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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:08 PM Original message |
DUer's who have severed family ties... |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:27 PM Response to Original message |
1. I cut off communication with my SIL (brother's wife) some years ago. |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:29 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Thank you. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
3. Here's a bit of my story |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:46 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. My family has forgotten that family, and not outsiders, |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:00 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. got it |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:04 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. That's ok. |
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zanana1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 08:57 AM Response to Reply #3 |
27. That's wonderful advice. |
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knowbody0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:00 PM Response to Original message |
5. I did 10 years ago |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:05 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. I think I'm near that level. |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:12 PM Response to Original message |
9. Severed with my husband's mother after a very good relationship. She and I |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:16 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. My situation is a long time coming. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 12:33 AM Response to Reply #9 |
21. I think we share MILs. |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:38 AM Response to Reply #21 |
30. I'm sorry for you. I just can't understand why people have to act that way, then |
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Tikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:12 PM Response to Original message |
10. When the person in my family told me they dreamed they... |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:15 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. And the situation at hand is all mental. |
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hobbit709 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:15 PM Response to Original message |
12. I last had dealings with my stepfather in 1971. |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:16 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. Mine would be immediate family |
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hobbit709 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:19 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. I heard some years ago that he finally quit drinking |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:22 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. I feel so wrong even thinking about this |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:29 PM Response to Original message |
17. For me, I simply stopped communicating. |
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dixiegrrrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
18. The REAL question is how do you handle any guilt about severing ties, I think. |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 11:14 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. I've never met anyone who has done this before |
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VenusRising (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 11:59 PM Response to Original message |
20. I haven't spoken to my mother or her side of the family since 1999. |
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handmade34 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 12:36 AM Response to Original message |
22. not easy |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 02:58 AM Response to Original message |
23. Just because they're your blood doesn't mean you have to talk to them. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 08:21 AM Response to Reply #23 |
25. I second that emotion! |
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DiverDave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 03:25 AM Response to Original message |
24. I last communicated with my dad in 1988 |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:04 AM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Yes, money is evil. |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 08:49 AM Response to Original message |
26. a slow process over the years and while I have regrets - |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:17 AM Response to Original message |
29. my brothers drinking and behavior made invite unacceptable to my house for both |
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bikebloke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:22 AM Response to Original message |
31. I did. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
32. Been over 20 years. It was hard initially and they have made all manner of claims |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 06:08 PM Response to Original message |
33. I did it quickly with my mother. |
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Moondog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 06:19 PM Response to Original message |
34. Gritted my teeth for years. One day I was just pushed too far. |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
35. Luckily(!) for me it happened from my survival thrust |
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hibbing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:55 PM Response to Original message |
36. Yes, my sister |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:15 PM Response to Original message |
37. It took years to make such a grave decision |
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