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bluestateguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-22-11 08:18 PM
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If people want to wait until marriage to have sex, fine, but this wedding is TMI!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmdMTaiVWbA

See video at 1:10.

I wish them both well, I really do, but I deeply resent being lectured to by a happily married young couple that their sex is blessed by God, but anything single people do, even people a decade older than them (like me), is sinful and immoral.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-22-11 08:30 PM
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1. I think doing things that way was OK............for them.
I"m happy for them.

I could not have done this, and I don't regret my actions.

I didn't get the impression that they were preaching...but maybe I just didn't hear them well enough.

To each his own, I think.

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Boojatta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-22-11 09:31 PM
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2. How about 4:24 to 4:30?
When the man says, "somehow it's always my fault and I still don't understand that part", the woman is nodding her head vigorously.
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bluestateguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-22-11 09:39 PM
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3. It usually works out easier for all parties involved if you just let the woman win the argument
nt
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-23-11 09:20 PM
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8. the man is stating a fact
get over it, Boojatta!
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fortyfeetunder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-23-11 01:33 AM
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4. Like to each his own...
this was their decision alone. But this was a TMI ceremony... :shrug:
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PassingFair Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-23-11 12:58 PM
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5. Good for them, unfortunately Evangelicals have the highest divorce rate in the country.
Non-believers have the lowest.
It pays to be rational.

(Happily married for 22 years, happily
NOT a virgin in 1989)

http://www.religioustolerance.org/chr_dira.htm
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-23-11 01:39 PM
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6. Oh, fuck them!
"God told us to. Oh and also..."

Shut the fuck up!



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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-23-11 09:19 PM
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7. anyone else think of Dick in a Box
when they show.....the Christmas present??? :rofl:
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hamsterjill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-24-11 01:07 PM
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9. There's got to be some insecurity there...
For the guy to actually have the minister explain that "after tonight" he won't be a virgin any longer. I found that comment totally in bad taste. To me, the choice to remain a virgin is a personal choice. Keep it personal, then, and don't announce it at the wedding.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-24-11 06:11 PM
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13. and why did he only say that to the guy
yup
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RedCloud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-24-11 03:34 PM
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10. Would any of you buy a car without test driving it?
You know what I mean, fess up!
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alphafemale Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-24-11 04:21 PM
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11. I've told my kids that they shouldn't even consider getting married until you've lived wirh someone.
For at least several months. By that time you'll at least know what your getting into.

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RedCloud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-24-11 05:55 PM
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12. And cuts down on needless presents too!
;-)
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Enrique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-24-11 06:43 PM
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14. not graphic enough
the minister should have described the positions that Adam plans to try with his new bride, so everyone at the wedding can visualize exactly what would be happening soon in their bridal suite.
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