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Modem Butterfly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 02:16 PM
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Would you mind if a straight woman hung out occasionally?
If I promise to be good and not step on any toes?

I believe that gay people are the proverbial "canaries in the coal mine" - whatever the extreme right thinks they can get away doing to you, they will eventually try on the rest of us. So I think it's important to be in touch with the gay community, so to speak.

Does anyone mind if I hang out?
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xultar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 02:20 PM
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1. How about me, a Gay man traped in a woman's body. Can I play wit y'all
some times too?

I'll bee-have.
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patdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 04:24 PM
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10. That is too funny what you said...I have said when I get dressed up
in pink, frills, high heals and lotsa makeup and hair in curls I feel like I think a gay man feels like and not a feminine women (whatever that feels like) I am a flats, pants, straight hair (since I was a kid I hated curls) and a lose floppy shirt...no bra. I am not gay because I actually hung out with gay women thinking ... maybe ... and decided it was not who I was. So I think there are a lot of women who accept the gay lifestyle and think masculinity and feminism is VERY over sold!

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UncleSepp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-16-04 09:01 PM
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25. Oh hell, I thought it was just me
I feel like I'm in drag in makeup, but in a suit and tie (my preferred dress-up) I'm not exactly butch either. :-D Oh yeah, and I write gay romance (my own characters, not fanfic slash!) and create male-male erotic art. No, seriously. It's my hobby. Maybe it makes up for all the fake girl on girl but not even close to lesbian porn that straight men seem to like or something :-D
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khashka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-15-05 09:49 PM
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27. You can play with me anytime!
But, uhm, well, don't bee-have. Ok? :)

khash.
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 02:23 PM
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2. I welcome you here!
I was touched by the good hetero friends who have offered their support to GLBT DU'ers after what has gone on DU the past week or so...the "gay and lesbians should leave the Democratic Party" crap and its variants posted. Several hetero DU'ers have offered their support and friendship to the GLBT DU'ers.

I'd like it if you hung out here.

:hi:
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JimmyJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-13-04 08:12 PM
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16. Oh thank goodness! I was worried that you'd forgotten us!
:hi:
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meegbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 02:27 PM
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3. Of course!
Pull up a chair.
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Rowdyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 02:53 PM
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4. Of course friends and family are welcome...
It wouldn't be much fun if they weren't
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motely36 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 02:59 PM
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5. the more the merrier
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LDS Jock Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 03:05 PM
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6. isn't that "mary-er"?
gay it up just a tad
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motely36 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 03:15 PM
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7. sorry
I'm not often accused of being to macho
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LDS Jock Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 03:23 PM
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8. just messing with ya
I'm feeling sassy today
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freetobegay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 04:10 PM
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9. You know there is a term for your typein the Gay community.
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Modem Butterfly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 04:48 PM
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11. Yes I know
And I am comfortable with it.

:)
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FM Arouet666 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-14-04 12:35 AM
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23. What about a straight man hanging out?
This one of the first forums I placed in my favorites. Spirited debate, a topic I am very sympathetic toward etc. What am I? Confused, Fag Mag "male hag", ?
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Technowitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-16-05 02:36 PM
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35. Same deal -- welcome
Only kinds of things that are "uncool" would be to go hitting on the self-identified lesbians and bisexual woman. At least, that's the only offensive thing I can think of.

And another is that we try to stay on the GLBT topic as much as possible. If people want to go talking about the NHL season cancellation, for instance, that belongs over in the Lounge or sports-related forums. Get what I'm saying?

We're here mainly as a community and to learn about the issues important to us. If that's why you're here, too, FM, I see no problem.
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readmoreoften Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-18-05 12:21 PM
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39. don't forget the other term for glbt-lovin straights
much love to the fruitflies....
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-19-05 07:32 PM
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40. I didn't know
about fruitflies?
Well, you know what fruitflies do? They multiply,spread everywhere and are nasty to get rid of.
Maybe that is a good thing, having more fruitflies to help with your cause!
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Mrs. Venation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 07:22 PM
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12. Everyone Who Supports Equality Is Welcome Here
Edited on Fri Nov-12-04 07:23 PM by Mrs. Venation
At least as far as I am concerned. I appreciate my "straight, but not narrow" friends more than you'll ever know.

Edited to correct typo.
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Moonbeam_Starlight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-12-04 11:05 PM
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13. WHEW!
Moonbeam lets out a sigh of relief. Another straight woman asked first!

Hello, for those who don't know me, I'm straight (with bi tendencies, but I rarely ever talk about that because I've never acted on them) and am a huge supporter of LGBT rights. Now that the all-consuming election is over I consider it to be the biggest fight of my life.

"An injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere."

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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-13-04 09:23 AM
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14. You're very welcome here Mrs. Moonbeam
...and not just because you said "bi tendencies" :evilgrin: :hi:
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Moonbeam_Starlight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-14-04 12:26 AM
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22. Do I get a toaster now?
Come on, I've THOUGHT about it a hell of a lot!

;)
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mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-15-05 11:32 PM
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29. Sure do, They're good for bagels too
Edited on Tue Feb-15-05 11:33 PM by mitchtv
Just stop in at headquarters.A bunch of coupons too. Welcome Ladies.
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new2004voterWV Donating Member (26 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-13-04 11:43 AM
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15. ya know
moonbeam, whenever I read your posts, I just nod my head in agreement. I would be saying something very similar to your posts, but every time I read yours, I just figure, it's been said already! :toast:
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JimmyJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-13-04 08:14 PM
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17. I just wanted to say hello and welcome
:hi:
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new2004voterWV Donating Member (26 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-13-04 09:56 PM
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18. Thank you!
:toast:
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Moonbeam_Starlight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-14-04 12:25 AM
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21. Wow, thanks!
And welcome to DU! I take it you've been lurking a while?

Feels good to know there are other people like me out there!

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new2004voterWV Donating Member (26 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-14-04 09:33 AM
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24. not that long
I only found the site a day or 2 before the election.. but I've spent countless hours reading posts here. It became my new obsession..lol. I wake up and come here & spent the entire day in front of the puter yesterday, until about 3pm. Then I took a shower, ran to get some groceries we desperately needed, brought home a rotisserre chicken, and sat back down here! LOL. My other message boards aren't getting the attention right now that they usually get, and I know I have a few pm's to answer. :crazy:

In the short time I've been around, I just happened to run across your posts often. I'm still trying to get the feel of things around here, and try to not step on toes. My first post I was feeling a bit emotional, and started to go off, on nobody in particular, but I apologized for it. (It had to do with my state, and the fact that they signed in favor of the FMA, and I was upset over it. I wrote them telling them that, and I recieved replies from 2 offices thanking me for supporting them & thier decision, and that they were glad to know I was in favor of it!! AHHHH!!!) :wtf: I like the picture & sigs I've seen... MORANS. Ok, so I'm still mad. *sigh* (And what's bad is, one of the offices was a Democratic party, and I think I don't want to vote for him if he decides to go again in '06, just because they don't even have the curtesy to READ their mail.)

Oh man, all that on 1/2 cuppa coffee. I think I need to go get more. I really don't like cold coffee..lol.

PS-Thanks for the welcome!!
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BTTB Donating Member (70 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-13-04 10:01 PM
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19. Why not?
This is an open forum, you don't have to be queer to come here. It's just to the open minded, basically. Don't worry, it's not like people are going to flame you for posting if you're not a gay person.

Oh, and <3
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indigo32 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-13-04 10:12 PM
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20. Not at all
as has been said... the more the merrier.
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khashka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-15-05 09:46 PM
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26. Hang out all you want!
You can even step on a few toes - just not mine :)

The only problem I have with straight girls is the bizarre choices they make in straight guys.

And we aren't the only ones on the front line in this "war", straight women are too. So hang out as often as you want, talk, communicate, argue, make friends.

So you are very much welcome here M. Butterfly. I look forward to seeing you again:)

Khash.
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Maat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-15-05 10:08 PM
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28. This PFLAG-er always posts my two-cents' worth wherever on DU.
As if anyone could make me shut up.

I'm a hetero prudy old haggy married mom in her 40's.

But I support my GLBT friends wholeheartedly (before the election, during the election, after the election).

Take care! I just set up a montly donation to PFLAG. Why? Because it is what is right - it is a great organization that has provided support where needed.

Take care!

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union_maid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-16-05 12:14 AM
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30. Oh, cool, other people asked
I stopped in last night to ask a question. Seemed like a very cool forum and I kind of wanted to weigh in on or ask about other things but I didn't want to be pushy.

Even though I'm a middle-aged, straight woman, GLBT issues are one part of my everyday life partly because of friends and partly because of work. So, I'm always interested.
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Technowitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-16-05 01:43 AM
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31. Sure! Welcome.
We -are- a minority. To get anywhere in this world, we need all the friends and supporters we can get.
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-16-05 08:59 AM
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32. self delete
Edited on Wed Feb-16-05 09:00 AM by Misunderestimator
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-16-05 12:44 PM
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33. I hang out here a LOT I just don't post much..
great place to learn!


:hi: :hi: :hi:
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Ian David Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-16-05 02:19 PM
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34. It usually helps if you bring beer
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Erding Donating Member (63 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-16-05 02:42 PM
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36. Welcome
Or wine.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-18-05 07:38 AM
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38. what kind of beer
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-18-05 07:37 AM
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37. Thanks for asking the question
I have been wondering the same thing.
It sounds like everyone is welcome here.
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