Wot the heck, why not drag it into this thread too?
The thing is, though, that it's more relevant here than anywhere.
I mentioned David Reardon in my earlier reply to izzybeans. Well, here's David Reardon's latest effort:
http://www.afterabortion.org/MAR/MAR_linkpage.htmAll the big guns are there singing his praises: Willke, Crutcher ...
Well fuck me ... it's on teevee too:
http://www.afterabortion.org/MAR/schedule.htmLots of times this month, on a network called EWTN. And damned if that isn't on my own teevee, at least I think. I've seen it in the digital listings, but since I hadn't had any urge to subscribe to it, I hadn't thought much about it. Didn't realize it was just an exporter of fascist crap into my Canadian living room. And what luck, this is free preview month, so I may be able to catch a little of Rearson'd
oeuvre ... and see what I can find to complain to the CRTC (equivalent of your FCC) about. ... Oh, damn damn
damn. It was January 2004. Never mind.
Anyhoo. The Series, like the book, is called
Making Abortion Rare. And episode 1 is called "Understanding the Keys to Ending Abortion". Huh. Rare just isn't good enough, I guess. He still wants us barbecued through and through.
You might not have known it, but "a non-judgmental love for those who have had abortions" is "the key to ending abortion for this and future generations".
Noooo, folks. Not accessible affordable birth control. Noooo, not economic equality for women. Not providing pregnant women with supports so that they could have a child if they wanted. Not creating jobs and funding post-secondary education and services for victims of sexual and physical abuse. Noooooooo. Unconditional love for them after they have abortion.
I know, it sounds crazy. I guess we'll all just have to buy the book.
In the meantime, my point. There comes a time when the words you want to use, because you think they are the best way of expressing what you mean, just don't work any more.
Now, I don't begrudge homosexual men the word "gay". They'd been denied quite enough stuff; it would be unseemly of me to fight them for control over three little letters they want for their very own. Use it in good health, I say.
You all might not feel as charitable toward the David Reardons of the world when it comes to "rare" as a modifier for "abortion". But you've lost the battle. Everybody may have known what Bill meant when he said it -- that he really did mean ensuring that women had ways of avoiding abortion, whether by not being pregnant or by not being impoverished and isolated and without resources, not because abortion is nasty, but because no one should ever
have to have one.
But the anti-choice brigade has taken the motto away from you, has all but won a total victory in its efforts to portray people who want abortion to be "rare" because they want women to have better lives and not have pregnancies they are unable or unwilling to continue as
people who think it is wrong for women to have abortions.
There's a point at which one cuts one's losses. Begrudge them the motto. Despise their dishonesty. Grieve that yet another nail has been hammered into the coffin of civil discourse. But walk away from
abortion should be rare. It's a rotting corpse at this point, and hauling it around with you is just going to drain your energy and make you look like the ghouls who cut off its head and are now waving the skull around on a pole with your name on it. It's a word. Let it go and hope that it may rest in peace some day.