Well they say fools walk where angels fear to tread...
See, it started with lildreamer316's thread "I want to make a small point about the South" which brought to light an interesting and useful issue:
"See, most people I know here are very easy going and hard working.We don't mind working for a living,and we don't even mind finding out new more efficient ways of doing what we have always done. But, whatever you do, don't ever ASSUME that you KNOW what we want. Don't ever assume that you KNOW how customers from the area want to be treated. Whatever you do, DON'T treat us like we are just another number and stupid yokels. Do not dumb down to us, don't condescend, and don't be formulatic. If you do this, this is what people in the south will do: they will do the EXACT opposite of what you WANT them to do JUST TO PISS YOU OFF.
"Really.
"I know it SEEMS stupid, self defeating and immature, but the bottom line is the spirit of stubborn need for freedom that this country was founded on, however misguided you may think it is now (and it certainly sometimes is!). I will bet on this response every time someone comes into town with an attitude and alot of money. I have seen perfectly good business go completely broke because of this. We will tolerate them for awhile, let them make a little money,smile quietly to ourselves and then boom!...brokesville.
"I offer this to the many here who argue constantly about the mentality of the South. We are many things, we are red at the moment, but I believe the solution to the Dems is to make sure they are not commanding but friendly, not strenuous and overbearing but patient and PERSISTENT. You remember that old adage about the southern politeness? It still applies. Scarlett ain't got nothin' on some of us! We will slay you with a smile.Things may move as slow as molasses, but they DO move. Steel Magnolias indeed..."
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=104&topic_id=5336081&mesg_id=5336081Now it seemed to me (and still seems to me) that this statement reflects but one view of Southerners, and so I raised the folllwing point:
"I can understand what you say from the point of view of the history of race relations in the South and how the North has intervened repeatedly to recognize the dignity and humanity of people of colour.
"For some reason I suspect your use of the word "South" is colour-coded, as Blacks have benefited in many ways from the North going South to both change it and Southerners.
"How about liberation from Slavery? That was bad for the South? Which South? The slave-owning South or the enslaved South?
"How about voter registrations? Bad for the White South or the Black South?
"I could go on but you get the point, I'm sure.
"The resentment the White South feels towards the North is that of the dispossed towards the conqueror, and it isn't going to change until the White South recognizes that people of colour should -never- have been enslaved.
"Till then it looks like the White South is going to go on expecting the North to repay a debt it doesn't owe."
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=104&topic_id=5336081&mesg_id=5347089I've been told, politely, to "let it go" and not pursue this matter.
To complicate matters, I was reading welshTerrier2's thread on reconstruction in Iraq where I came across the following statement from wT2:
"it's tragic that those who are the loudest have nothing to say in threads like these ... they don't give a damn about policy ... they never, or rarely anyway, show up to participate unless they think they can make points for their "loved one" ...
"all they care about is winning; not making the country better ...
"until the Democrats put issues ahead of politics, we ain't going nowhere"
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=132&topic_id=2247093&mesg_id=2247252Now I happen to agree with that last statement about putting issues ahead of politics, and not just for Democrats or even politicians. I think we all need to do that all the time.
And for me the logical conclusion from that is to explore all aspects of each issue to ensure each issue is understood thoroughly and addressed appropriately.
So here I am doing a soft-shoe shuffle where angels fear to tread.
The issues:
1. Are Southern people of colour as eager to avoid interference from the North as lildreamer described?
2. If so, why (given the history of benefits that arose from previous interference)?
3. Given the differences in heritage between Southern people of colour and Southern whites, how do you respect the heritage of each when one says "Help!" (such as the case with disenfranchised people of colour) and the other says "Get Out!"?
4. Are Democrats addressing these issues in a manner that, somehow, respects both sides, or is the Democratic Party so intent on building and maintaining a "big tent" that these issues are to be glossed over to avoid stepping on any toes?
My apologies if this steps on any toes, but I've never been very good at leaving things like this alone.