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DianeG5385 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:02 AM
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DU used to be a haven; It's now a torture chamber
I came here back in 2001 a raw nerve ending after the Supreme Court imposed Bush victory and found solace, a place to argue and discuss the politics of the day, debate and dispute, but all with a certain respect, for the most part. We all suffered through the highs and lows of 2004, chose our candidate (mine is still obvious) and were severely disappointed at the outcome.

Then, 2006, the fury was on our side and we won!! Congress!

Since then I have felt a continuous downward spiral of accusation, recrimination and outright insult such that a mob now rules the roost and dictates the dialog on this site, insults demeans and abuses debate and happily watches the exit of those who DO NOT CONFORM TO THE "NORM". It is very difficult to voice any opinion that does not exalt Obama.

Clinton, I must say appears to be feeling the unrelenting pressure and seems exhausted by the steamroller of abuse. I guess she thought she could take it but I think she is wrong. This level of mean spiritedness from one's own party must be disheartening. This doesn't make me like Obama as a result although I'll vote for him over McCain but I sincerely think we are making a huge mistake. I hope he proves me wrong.

I supported Biden, he didn't stand a chance. After all, all he was was qualified to be president, but he wasn't "inspiring".

I was absolutely stunned at the level of vitriol against Clinton on this site that I decided to vote for her in the primary as compared to Obama, she had more knowledge of world politics. (My opinion, please! ). When I posted in her defense, the freaky people came out en masse and slapped me silly with insults. I was put on "ignore" for voicing my opinion sheesh!


I would like to say alot of bad words and insults but then, I would sink to your level and I won't. I feel deeply wounded and as if I've lost my refuge as I can no longer post my thoughts without some one insulting me. I know what the response will be but I don't care.l."don't let the door hit you...." leave! get lost! hear it all lately...

It is very sad to me ( I know, who cares...) Well I did for many years and I supported this site but I no longer am comfortable here.

So I give up DU to the crapologists for the duration.

See you in 2009.
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bhikkhu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:04 AM
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1. See you then! and peace.
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DianeG5385 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:09 AM
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4. Sigh, and sadness
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TML Donating Member (749 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:06 AM
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2. Stay classy
Edited on Wed Mar-26-08 01:06 AM by TML
I would like to say alot of bad words and insults but then, I would sink to your level and I won't.

Then you end it with this...

So I give up DU to the crapologists for the duration.

Kind of disingenous, don't you think?
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DianeG5385 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:09 AM
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3. I know, a little anger snuck out
I really wanted alot of anger but I realized it was counter productive as no one was listening.
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TML Donating Member (749 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:18 AM
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10. Well
Stay calm. Things should blow over in a little while. I go through it every year when my hockey team misses the playoffs by one point on the final day of the season.
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ClayZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:49 AM
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26. I know how you feel!
I want to scream that NO ONE IS LISTENING to Pastor Wright! His sermons are amazing and I am not a church-goer. MSN turned him into a monster. Looks like thousands are going to his YOUTUBE church.

It is all like a house of mirrors.

I hope you come to feel about Obama as I do. We went to his Seattle Rally, and he is seriously amazing.

Peace and happy trails!
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:31 AM
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22. The correct word would be "scatologists" I believe.
However, I disagree. I see more coprophagists than scatologists. :shrug:
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The Doctor. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:55 AM
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37. Hehehe...
That's good.
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The Doctor. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:55 AM
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39. dupe
Edited on Wed Mar-26-08 02:55 AM by Dr_eldritch
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0007 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:11 AM
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5. Keep the sanity and your sense of humor, o' trail buddy. 'Tis a long ride
from the top to the bottom. There are still plenty of good people here on DU and a few jerks like me.

Catch ya on the late shift Diane.
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DianeG5385 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:14 AM
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6. Maybe I'll sneak a post here and there..
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better tomorrow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:15 AM
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8. It can only get better once we have a clear candidate.....
peak often....
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Window Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 05:58 AM
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43. You can go here:
http://z9.invisionfree.com/Clinton_Supporters/index.php...

To join, send a PM to DU'er Black Velvet.
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:15 AM
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7. Is it vitriol? Or trolls screaming about the vitriol?
I see a lot more of the latter than the former. And I've been making a hobby of collecting the most vicious interpersonal attacks here to use as dialogue in future literary projects.

Never noticed you on here before--no particular feelings on your purported departure--don't let the door etc. etc.
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DianeG5385 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:21 AM
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12. I'm not leaving.... just waiting for 2009 for sanity to return
I'm not a super frequent poster so I'm not surprised if you don't "recognize me" lol. By the way, never noticed you here either.
I'm planning to stay quiet despite provocation is my intent. I might fail.
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ossman Donating Member (883 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:16 AM
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9. Priceless. Everybody is too mean... then call them crapologists? Bye Bye.
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DianeG5385 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:21 AM
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13. classic. Did you take it personal?
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ossman Donating Member (883 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:23 AM
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14. Its the rank hypocrisy you write. Take the insults out of your OP if you are offended by GDP environ
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Kilroy003 Donating Member (543 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:18 AM
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11. It'll all be over before you know it...
Just wait, in 2010 people will be pining for 'the old days', when folks at DU took a stand and fought for what they believed in.
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DianeG5385 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:25 AM
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17. Doubtful, but maybe non majority viewpoints will be respected
Clearly even my pretty mild comments have gotten a rise.
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grasswire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:23 AM
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15. you're not alone
The Obama supporters have stolen our last chance to save the country, through their divisive meanspiritedness and steamrollerism. Name-calling, intolerance -- thanks for all the fish, I guess.
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Life Long Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:45 AM
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35. Another attack.
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Up2Late Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:25 AM
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16. I think this would be a good time to quote "The Kids in The Hall" and say...
..."If it bugs ya, then don't let it BUG ya!"

Most of these goons are just a bunch of freeloading disruptors who are just trying to distract you from the real issues and the fact that Obama is dead in the water and has failed to win. They are doing this on all the Democratic discussion boards and unfortunately, those with the power to stop it are not. Best thing to do is just ignore them, the 80% of their comments just become background noise after a while. Let them post their hate, but as long as you don't respond to them, they are just helping you keep your post kicked, totally counter productive to what they are trying to do here.
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DianeG5385 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:28 AM
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19. Right, but the force can be irrestistable
Edited on Wed Mar-26-08 01:28 AM by DianeG5385
I obviously couldn't resist the urge to respond. I should have.
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Life Long Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:53 AM
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36. Another attack on Obama
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sandnsea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:26 AM
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18. I've never seen you before, 1789 posts
:shrug:

I imagine I won't see you again until you're on some other mission to discourage progressives.
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DianeG5385 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:30 AM
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21. I believe we dialogued about autism. Could be wrong
Thanks for my post count. Now I know what it is. where do you go to find it?
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Ichingcarpenter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:34 AM
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23. Agreed, now let us look at what was said.
See you in 2009.

She nether defends her stance in articles or arguments
but emotions and faux emotional opinions

Nothing about the fricking issues or truth!!!!

GIVE ME A FUCKING BREAK...... the USA is going to crap over lies
and that is not important.


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DianeG5385 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:37 AM
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24. Your post is evidence enough
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Ichingcarpenter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:49 AM
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27. We went through the two towers and won in 2006
This is not just a battle for the presidency but a battle
for middle earth, and the DLC are not friends of the shire
but are aligned with Murdor. It is not just Obama, it is
for the ideals of this party that are fought here and who
controls the ring of power.

OK, weird analogy for some, but
this is how strongly I see it and that is why
there is so much resistance to change.

Stay out of this forum
go back to the shire.

Only a few Hobbits are up to the chore.
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Life Long Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:55 AM
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38. Your an Obama supporter? That was an attack
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MaraJade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:05 AM
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30. RIIIIIIIIGHT. . . .!
Any other idea other than "Obama is Lord and God" is discouraging to progressives.

:eyes:

(~~Looks at cup of Kool-Aid, and decides not to drink it~~)
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sandnsea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:13 AM
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31. No, I know some of these "Hillary supporters"
I haven't seen them since they disrupted the 2004 primary. The only time they ever show up is when there's some moderate DLC talking points to distribute.
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:28 AM
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20. Visit the smaller forums.
They're usually much nicer and peaceful, and I even see actual discussions in some of them (just steer clear of the Gun Forum and the Isreal/Palestine Forum...those really are crazy!).

GD-P jumped the shark sometime last fall, and I haven't taken it seriously since then (not that anyone could tell that I did take seriously before that, but I digress). DU is still great, but this isn't the place for too much actual discussion. It's more like a moshpit on ice with whiskey and pcp fueled nutbags...which is why I don't mind it... ;)
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Major Hogwash Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:39 AM
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25. No, it's not, we're still fighting right-wingers here.
It's just that some of these people didn't know that Hillary was a leader of the DLC, is all. And she voted for the Iraq War.


And she refuses to apologize for it.
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boppers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:53 AM
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28. IT DRINKS THE KOOL-AID OR IT GETS THE HOSE!
Just kidding.

:hug:

Hope to see you in 2009.
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MaraJade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:02 AM
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29. Please don't go. . .
I've thought of leaving too, but that's exactly what the Obama followers want you to do. If one
more person in opposition leaves, that makes it easier for them to drown out all voices of reason.

If you can't stand the venom, get up from the computer, turn it off and walk away for a while.
That's what I do. I sometimes absent myself for weeks at a time, come back, leave my comments and walk away
again.

It is overwhelmingly sad that DU is becoming the "Obama Is Lord and God" forum. Perhaps the moderators
should rename it as such in the name of truth in advertising. But until we can start another site for those
with opposing views, I am asking you not to give up the ship. Your voice is needed.

:hug:
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Life Long Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:42 AM
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33. That's an attack.
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Window Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 05:43 AM
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42. Ah, "the voices of reason." So that's what you sweet Hillary supporters are.
Thanks for clearing that up for me.:rofl:
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Life Long Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:39 AM
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32. I Don't know what to say. Obama supporters are not too bad.
Either are Hillary supporters. You should do what is comfortable for yourself. When the time comes I think the situation will be handled but right now all you can do is wait for Hillary to do her thing. This year is bad, but we been through the last two elections that were stolen from us and that was pretty bad as well. Sorry I couldn't help you anymore than that. Have a good night :hi:
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AGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:44 AM
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34. Thanks for your opinon. Good luck , take care, and please consider coming back.
Edited on Wed Mar-26-08 02:45 AM by AGirl
Love ya. If anything, this forum just shows how imperfect people are. Sometimes, the people who disappoint us the most are the people who we thought we can count on the most, strange and sad how life is.
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BigBearJohn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:55 AM
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40. I used to come here for refuge. I loved the people. It felt like home.
We used to snicker at the "Freepers".
But to be honest... I see no difference whatsoever
between the posters here now and the freepers.
None.

I've gone numb to the insults.
They simply don't mean anything more.
It seems like a matter of who can spit the most on
the other guy.

We used to inspire each other with pep talks
and sincere words of encouragement.

Now it seems like it's only a matter of

US vs THEM


and guess what?
We're on the same side. Right? Hahahahahahahah
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bigbrother05 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 03:17 AM
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41. Can understand
Some folks on both (all) sides can get intense. Most of the time, just chalk it up to the heat of the moment, the stakes are extremely high in this election. Think the idea of trying to stay out of flame wars is a good one, but all of us have a hard time holding our tongue when one of our own is being savaged. We have a long way to go until November, hope you (we) keep our sense of proportion and join together to take our country back.
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susankh4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 06:04 AM
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44. Come on over to Hillary Group!
We are nice to one another there.

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yodermon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 09:50 AM
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45. Don't Leave. There's lots of good threads in General Discussion.
GDP is, necessarily, a cesspool. Ya don't have to hang out there.
Avoid the "greatest page" too.
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NOLALady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 10:17 AM
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46. Ignore works for me.
It's been great!
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Omaha Steve Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 09:49 PM
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47. I've been staying out of GDP for weeks

Saw the subject and came over. It is not DU that has gone bad. The success of DU has brought out many that are not Dems at all. Remember even Rush reads us.

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theredpen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 10:18 PM
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48. "the level of vitriol against Clinton"
Hillary Clinton has no one to blame for this but herself.

Do we need to hear more about the Clinton's marital status? No, but pretty much everything else has been legitimate criticism of Clinton. If it's negative, there's a reason for that. You say, "It is very difficult to voice any opinion that does not exalt Obama." That is not true. You can say anything you want, but you may be expected to defend your position. Everyone here does that. Secondly, this wording contains a not-so-subtle invocation of the "Obama cult" smear that ruled GDP for weeks. We are not "cult members" who are "exalting" our charismatic leader.

That insult, lobbed incessantly at Obama supporters as Obama rose in the polls against Clinton, was part of the genesis of this rancor.
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