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qb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 03:41 PM
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The gay fundie teen who lives next to my cousin was found out.
(His dad kept tabs on his e-mail account)
His parents are sending him somewhere to be "re-programmed"
:-(

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MineralMan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 03:42 PM
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1. Oh, that'll work...
to drive the kid away from his family permanently.
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mnhtnbb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 03:43 PM
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4. If it doesn't cause the kid to commit suicide.
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MineralMan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 03:47 PM
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6. Yeah, there is that, too.
I hope it all ends OK for the young person.
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FreeState Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 03:43 PM
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2. That sucks...
I cant even imagine what the poor kids going through.

My neighbors kid that is 14 just came out as well... to very different circumstances - not one person had a problem with it. I can't wait for the day thats true of all GLBT youth.
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mnhtnbb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 03:43 PM
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3. Condolences to the teen. How old? Old enough to find somewhere else to live?
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qb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 03:47 PM
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8. I don't even know how old he is...
He asked my cousin if he could e-mail me some questions about my experience with coming out but his dad got to him first.
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qb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-16-09 04:50 PM
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26. He's 15, very bright, and as independent as he can be under the circumstances.
My cousin thinks he will probably 'pretend' to be cured to take the heat off and move on from there.
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d_b Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 03:44 PM
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5. run away, kid.
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No More Bushbots Donating Member (192 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 03:47 PM
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7. Wasn't that a South Park episode or something?
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Ian David Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 03:50 PM
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9. If only we could "re-program" the parents. n/t
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 03:52 PM
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10. Why do their irrational and cruel ideas trump biological reality.
I guess that's an old tradition. :-(
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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 06:24 PM
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20. They need a prescription for Homocil
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get the red out Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 03:56 PM
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11. Religious human rights abuse at work
Send your kid to a torture camp, if you claim religious freedom, it's ok.
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RetiredTrotskyite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-16-09 12:07 PM
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24. Yeah....
legalised child abuse. Just wonderful :-(. As long as God gets thrown in, their right to force bullshit down their kids' throats trumphs their kids' right to grow up happy and well-adjusted. If only this could be prosecuted as the child abuse that it is.
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 03:59 PM
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12. That poor kid.
:(

I hope he makes it through this with his mind and personality intact. I hope he escapes from the fundie lunatics as soon as possible.

The problem with religion, even moderate religion, is that it supports and justifies the existence of the fundimentalists. The fundies couldn't exist without all the moderates acting as approving buffers, rationalizing and justifying and protecting their extreme brothers and sisters. And then we get shit like these "re-programmers." :(

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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 04:03 PM
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13. well said
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Bluenorthwest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 04:12 PM
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14. Poor kid
Monsters for parents.
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 04:14 PM
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15. I am so sorry for that kid
I hope he makes it through ex gay camp intact. I don't think I could have.
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vinylsolution Donating Member (807 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 05:41 PM
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16. Religion really screws folks up.
'Nuff said.




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bluedawg12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 06:05 PM
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17. Unholy sh*t! Does this still come as a surprise to anyone?
To anyone who has been around GLBT for even a few days or weeks?

Oppression comes in many forms and this is inhumane, and it is a form of oppression based on heterosexism fueled by moral righteousness.
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cecilfirefox Donating Member (404 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 06:07 PM
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18. Call Childrens services. I don't know if it'd work, but it should if it doesn't now. NT
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-16-09 12:09 PM
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25. They won't touch a families religious education of their kids
with a 10' pole unless there are visible signs of abuse. :(

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tbyg52 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 06:23 PM
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19. That poor kid. nt
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 07:29 PM
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21. That is so sad.
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Solon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 08:35 PM
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22. Call Child Protective Services on his parents, at least it may delay him being...
sent to the "ex-gay" torture facility.
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QC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-15-09 09:55 PM
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23. HE'S ONLY GOING TO SING ONE SONG!!11!!1! n/t
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Creideiki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-16-09 05:30 PM
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27. "But I'm a Cheerleader!"
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meegbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-17-09 01:53 PM
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28. Any update on this?
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sui generis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-17-09 03:27 PM
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29. hey this is Amerika! at least they didn't just execute him
like our friends in the middle east.

I mean, being rejected by your parents and having your head cut off - I would say that both are equally difficult to survive.
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