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Not to denigrate your circuitry or anything, but much of life is an accumulation of things and one often doesn't realize the tipping point. This is why there are movies: life is not like the movies; we often don't have those clean, obvious pivot points.
Things take time. It's sort of like how Edwards points to Cate's absolute support of gay marriage and says that perhaps it's just a step that his generation can't quite take. (Remember, though, he's been absolutely adamant on full legal and social rights for partners since at least that Dianne Sawyer interview in '03.)
The ship of state (especially for this country) is more like a huge container cargo ship, rather than a speedboat. He'd like to turn the helm over and go straight for single-payer medicine like Kucinich supports, but knows that it just can't happen like that. Things take time, and even though that's often used to keep people from agitating, he's genuinely for change along progressive lines. To turn a container-cargo vessel sharply would cause major disruption, crashing of cargo, compromise to the hull, injury to the crew and all sorts of disorder and mayhem in a big, complex operation with massive kinetic force. Change needs to happen with some restraint. Many people in the health care industry would be displaced by drastic and immediate change.
Back to the issue of gay rights, though. Things happen with time and they happen inexorably. In the not-too-distant future (and even now) we'll be able to look back on the social and legal acceptance and protection of gay rights as having happened faster than women's rights or black rights. Why? For one reason, gays come in all flavors, so everyone of every gender, race, religion, profession or other group has 'em. Familiarity breeds acceptance; this is why the higher the density of the population, the generally more liberal the people.
Maybe there WAS one anecdotal event that shook him awake on the subject. Who's to say it was one of national impact like Matthew Shepard? Maybe it was a friend of a cousin. Maybe there wasn't ONE at all, but just a constant series of events, laws, social occurrences that just made him realize that his natural proclivity for pluralism brought him in line with this, too. Remember: this guy's INCREDIBLY comfortable in his own skin, and people who are generally don't give a damn about what kind of genitalia people have a hankering for. It's not the issue. The issue is whether they're nice, productive, industrious and honest. (Remember, though: shitheadedness is an equal opportunity affliction. Mary Cheney's a privileged user, Roy Cohn was an asshole extraordinaire and Jeff Dahmer was a world-class freak.) Then again, I have to bear the burden for Junior, Joe McCarthy and Ted Bundy, so we all take some hits...
That's the point: folks are just folks, and Edwards REALLY gets that. He can, as Kipling (racist dick, but great writer) said: "...walk with kings, yet keep the common touch."
There are a lot of important causes out there and a lot of different downtrodden groups. Those who identify themselves with one often lose track of this and dismiss those who don't feel their pain to be cowardly, oblivious or the literal bigots themselves. Often it's just a case of focusing elsewhere.
One of the great things about the '04 election is that the right will probably never be able to play the "booga-booga dirty homos" card again, and having done so, will have to bear the backlash for it for a LONG time, at least as long as I'm around and annoying people. The genie's out of the bottle: too many people know too many gay, bi and transgendered people, work with them, have them for neighbors, and care for them. With time, it becomes simply accepted, if for nothing else that the act of hating is just too much work, and the inherent human laziness is on our side with this one.
He came around, and he's a good guy. Look where he came from and look at his life story, and you'll sort of see the same Johnny Edwards. He's a good friend.
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