Women who use little girl voices

OK, all play aside, does this bother other people?

I hear the guys on Love Line talk about this a lot and I'm curius to hear others thoughts.

One of the things that Adm C and Dr. Drew say is that for some women the voice that they use in stressfull times is indicitive of the age at which their development was halted, often by abuse.

Now, don't get me wrong, I'm a strange guy and I admit it. Women who use that voice can be a real head turner for me and and at other times it's just incongruis and a little creepy.

I answer a public telephone line and just got of the phone with an elementary school teacher who sounded like one of her students.

Had a really, high, squeaky voice just like a little girl. I found it kind of creepy, myself.

I find it a little creepy.

I find a little sexy.

I find that a little creepy in myself.

It sure leads to some interesting interactions though.

It would sure as fuck explain a lot about some of my ex-girlfriends!!! :nuke: :argh:

maybe it could explain a little bit about the women you are (or were) attracted to also.

Do you enjoy being hurt by these women? Does it give you a particular thrill to be abused by these women (I'm talking emotional abuse here mods, don't get any ideas!)?

Finding yourself in a position that you have found yourself before does not mean you enjoy it, just that you failed to learn a lesson the first time you went through it.

One of my *former* close friends used the baby voice, and it annoyed the HELL out of me. She was abused as a child, so that definitely makes sense in her case.

durring times of stress? What about with lovers?

which makes sense, since she was sexually abused.

can find a way to excersize those demons.

I know that some of what I do (BDSM, power exchange, Dominance and submission, etc.) is related to and cathartic in dealing with abuse I suffered as a child. To face those situations again, in a different role, in controlled settings, with a partner or partners who understand what's going on can be very enlightening. And scary.

"can find a way to excersize those demons."

Sorry, I couldn't resist. B-)

while wearing devil horns as some sort of wild sexual thang!LOL

and if shes aware...since i work in Customer Service i sometimes use that voice if i need someone to do a favor.

most of the times i use a normal voice but sometimes excessive girliness helps

and if they are aware of them.

This woman just now ... I don't know. Seeme dsort of excesive. Maybe she was still in classroom mode.

THe women who call love line are pretty messed up to begin with and so I have to imagine the ones that are predisposed will fall into it easily while calling a sex show.

Spoiled me; seemed soooo vulnerable (I was the one who was vulnerable, and she knew it). Man, did she take me for a ride. That was nine years ago; smartened up since then, and any who use that cutesy-poo crap and PDA's are ones to run, not walk, away from.

some women KNOW when a man is a fixer and can find ways to get under his skin. It can be very appealing to help someone that needs help. It's tough when it turns out that they are using that abuse or reaction to life as a tool though.

pschologist, psychiatrist etc use sexual/child abuse to explain every thing pertaining to women

On the other hand a lot of women get abused and I think it causes a lot of problems for them and society in general.

one reason I don't like Japanese anime movies. The female characters, regardless of age, speak in such high pitched whiney voices that it drives me mad. It sounds very unnatural.

I don't mean to be a culturalist. I am not a fan of the Jennifer Tilly/Melanie Griffith style of speaking, either, though it does work in comedy.

you like what you like. No problem with that. I also undertandbeing squicked by the age factor in some of those films. Yeah, those girls are in junior college my ASS!

But if it's an affectation you use to get men, then STOP IT!!!!! It drives me insane and does nothing for me!

Ah, that felt good. :D

:evilgrin:

:P

Recently I heard a woman raving about noises her lover makes, animalistic, gutteral sorts of noises durring ... moments of excitment. I've also known others who like it a bit rough. :)

On the other hand is the lumberjack affect as much a stress response as the little girl affect? Just opposite sides of a coin?

For every baby voice I hear...I shall kill you!

I actually heard one of those idiots tell a caller that girls don't really have orgasms til they're in their 20s. *blink* *blink* Whatever.

I'm figuring this explanation for some women having a higher pitched voice is also so much hooey. Wouldn't be surprised if the real answer had to do with the effect of stress on the vocal chords and surrounding muscles. I mean, some men get the high-pitched squeak too when they're under stress.

With ADam gone, it's LESS sexist. The affest their talking about is stress related and from my own limited personal research they have at least some annicdotal evidence to support it.

Not saying it's true, just some thoughts I've had.

So do you support the theory or do you oppose the theory?

Does annecdotal evidence, by definition mean it is false?

but the voices of Melanie Griffith, Drew Barrymore and Amanda Plummer drive me up a freaking wall.

She's only a year or two younger than me and I have had a crush on her since before either of us (well, OK, at least me) knew what that really meant.

She's also younger than I am, and with that comes the terrible knowledge that I will have to put up with her for the rest of my life. Different strokes...:)

One of the security guards where I work. She's tall and would be an imposing presentce - except for her voice.

If the pop psycho-babble is correct, and she uses the voice because of some terrible injury done her as a child, then she doesn't need our discrimination on top of it. I just figure it's her style and don't put that much thought into it.