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Don_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:32 PM
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I've Asked Another DU'er To Marry Me
What can I look foreward to?

The side of the bed I like or what?
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dryan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:32 PM
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1. A lot of interesting discussions!
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arcane1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:33 PM
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2. didn't I tell you "no" once already?
:silly:


congrats!! :toast:
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Insider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:33 PM
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3. that's just precious
i'll eat to that. best wishes, don_g

:party:
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:34 PM
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4. Well, congratulations, Don!
Congratulations to the future Mrs. G as well. :toast:
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rock Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:34 PM
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5. Who?
Or are you telling?
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Don_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:44 PM
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12. Time Will Tell
I think Mr GOP_Is_Evil already knows.
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:46 PM
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13. GOPISEVIL, YOU LUCKY DOG YOU!
:)
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:54 PM
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17. I know? I do? Really?
*blink*
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:55 PM
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18. wait, he didn't propose to you?
I guess I misread that one:)
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:57 PM
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20. I'm male and straight, so it's not me.
:-)
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Misinformed01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:59 PM
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21. So what? You are pretty cute.....
he just might be thinking of you....

:)
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:00 PM
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23. Well...I could switch teams, for a price.
:P
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Misinformed01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:04 PM
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26. as long as you don't pull for the damn Yankees...
wait...that's another subject.....

Seriously, with that post ("I could switch teams...") I bet you get several offers before the days over!

(OK< and with that...Stephanie's attempt to be clever is over for the day....badaboom)
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:06 PM
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27. LOL! Well, I appreciate your nice words!
Less than a month to DC - getting excited!! :D
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:43 PM
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53. Alright! I've been waiting for you to say that...
How much will you pay me?
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:59 PM
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22. sorry, i was being sarcastic on the sarcasm
i didn't really misread it after all; just a lame attempt at a joke:)
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:01 PM
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24. Oh, duh!
*whoosh* Right over my head. :P
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Misinformed01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:57 PM
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19. I think I might too--
Time will tell, eh?

Hey, I married a DUer, and it's the best! Would go back and do it again this afternoon!

(get two computers, btw....nothing is more annoying than trying to read DU with another DUer....worst part: the ignore lists...kid you not)

Stephanie
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Don_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:21 PM
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30. Like You're Not Psychic
Or intelligent....
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:24 PM
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31. Psychic? No...intelligent, possibly.
Maybe I'm not being very good at connecting dots today.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:21 PM
Response to Reply #30
43. Nooo, but I've heard some calling him Psychotic....
Sorry that was just begging for it..


***running away*****
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:24 PM
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45. *throws rotten tomatoes at Mrs.G*
Nyah! :P
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:28 PM
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48. I meant that in the kindest and most friendly of ways....
:P
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Wickerman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:35 PM
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6. Good choice!
A DUer, you are a wise man.
Congratulations!
:toast:
What can you expect?
Marriage is great - I had fun every time! :evilgrin:
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Viking12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:35 PM
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7. A response would be good for starters :)
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:36 PM
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8. a lifetime of liberal fun
Congrats to you and the future Mrs. :toast:
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rocktivity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:36 PM
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9. You'll have your own lump in the bed!
You'll simply have to decided which of you sleeps on the left of the bed, and which of you sleepts on the right!

:headbang:
rocknation
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prolesunited Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:37 PM
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10. Congratulations!
:toast:

You going to tell us who this lucky DUer is?

So, how many DU love matches does this make? I think Skinner should consider branching out and adding a matchmaking forum.

All I can say is you better have two computers so you're not fighting over DU time. ;-)
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Don_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:50 PM
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15. I've Got Two
Edited on Wed Mar-31-04 03:53 PM by Don_G
And setting up a 802.11g LAN in a besroom?
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Beer Snob-50 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:39 PM
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11. You both won't be able
to sleep on the left side.
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:02 PM
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25. Unless they sleep in twin beds.
:shrug: That might be taking politics a bit too far.
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Maine-i-acs Donating Member (989 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:47 PM
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14. (deleted)
Edited on Wed Mar-31-04 03:47 PM by Maine-i-acs
(someone stole my punch line :-( )
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madrchsod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:52 PM
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16. are we invited to
the reception? open bar?...
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Don_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:18 PM
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29. Derby Day
In Louisville, KY.

The "Open Bar" is your choice just because I've had a Mint Julep and discovered it was nasty beyond belief.

BYOB or let me know ahead of time.
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HFishbine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:09 PM
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28. Will she say
"I DU?"
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Don_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:33 PM
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32. When And If I Know
DU will be the first to hear about it.

Beyond an "I Do" PM.
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Lostmessage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:49 PM
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54. Come clean Don
Tell everyone what was done to us months ago.

Tell them about how we decided to get married and in ??? months you will be a Dad.

Tell everyone everything and I mean everything because the assumptions have gone on too long and the people that assume things about the both of us are both wrong.

Do we love each other or not?

Have you not been paid back some of the money?

Why do I worry about you Don?
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:45 PM
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33. I asked another Du'er to marry me too!
She wrote me back and said she was straight :-(
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Misinformed01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:55 PM
Response to Reply #33
34. That's not true: I didn't know if you could accept Michael
living with us.

Can't get rid of him, he's too cute!
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:04 PM
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37. I was afraid he'd hog the vodka
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:21 PM
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38. I was afraid you'd hog my wife.
:-)
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:22 PM
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39. I was afraid you'd read us Kundera to put us to sleep at night
Edited on Wed Mar-31-04 05:23 PM by nothingshocksmeanymo
I'm partial to Anais Nin or the Hite report for a bedtime story :evilgrin:
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 08:24 PM
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41. The unbearable lightness of Nin.
No, no, the Joke is on me again...
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:56 PM
Response to Reply #33
35. Consider how most DU men feel when they find out you're gay.
Talk about a bummer. :-(
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:23 PM
Response to Reply #35
44. Consider how straight DU women feel when they find out what a
gem she is....:(
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:25 PM
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47. aww Davey
I never meant to break your heart...we can go cruisin for women together...look on the bright side :D
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:11 PM
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59. Wheee!!!! That sounds like a HELL of a good time!
And, hey, why should us straight guys have ALL the fun? :D
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Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:10 PM
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58. Well hell I'd marry you, and I'm straight too.
Not exactly sure how that would work, but....

;) :P
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camero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:58 PM
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36. Take the middle
Edited on Wed Mar-31-04 05:35 PM by camero
Then both of you are closer. :) Well, its what I did when I had a GF.

Edit: I should be more gender specific...lol.
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:24 PM
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40. Did all the other ones turn you down ???
:evilgrin:
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Lostmessage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:19 PM
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42. I accepted over 1000 times
He is a wonderful person that I do not want to see sit in a jail cell because he still misses him Mom.

I love you Don.
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IronLionZion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:25 PM
Response to Reply #42
46. so you're the lucky one?
congrats:toast:
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:30 PM
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49. don't pop the cork for them just yet
she has her own thread going here
wedding bells are not a chiming,
or they shouldn't be.
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Lostmessage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:32 PM
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50. I love him and he knows it
I need him to stop drinking thow because I am afraid of him going to jail.
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IronLionZion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:36 PM
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51. oh I just saw your other thread
I hope things work out for you. :grouphug:
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Lostmessage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:39 PM
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52. We are both older
Don and I decided to get married a while back.

We both want kids but I am afraid that I am going to lose this baby because of my age.
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 05:58 PM
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55. I don't know what you can look forward to but you deserve what you get
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Lostmessage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:02 PM
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56. You don't know anything about either one of us
.
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:03 PM
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57. You're kidding with that statement, right?
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Lostmessage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:13 PM
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60. Just assumptions about us
No one really knows much about either one of us and how much we love each other.

No one knows that Don asked me to marry him before he found out that he was going to be a Dad either.

We both have had major tragedies in our life's and if it weren't for DU we would have never met.

I don't need Don to support me either I have a job lined up in Florida if I want it.

We spent some time together in KY and we decided then to get married.

People don't know how we feel about each other and what has gone down in our lifes.

They don't know about the tons of pms from someone on this board months ago either.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:14 PM
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61. Deleted message
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:17 PM
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63. "People don't know how we feel ... and what has gone down in our lives"
That's right.

I hope you do see a counselor or a professional psyciatrist to deal with the problems you've mentioned in other threads.

I wish you both the best of luck.

:hug:
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bratcatinok Donating Member (786 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:18 PM
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64. Why
did you post the other thread? Why do you think marriage is going to fix everything? Why did you bring all of this crap to DU?
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prolesunited Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:18 PM
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65. YOU"RE PREGNANT!?!?!?!?!?
Please get some counseling. If not for your sake, for the life of your child.
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:31 PM
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67. assumptions based on past behavior
i, for one, had no clue you were a reincarnation of a previous member--check that, two.

i can't even understand why the hell you're allowed to post here
let alone sap the good energy of well meaning people.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:17 PM
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62. Deleted message
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:19 PM
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66. Some people have issues
Is that so hard to understand? Maybe it's intentional, out of malice, and maybe it's not. I haven't been in the Lounge that much so I've missed most of this past drama you refer to, but having dealt with people with conditions like MPD and other problems, I realize that not everything is as it seems.
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:32 PM
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68. If anything this demonstrates the huge PAYOFF that some get from their
so called mental illness and why they will never give it up and recover...the control they get to demonstrate over others and the attention they get for their so called PROBLEM is far more gratuitous to them than living a productive life..they aren't suffering at all..everyone around them who offers a scintilla of sympathy is.
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Dookus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:40 PM
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70. no kidding
it seems to have paid off quite well. Damn my sanity!
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flaminbats Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:39 PM
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69. mind if I come to the wedding?
heh heh, just kidding...


Congratulations, enjoy your joint futures and the many worthwhile experiences marriage has to offer. :hug:
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Moderator DU Moderator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 06:51 PM
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71. I'm consolidating to one thread on this subject
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=105x960290

continue here
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