to Original message |
2. Depends on the offense |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
3. You don't really forget, but the benchmark for forgiveness, in my opinion, is |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 04:34 PM Response to Original message |
4. I forgive everyone. Well, unless he/she is a fucking asshole. |
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Minimus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 04:37 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. Yes... forgiving assholes can be quite challenging! LOL! |
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Crabby Appleton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 04:43 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. Lotta assholes around |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 06:01 PM Response to Reply #6 |
15. Yeah, that gives me a lot of lattitude. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
7. forgiving? i dont ever get to a place where i need to forgive. people do things for reasons |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
8. You can forgive without forgetting. |
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Minimus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 05:06 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. Have you ever had someone say they forgive you |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 05:36 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. You can forgive somebody for doing something stupid to you, |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 05:49 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. if you're throwing in face, not forgiven, obviously. sure sign you didnt do a good job forgiving |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 05:01 PM Response to Original message |
9. I've never agreed with the "forget" part of that phrase |
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Minimus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 05:08 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. "Letting go of the pain and resentment"... is exactly right! |
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onestepforward (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 05:17 PM Response to Original message |
12. Forgiving someone benefits you. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
16. Yes. |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 06:53 PM Response to Original message |
17. Almost always forgive |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 06:54 PM Response to Original message |
18. I can almost alwasys forgive, but I rarely forget. |
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femmocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 09:17 PM Response to Original message |
19. No. I never forgive. I do forget a lot though. |
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LibDemAlways (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 10:39 PM Response to Original message |
20. Forgive, mostly yes. Forget, not so much. |
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HipChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-26-10 11:32 PM Response to Original message |
21. No...n/t |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 01:10 AM Response to Original message |
22. No |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 01:25 AM Response to Original message |
23. No |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 05:35 AM Response to Original message |
24. A lot of you don't realize it, but this is really another L O S T thread |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 06:56 AM Response to Original message |
25. Yes. Though forgetting doesn't mean to put oneself available for abuse again. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 07:44 AM Response to Original message |
26. Forgiving someone doesn't mean you have to let that person back in your life. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 07:55 AM Response to Original message |
27. Sometimes and no. |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 08:50 AM Response to Original message |
28. It makes no sense to forget. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 09:02 AM Response to Original message |
29. Forgetting in this case is not an amnesia moment, but true forgiving involves forgetting |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 09:08 AM Response to Reply #29 |
30. I disagree. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 09:11 AM Response to Reply #30 |
31. yes, which is pretty much what i said. |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 09:21 AM Response to Reply #31 |
33. LOL - In that case we pretty much agree! |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 10:22 AM Response to Reply #33 |
40. ... |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 09:13 AM Response to Reply #29 |
32. Lol Pri... |
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Minimus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 09:41 AM Response to Reply #32 |
35. A Leo thing? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 09:44 AM Response to Reply #35 |
37. using excessive eye rollies when we are just talking about light things like zodiac sign |
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Minimus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 09:57 AM Response to Reply #37 |
38. Excessive eye rollies? LOL! |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 10:13 AM Response to Reply #38 |
39. in this case, a single eyeroll was sort of excessive and very passive aggressive |
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Minimus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 10:40 AM Response to Reply #39 |
41. Doesn't bother me one bit. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 02:06 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. justification imples there is something wrong about taking a long time to get upset |
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Rambis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 09:30 AM Response to Original message |
34. Wrong me |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 09:44 AM Response to Original message |
36. The older I get, the easier it gets. |
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Tikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
42. Yes...what can you say about me I don't already know...BUT, you.. |
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geardaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-27-10 02:10 PM Response to Original message |
44. I can forget, but not forgive. |
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