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shaayecanaan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 09:53 PM
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How I'm losing my love for Israel...
http://www.forward.com/articles/114180/

First, I admit, it has become simply exhausting to maintain the ambivalence, the hugging and the wrestling, the endless fence sitting. My love of Israel has turned into a series of equivocations: “I do not support the expansion of settlements, but the Palestinians bear primary responsibility for the collapse of the peace process in 1999.” “The Israelis acted overzealously in Gaza, but they must be entitled to defend themselves against rocket attacks.” “Yes, the separation wall is odious, but it is also effective and necessary.” Yes, but; no, but; defend, but. At some point, the complexity and ambiguity wears one out, particularly when the visuals on the anti-Israel side are so compelling, and so stark: walls, tanks, checkpoints.


Interesting piece for the responses as much as anything. More: http://www.forward.com/articles/114180/
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Sebastian Doyle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:10 PM
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1. I see one imbecile went immediately to the Jimmy Carter bashing.
The one President who actually did more for Israel than any other before or since. Go figure..... :evilfrown:
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whoneedstickets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:24 PM
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2. Been there for a while....
...I can't give up a commitment to the existence of Israel, but I can no longer claim to be supporter. It's like having a friend you care about who constantly displays self-destructive impulses but who you know has good in their heart someplace and you wish they would simply listen to their better selves.
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Ozymanithrax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-24-09 10:51 PM
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3. I long ago reached that conclusion and chose not to take sides.
Taking one side or the other just encourages the violence. They don't need my help for that.
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bemildred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-25-09 12:52 AM
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4. So I read it, and maybe an hours worth of comments.
Then my mind, what was left of it, refused to continue.

I also went through Mr Landes "critique" of the Goldstone report, linked in the comments. I think I can begin to discern the main features of the counter-attack, I keep seeing certain ideas repeated now.

I do think the responses are more interesting than the article, mostly because of the complete lack of consensus about anything at all to do with this issue. The prevalent reliance on simple-minded dogmas and emotional tenacity of one sort or another is nothing new, of course.

Mr Michaelson's essay is a decent piece of writing, as writing, one hopes it helped him sort things out. I don't think I really have much to say about the content, it speaks for itself fairly well, and I'm not up for a critique.
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shira Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-25-09 05:58 AM
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7. I'm impressed...
...that you read Landes' critique (fisking) of Goldstone.
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shaayecanaan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-25-09 07:55 AM
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8. I sort of skimmed it after a while...
nevertheless it struck me how many incandescent responses there were to what was a fairly sincere and heartfelt piece.

I could relate to it quite a bit actually, in the sense of being disenchanted with one's people and one's cause. It strikes me why this is called "self-hatred" - if anything, it tends more towards self-importance or even smug superiority.

I actually found the link to the article on the Commentary magazine website, with the obligatory reference to what a piece of crap it was. A pity, it used to print articles that were similarly honest and introspective, such as this one:-

http://www.lukeford.net/Images/photos/out.pdf

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bemildred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-25-09 09:27 AM
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9. Yes, lot's of heat, not so much light.
Edited on Fri Sep-25-09 09:30 AM by bemildred
I tend to have a negative view of people and causes in general, in the sense of political ideologies, though it really just boils down to causes, ethnicity as such is a good thing. I see the necessity for causes given the deliberate corruption of political life, and yet causes are routinely corrupted themselves. Sort of a http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_Queen">"Red Queen" situation for political reform.

I can feel the narcissism of it, but I have to give credit for a sincere attempt at self-examination. If one examines oneself and finds narcissism, what is an honest writer to do? How can one examine oneself without a bit of narcissism? It is true that he doesn't sound like he's ever been economically deprived.

That Podhoretz thing really takes me back. I remember doing a church inner-city outreach thing when I was maybe 16. It is still vivid in my memory, it was maybe 1961, my first interaction with black people. The main impression I retain is one of friendly but complete lack of understanding or each others worlds. That was when I still believed what they taught me in High School.
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LeftishBrit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-25-09 03:40 AM
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5. Interesting article, though a bit long and rambling
Edited on Fri Sep-25-09 03:42 AM by LeftishBrit
I reached his point long ago, if I was ever at any other. I don't 'love' Israel; I just think that it has the same right to exist as any other country, and that world history shows why Jews need a homeland. But I disagree with and disapprove of an awful lot of what Israel does.

Unlike the author, my support, such as it is, for Israel is not damaged by conversations with left-wingers who oppose Israel; but it can be affected by the views of the Israeli government and some of its supporters themselves. Being informed by people associated with the Israeli government that people like me are culturally 'lost' and politically the spreaders of a 'virus' can make it very tempting to think "well, you obviously don't need my support anyway".

Then I read or hear accusations that keep cropping up that Israel and 'Zionists' are controlling the world; the greatest threat to world peace; organized 9-11; are responsible for the war in Iraq; worse than any other country or group... and I realize why, in spite of everything, Israel still needs support - not unconditional or unlimited support, but the limited but firm sort that most countries in the world take for granted.

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pelsar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-25-09 12:34 PM
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10. i have that same problem....
Then I read or hear accusations that keep cropping up that Israel and 'Zionists' are controlling the world; the greatest threat to world peace; organized 9-11; are responsible for the war in Iraq; worse than any other country or group... and I realize why, in spite of everything, Israel still needs support - not unconditional or unlimited support, but the limited but firm sort that most countries in the world take for granted.

only i think i take it a bit more personal, given that i live in israel....
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-26-09 07:55 PM
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18. I don't really understand the whole *love* Israel thing....
Edited on Sat Sep-26-09 07:56 PM by Violet_Crumble
I get that it's not really love, but a blind and unquestioning patriotism that doesn't allow room for criticism or reflection. I find that sort of blind fervour scary, no matter which country is the beneficiary of it. And when it comes to Israel in particular, I have seen it happen in this forum where people who I know are good people go silent when it comes to criticising the Israeli govt, or if they do say anything, the criticism is muted to the point of being irritating in its wimpidity. There's no way they're part of the *I Heart Israel* brigade who act as though if they don't personally 'defend' the honour of Israel when it comes to even the worst things the Israeli govt is responsible for, it'll shrivel up and vanish, but for me they're more annoying because unlike the *I Heart Israel* brigade who most of the time I don't think give a second thought to the suffering of the Palestinian people, I've got a very fair idea that they do care deeply and are upset by what the Israeli govt has done...

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Enthusiast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-25-09 05:11 AM
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6. Stop the settlements! nt
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Vegasaurus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-25-09 01:46 PM
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11. Birthright trips are as busy as ever
Students almost never get the date they want,

The idea that American Jews are cooling on their love for Israel is patently false.

The entire United States Congress supports Israel.

Is it a perfect country?

No, but it certainly wins on human and civil rights compared to all of its neighbors.

And in terms of deaths caused to Arabs?

The US and Britain win that by a landslide.

Or the Arabs themselves win that, since they have killed millions of each other.

Israel's treatment pales by comparison.

I will always support Israel.
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whoneedstickets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-25-09 03:10 PM
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12. Even as it slips into Apartheid?
Jimmy Carter wasn't entirely off with the analogy. Israel needs to take the high road, even if it cost them as winning back the support of the political left worldwide will generate more benefits than whatever they bear.
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pelsar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-26-09 04:40 AM
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14. israel doesn't need the intl left...
its enough of a liberal democracy with enough educated citizens and tolerance to advance on its own while balancing the security needs to keep its citizens safe from attacks.

the intl left has failed not just the Palestinians but have little credit within israel.....see gaza for details.
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whoneedstickets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-26-09 01:31 PM
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15. BS, the Isrealis benefit from billiions in US aid..
..and have for DECADES. It could not sustain its defense posture without it -- or bankrupting its economy. Self-sufficiency is an Israeli illusion.
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LeftishBrit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-26-09 02:36 PM
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16. US military aid is hardly provided or supported by the international left
or the left at all.

As a member of the international left, I would like to think that we influence lots of things in lots of places; but I doubt that the influence is really all that great, and certainly not when it comes to US military aid.
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-26-09 07:39 PM
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17. Yr arguing about something the author wasn't saying....
He was speaking for himself, not for American Jews, which is good, as I find those who take it upon themselves to speak on behalf of American Jews and act as though they all think the same way to be pretty stupid and trying to project their own individual beliefs onto an entire group of people....
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azurnoir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-25-09 03:39 PM
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13. Having been on that journey myself I do understand
what the writer is saying here, albeit I was a bit disturbed at his reliance on his social circle as an influence.
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question everything Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-27-09 01:03 AM
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19. And you think that Israel cares, why?
Israeli leaders are there to protect the existence of Israel and its citizens the way they see fit. that it does not meet the "high standard" of people here - tough.
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Violet_Crumble Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-27-09 01:36 AM
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20. I'm sure the Israeli govt doesn't give a shit...
After all, they're a bunch of RW and fascist extremists. I feel very sorry for you that you think there's a necessity to so badly abuse another people in order for Israel to 'exist'. That sort of thing isn't necessary at all...
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LeftishBrit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-27-09 03:56 AM
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21. Couldn't you say the same of any country?
I think that Israel is sometimes singled out for criticism that would not be addressed to other countries. I myself object when people imply that Israel is uniquely evil. However, in this international society (not just DU, the world at large) we have a right to criticize every country.

American, British, Palestinian, Italian, Russian, etc. etc. 'leaders are there to protect the existence of (their country) and its citizens the way they see fit'. (I am here confining myself to countries that have democratic elections at least on paper.) Should we not criticize any of these?

Israel often acts as though it wants the support of Jews internationally. So perhaps what someone like the author of the OP says is relevant to them. Or maybe not. In any case, the fact that 'leaders are there to protect their country the way they see fit' does not mean that everything they do is right.
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pelsar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-27-09 04:32 AM
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22. israel has that relationship to world Jewry...
that should be obvious.....some obvious disavow it, some disagree with it, some don't like it...but the connection, the identity is there for many......this is clear via israeli policies, the israeli population, the jewish identity and culture.

However world Jewry is not made up of just the left there is obviously a large right middle and religious contingent as well of which all of israeli govts have kept in contact with and nourish . What the author wrote is relevant in that its a connection that has been lost...my only contention is that the author seems to be more a victim of peer pressure than anything else.
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