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bunnies Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 05:14 PM
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In honor of womens history month... A little look backward.
Especially for those claiming that nothing has changed.

Typed out by me from a photo-copy.


Housekeeping Monthly 13 May 1955
The Good Wife's Guide

*Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most me are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.

*Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

*Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

*Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives.

*Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper etc and then run a dustcloth over the tables.

*Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

*Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. Minimise all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.

*Be happy to see him.

*Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.

*Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - rememver, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.

*Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.

*Your Goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.

*Don't greet him with complaints and problems.

*Don't complain if he's late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as a minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.

*Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.

*Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.

*DONT ask him questions about his actions or question his judgement or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always wxercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have NO right to question him.

*A good wife always knows her place.



We HAVE come a long way baby.
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Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 05:20 PM
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1. Eleanor the Good...


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NotGivingUp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 05:31 PM
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2. oh, lord, should i barf now or later?
just goes to show you the propaganda that has been pushed throughout the years. i guess they decided it was more profitable for them to push the "i can bring home the bacon, fry it up in the pan" scenario. it's like having DOUBLE the amount of slave power.
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Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 05:37 PM
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3. Does 'women's/black' history month make anyone else feel marginalized? nt
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bunnies Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 05:39 PM
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4. Now AND later.
Thats my point. We laugh and/or barf at this crap now!
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Adelante Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 05:39 PM
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5. And it didn't come easy
We fought like hell every step of the way :toast:
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bunnies Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 05:44 PM
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6. Damn right.
Cheers to that. :toast:
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