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bobweaver Donating Member (953 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:12 PM
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If a gay man became President, how would he and his partner be addressed?
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BeeBee Donating Member (480 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:14 PM
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1. The President and the First Man? n/t
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crispini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:16 PM
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3. First Gentleman, I bet.
That'd be nice! Very old-fashioned and mannerly.
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RumpusCat Donating Member (548 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 07:36 PM
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32. First Lord
Well, Lord is the proper companion title to Lady, like Duchess/Duke, Earl/Countess, etc. It sounds totally strange to those of us not from countries with royalty. Personally, I hope they go with this, just so I can giggle every time I hear it.

First Gentleman sounds like a stripper club.
First Roommate... lol.
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malatesta1137 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:15 PM
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2. President and First Gentleman
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BurtWorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:16 PM
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4. The late Mr. and Mr. X
:scared:
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comsymp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:28 PM
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6. Snarf- funny, but sadly, probably true
So whaddaya think- First Mo?
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KnowerOfLogic Donating Member (841 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 06:59 PM
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29. It's not funny at all.
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jonnyblitz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 05:47 PM
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24. no shit. n/t
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gottaB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:19 PM
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5. Mr. and Mrs. Lincoln?
Edited on Mon Dec-20-04 02:22 PM by gottaB
....and Captain Dickerson
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bobweaver Donating Member (953 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:32 PM
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7. "They share a house."
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comsymp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:32 PM
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8. LOL- or the First "Friend"
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bobweaver Donating Member (953 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 05:45 PM
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22. The old ladies in my neighborhood always introduce same sex couples as
"Have you met Karen and Kristin? They share a house on our street."
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w13rd0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:36 PM
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9. Top and bottom?
The President and his "close personal friend"

Mr. President and Mr. Signifigant Other

Mr. President and the First Partner
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goclark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 09:04 PM
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37. Reminds me of Nixon and Bebe

Rabozo (sp,?)

I always thought they were partners and Pat was just a front.
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spanone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:36 PM
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10. Mr. and Mr. President
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morgan2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:38 PM
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11. George and Karl...
Mr. President and his brain.
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Nothing Without Hope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:42 PM
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12. Interesting question. I think a newly coined word will be needed.
There isn't yet a formal title because gay marriage is not yet widely accepted as being equivalent to hetero marriage. I hope Iive long enough to see what is eventually chosen as the formal term when it is fully accepted.

It's not perfect, but I rather like "First Companion." One problem with it is that it doesn't necessarily imply a permanent bond equally binding to both sides and encompassing all levels of life together. To me, "First Partner" has a funny sound to it, like a cowboy movie or something, though it does capture more of the idea of a relationship of equals facing life together. Perhaps a new word will be coined, since at least to my knowledge, none of the common English ones in use really do the job. That's what a living language does -- evolves new words for new experiences and discoveries and ways of life.
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demwing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:49 PM
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13. President "X" and his long time male companion /nt
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KarenS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:50 PM
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14. somehow, I think this just so far into the future that,,,,
we don't need to worry about it yet!!
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LynnTheDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 02:54 PM
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15. President and First Gentleman
Altho I dunno why we bother now with a First anything.

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jburton Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 05:08 PM
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16. The President and his "roommate"
nt
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David Dunham Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 05:10 PM
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17. Forget it. It won't happen in our lifetimes or in the next 100 years.
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Endangered Specie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 05:14 PM
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18. Considering what would have to be done in this country for that to EVER
happen... worry about that when we get there.


First Gentlemen or First Lady, simple enough.
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Mixxster Donating Member (653 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 05:18 PM
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19. Considering that we haven't even elected a female president yet,...
I don't think it's something we'll have to concern ourselves with in our lifetimes.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 05:22 PM
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20. Mr President and First Gentlemen sounds good to me
Edited on Mon Dec-20-04 05:23 PM by donheld
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mcscajun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 05:35 PM
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21. Mr. President and his Chief of Staff
Edited on Mon Dec-20-04 05:36 PM by mcscajun
We won't have an openly gay President in this century is my guess.

=============================
President Josiah Bartlet:You got a best friend?
Roger: Yes, sir.
President Josiah Bartlet: Is he smarter than you?
Roger: Yes, sir.
President Josiah Bartlet: Would you trust him with your life?
Roger: Yes, sir.
President Josiah Bartlet: That's your chief of staff.

=============================

I'm still waiting for the first woman President. We Might have a shot at that.
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 05:46 PM
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23. The President
and the First GayDude
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orpupilofnature57 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 05:49 PM
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25. RONNIE AND NANCY, who give a shit?how far from that bridge?
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Stinky The Clown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 06:07 PM
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26. Doesn't the same word dilema exist for the first woman president?
I suspect First Husband or First Gentleman is gunna be laughed at.
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msongs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 06:15 PM
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27. assassinated? eom
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Lisa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 06:24 PM
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28. I guess it depends on whether they'd be able to get married legally
Does anyone recall the last time there was an unmarried President, with a significant other? (I remember there was a situation in Mexico recently, where they had to hire someone to be official hostess since the President wasn't married -- there wasn't a spouse available to be "First Lady".)


"First Gentleman" sounds kind of old-fashioned, but no quainter than "First Lady" I guess. It would also work for the husband of a straight female President.
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jellybelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 07:18 PM
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30. by
liberals:

Mr. President and Mrs. First Lady:P

conservatives:

Mr. President and Mr. Queen

sorry that I couldn't think of anything funnier.
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 07:33 PM
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31. President James Buchanan & Mr. King
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geniph Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 07:37 PM
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33. By their names, I imagine
just like anyone else.
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orpupilofnature57 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 07:45 PM
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35. HOW REFRESHING, common sense
Edited on Mon Dec-20-04 07:45 PM by orpupilofnature57
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Dan Donating Member (595 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 07:41 PM
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34. Democrats
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autorank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 08:52 PM
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36. Bruce
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ixat Donating Member (163 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 09:26 PM
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38. Hahah, this'll never happen my friend. We MIGHT have a black pres
sometime in the next century...
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TNMOM Donating Member (735 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 09:43 PM
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39. More important question: will they or won't they
support rights for other gays?
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ldf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 10:21 PM
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40. mr top and mr bottom
Edited on Mon Dec-20-04 10:23 PM by ldf
or mr. president, and mr. bottom

we would only tolerate a top as president.

:-)

edit, sorry. i see this one has already been suggested. my bad hairdo.
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bobedwards Donating Member (38 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-20-04 10:41 PM
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41. Hell no
That sure as hell won't happen. America would not put a gay dude or a lesbian in office.
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bobweaver Donating Member (953 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-21-04 01:03 AM
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42. The President and Queen
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Lone Pawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-21-04 01:05 AM
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43. First Gentleman.
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