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Some of my friends, believe it or not, are completely to the right. Some are so far to the right that they're left. One thing we all have in common, however, is our enthusiasm for literature. On Friday, the evening started out with our favorite topic at hand, but eventually it moved into the one area where we've all been on edge with each other for the last four-plus years: politics. And on this area, the conversation was blown wide open with the surprising disenchantment of the fundamentalists with Bush, their religious leaders, and the state of the nation.
With Bush, the fundamentalists (who preferred to call themselves "social conservatives") said he is not conservative. He is bankrupting our nation in Iraq (these were former supporters of the invasion; I had no idea they changed their minds), further bankrupting our childrens' future with debt, has no idea how to manage a budget, and (important point among the naturalists/sportsmen here) is completely destroying the environment. One went so far to say that the burden of proof isn't on people like us at DU who believe global warming is happening; rather, the burden of proof should be on those like Bush who say it is NOT happening. Until then, we should act like the world is coming to an end. Oh, did I hear some of you snicker "Rapture?" They think that's utter bullshit polished by Tim LaHaye. Oh, yes. They are very discontented with the so-called leaders of the religious right.
In fact, they thought that LaHaye, Falwell, and Robertson should just shut the hell up. And as for Dobson, who is their standard-bearer? They are greatly disappointed that he went along with the Matt Drudge "The e-mails and IMs were just a prank among the pages" story. These are the same folks who were up in arms about Clinton getting some on the side, and they're just as disappointed that Dobson is brushing off a sex scandal for the sake of maintaining his flock's turnout at the polls for the Republicans. I mean, these are people who just paid to see him speak in Pittsburgh a few months ago.
Things were kicked up a notch further when perhaps the most religious person in the group said that gay marriage may or may not be a bad thing. My jaw dropped. He said that nobody really knows for sure how children being raised by two moms or two dads will turn out; he now knows such families, and he called the "gay agenda" a Republican boogeyman. "Research the children for 20 years, and if the results show the kids are as normal as children from hetero families, then we have to consider legalizing gay marriage. If the results are inconclusive, follow the test group for another 10. Let's find out the truth once and for all."
Wow.
While the conservatives weren't all in agreement with each other with the topics at hand, I had to ask if the discontent among the group is shared by other religious types they know. They all said social conservatives everywhere are talking about these matters, and while they are deeply disturbed by being marginalized by the Republicans, they don't know who else to support. They still have to wrap their minds around voting for Democrats. Why? They just can't see themselves breaking away from the Republicans because they fear losing all political influence. (Hey, they were honest.) At this point, I decided to go for the score.
"So let's talk about abortion," I began. "You're all against it, right?" to which one and all said yes. "Okay, now let's frame your message as pro-life. You care about life, true?" And again, they all agreed they are. "Okay, now look at things from this liberal Democrat's point of view. I think that our children should have the best health care. I think we should fully fund Head Start and feed our children the most nutritious lunches. All this is for the betterment of life as I see it. I also think we should better fund adoption agencies so unwanted children can find a loving home. How about you guys?" And the conservatives said yes, one and all. One even piped up and said, "We should also consider the other end of the spectrum and do a better job at funding elder care and do something better with Medicare and Social Security. Bush's spending is going to put those programs in the hole!"
I sat back and said, "Okay, we're all in agreement about being pro-life. If you can talk to your friends in your churches and other organizations that the Democrats are looking out for the children and seniors, think of the common ground we could all work on. We work together long enough, respecting each other's opinions, who knows how many lives of children you can save? Probably millions more. And while you won't see abortions ended so long as Roe v. Wade is the law of the land, you'll be saving so many more children by providing a proper perspective on what pro-life is all about than you are now. What social conservatives have been doing no longer works. There can be a better way of saving lives, and that's by working with the Democrats."
And, to my surprise, I scored. And I think lightbulbs went on over all their heads.
Now, I don't know if this group is an isolated example or if there is real discontent out there en masse among the social conservatives that we can take advantage of, but the people I spent time with on Friday night come from the infamous Republican T in Pennsylvania. They are hard-core conservatives (but maybe not as hard-core as they once thought). And if there truly is discontent among these people, perhaps it's time we all have a talk with them and build a greater consensus.
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