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RamboLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 04:25 PM
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Girl Sues Dad Who Was Shot in Road Rage Incident
When Thomas Timko made an obscene hand gesture to a driver who irked him, he may not have predicted the disastrous chain of events he set in motion -- but his daughter believes he could and should have, and she's suing him to prove it.

Driving home in October 2008 after taking his daughter Kaitlyn, now 11, for a day of shopping and swimming, Timko became angry when another driver cut him off on the Walt Whitman Bridge near Philadelphia, and flipped the guy the finger.

Unfortunately for Timko, he picked the wrong driver to tick off. Christian Squillaciotti, a schizophrenic former Marine with a gun, responded by firing four times into Timko's car, striking him in the head.

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Now Kaitlyn, through Hardwerk, is suing her father for compensation, saying his road rage not only provoked his own shooting, but left her with lasting emotional scars.

http://abcnews.go.com/US/girl-sues-dad-shot-road-rage-incident/story?id=14004813

Geez, I find that kind of cold.
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david_vincent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 04:28 PM
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1. Flipping somebody off is not road rage
shooting at someone, or pulling over and going at him with a baseball bat, is.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 05:37 PM
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17. No, but it can set off a chain of unfortunate events, as it did in this instance.
Edited on Mon Jul-11-11 05:39 PM by pnwmom
You never know how the driver you're flipping off is going to react.
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AtheistCrusader Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 10:50 PM
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27. Sorry, I can flip people off all day long, with or without cause, no one is justified in shooting me
for it.

'set off' my ass.
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GreenStormCloud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-12-11 03:24 PM
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37. It is your right to flip somebody off. But it is stupid if you do.
You don't know how the other person will react. If they react violently then you have to deal with a violent situation that you would not have had to otherwise.

I carry a gun and NEVER flip anybody off. I don't need the risk that the situation may escalate into a shooting situation.
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AtheistCrusader Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-12-11 05:33 PM
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38. Stupid, yes.
But would it minimize the crime committed by the other person, by attacking you? No. It does not justify a violent assault.

(I agree, I am most amiable when I am carrying a firearm.)
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tammywammy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 04:32 PM
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2. Pertinent paragraphs
"But it's exactly this type of treatment that Hardwerk, who has not worked since a 2001 car accident left her disabled, says she cannot afford, and the initial insurance payout didn't cover."

"Even more surprising, perhaps, than the decision to sue her own father, Kaitlyn's suit doesn't name his shooter, Christian Squilliacotti. While he may seem the most obvious target for a lawsuit, Squillaciotti -- who was convicted of two counts of attempted murder and weapons charges and is currently serving a 13- to 26-year jail term -- has no assets, and his insurance would actually not apply because the shooting was intentional. The former Marine has also been diagnosed with schizophrenia."

"The suit doesn't accuse Timko of routine reckless behavior or general bad parenting, and it's likely Timko is aware this may be his daughter's only way of supporting her ongoing psychological care."
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 04:32 PM
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3. According to various other articles, this was a way
Edited on Mon Jul-11-11 04:34 PM by pnwmom
to try to get her father's insurance company to pay for the daughter's necessary care. The wife of the other driver is also being sued, because she let him drive her car even knowing that he was impaired.

The father has no assets and can't pay for this, and has no objection to the mother doing what her lawyer recommended. It's considered a longshot case, however.
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gejohnston Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 04:39 PM
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9. I would rather see national health care for all than this
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 04:44 PM
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11. Of course. n/t
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no_hypocrisy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 04:33 PM
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4. She's not suing. Her mother is by using the daughter.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 04:35 PM
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5. Which is the way lawyers said they might be able to get the insurance company
Edited on Mon Jul-11-11 04:36 PM by pnwmom
to pay for the daughter's necessary psychiatric care after the incident.

The mother was already disabled and now, after the accident, the father is also severely disabled.
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brewens Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 04:35 PM
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6. I don't even have to be really mad to flip someone off. Sometimes
I flip people off out of principal because they have it coming to them. I'd rather not but I feel obligated. Those are the rules.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 04:37 PM
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7. There is no rule or obligation to flip people off
Edited on Mon Jul-11-11 04:38 PM by pnwmom
and it's really kind of dumb considering you don't know how crazy the driver in the next car might be.

That goes double when you have a child in the back seat.
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X_Digger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 05:30 PM
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15. +1
It's just not worth it. In the grand scheme of things, what does it matter?
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PavePusher Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 06:19 PM
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24. I think there was some sarcasm in there.... n/t
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spin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 04:45 PM
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12. I used to flip people off while driving then I got a concealed weapons permit ...
and I carry. I have never given another driver the one finger salute since.

Perhaps Robert Heinlein was right when he said, "An armed society is a polite society. Manners are good when one may have to back up his acts with his life. "
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JackintheGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 05:00 PM
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13. That was you?!?
argle argle argle bargle :mad:

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AtheistCrusader Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 10:51 PM
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28. I don't even give people the thumbs up for a nice car or whatever
for fear it will be misinterpreted at a glance.
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brewens Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 11:28 PM
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29. I actually use the universal "what can you do" arms and hands
raised display aimed at the other people that witness the idiot in traffic more that the finger.
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MADem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 04:38 PM
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8. What--did the schizophrenic Marine not have any money?
More than "cold"--that's cold AND calculated! The ex-girlfriend/child's mother is 'disabled' and can't work, so she's looking for a payday from her ex, who's screwed up himself and probably doesn't have the money that the mother wants.

If the jury finds for the child, I hope they appoint someone to manage the money so that Momma does make hay with it.

The goal is to get the insurance company to fork over the money...but I think that might be a long row to hoe:

"Insurance can only insure against what is a forseeable risk," Ladov said. "And if the risk is not forseeable and the gentleman who is the shooter has no assets and the insurance policy on her dad's vehicle doesn't cover it, Kaitlyn's out of luck."

Kaitlyn and her father have handled the situation by simply not discussing the case, Hardwerk said, but Fassler cautioned that if the suit does create further friction between Kaitlyn's parents there's a danger it may still be counterproductive for Kaitlyn herself.

"Ongoing conflict between parents, with or without legal involvement, puts kids at increased risk of emotional and behavioral problems, Fassler said. "In general, the sooner things get resolved, the better, for everyone involved."

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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 04:41 PM
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10. The father doesn't object to the suit. It's what the lawyer recommended.
Edited on Mon Jul-11-11 04:41 PM by pnwmom
And yes, it's a long shot.

But it's not pitting the father against his daughter or her mother because he, like the mother, is unable to take care of her medical needs, and he isn't objecting to the suit.
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SteveM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 05:17 PM
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14. I discovered a new twist in the cell phone/driving rage...
Recently, while delivering trash to a re-cycler, I came upon a car stopped at a green light. The driver was "twattering" (given the location of the device) and wasn't paying attention. I honked and he looked up, put the car into gear and drove. But he resumed his zombie gaze and slowed to a crawl. I passed around to the right (4-lane), and started to pass in front of the texture. As I did so he sped up, hit his brakes and honked. I looked into the rear view and shook my head. He continued to follow me for several blocks, driving slowly past me when I stopped at the re-cycle facility, then drove past. Within 5 minutes an Austin PD officer stopped in the middle of the street near me and shouted for me to step away from the van: I was looking down the business end of an AR-15.

The officer, still holding me at gunpoint, told me that the other driver said I pointed a gun at him. I told him that was bull, and he could search the van. He didn't bother, apologized, and said that this "kind of thing" was common in Austin; not texting and twattering while driving, but phoning the cops when someone objects to the a cell phone zombie's driving, and making false accusations. Nice world these punks have brought to us.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 05:37 PM
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16. Lucky for you that you didn't have a gun. How would you have
defended yourself against this guy's false accusation? What would the cop have done, I wonder, with just his word against yours? I'm glad you didn't have to find out.
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RamboLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 05:56 PM
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20. But if you did have a gun & story was posted here
Many would have you guilty. Like the PA state senator who was a Repub and got accused. Not saying he was guilty but it was his word against an aggresive driver. State police took the other driver's word on this one with no proof except the state senator had 2 guns in the car.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 06:06 PM
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22. So what happened to the state senator? Were charges pressed? n/t
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RamboLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-12-11 12:17 PM
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33. yep got some minor conviction - may be fighting it
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SteveM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-12-11 01:05 PM
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36. Yep, punking is a dangerous business. The most disturbing thing...
is that the cop said that Austin, TX is the worst place in Texas about the practice. He never asked to search the van, perhaps because some blowhole on a cell phone was not probably cause. Had I had a gun, I would have informed the officer, then insisted that the case be pursued, up to and including prosecution for falsely reporting a crime.
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ileus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 05:45 PM
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19. cell phones are the devil for sure...and vlingo sucks ass.
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SteveM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-12-11 01:02 PM
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35. Cell phones are great for certain things...
like emergencies, routine household activities, and when injured and far from help; otherwise, they seem to complicate, confuse and slow down rather pedestrian activities. In a grocery store last night: I saw a guy on a cell arguing with (presumably) the other phone user about the price/quantity of some cough medicine. Such wasteful gas.
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Anakin Skywalker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 06:03 PM
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21. Why are the egomaniacs so obsessed with constantly tweeting others on their activities/whereabouts?
Edited on Mon Jul-11-11 06:04 PM by Anakin Skywalker
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SteveM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-12-11 12:59 PM
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34. Don't know, but their punking is dangerous reality. nt
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ileus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 05:43 PM
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18. I suppose she holds the shooter innocent...
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 06:09 PM
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23. No, she doesn't. But the shooter's insurance company won't pay
because it wasn't an accidental shooting. So the lawyer has advised her to sue the owner of the car (who let her schizophrenic husband drive it) and the father who flipped off the other driver.

This is about insurance companies and lawyers more than it is about a daughter and her father, or two ex-spouses. The father doesn't oppose the lawsuit. It might be the only way to get his daughter the psychiatric care she now needs -- though the lawsuit is unlikely to succeed, according to some of those interviewed.
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ileus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 08:25 PM
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25. lawsuit lottery...it's about money not therapy.
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Hassin Bin Sober Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-11-11 10:29 PM
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26. No. It's about a fucked up privatized for-profit health care system...
... where family members are forced to sue each other to get care. Or elderly couples are forced to divorce each other to get care.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-12-11 01:47 AM
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31. It's true that this wouldn't be an issue with socialized medicine,
assuming that it paid for psychiatric care on the same basis as other medical conditions.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-12-11 01:46 AM
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30. The money is to pay for the daughter's medical care, which is expensive
and not covered by insurance.
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AtheistCrusader Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-12-11 09:59 AM
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32. Sure it is.
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