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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-05-10 07:48 PM
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Roseanne Barr: marie osmonds poor gay son killed himself
because he had been told how wrong and how sick he was every day of his life by his church and the people in it. Calling that "depression" is a lie!
Yet the Osmonds still talk lovingly about their church, saying nothing about its extremely anti-gay Crusade. Marie also has a gay daughter! Hey, I want her and all the gay kids in the world to know that they are just fine being gay and that they deserve love and respect instead of insults and rebuke! I have gay people in my family and my circle of friends and I am kicking bigot ass and taking names!
That is how its done in my religion---(I have my own religion that I made up for myself and it is a great religion that actually works and respects facts and not fantasy!)
Gerald Lund one of the ex church apostles has three gay kids himself.
Yet, even though the people they say they love the most in all of their public displays and speeches (THEIR KIDS AND FAMILY!!) are gay,-- their own children,for crying out loud- these people cannot find the christian decency and compassion within themselves to stop their hypocritical gay bashing!!
How sickening. I know so many mormon kids who were gay and committed suicide, and I just cannot and will not stay quiet in order to not offend bigots anymore. It is all so terribly depressing.
Marie please don't talk about how your faith in your church has helped you get through this one! Please get some integrity and tell that church of yours that you will leave it and stop giving it ten percent of your money if they don't stop trying to destroy your kids' and all gay people's civil rights and dreams and hopes!!
G-d is trying to use you for something good and this is your opportunity! Your church is wrong and on the wrong wrong wrong side of things! Get as vocal about that as you are about your diet. G-d bless you too, Marie.
Take a hard look at the facts now as you use this very sad time for introspection, healing growth and prayer, and become a strong symbol for loving mothers who make no apologies for hatred against their own kids!

http://www.roseanneworld.com/blog/2010/03/marie_osmonds_poor_gay_son_kil.php

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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-05-10 08:01 PM
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1. Recommend
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tishaLA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-05-10 08:03 PM
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2. I agree with Ms Barr, but...
I don't know that this is the time. It's been less than a week since the death and I think it's right to give Ms Osmond the space to grieve.

As to whether Ms Osmond's son was depressed, I'd rather leave that to a diagnostician rather than Ms Barr.
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-05-10 08:05 PM
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4. Agreed with the timing.
As to the diagnostician, many signs seem to be pointing to the possibility that this may be yet another LDS gay teen suicide. :(
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tishaLA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-05-10 08:08 PM
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6. I think I've heard he had a history of drug/alcohol abuse
and was in a rehab when he was 16. That can be a result of the self-loathing the LDS church teaches LGBT people, but it can also be a form of self-medication because of his depression. Or it can be both.
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-05-10 08:11 PM
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8. It's a shame, he said he loved LA, he was studying fashion design...
...it's so tragic, no matter what the cause. :(
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 12:59 AM
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12. Roseanne's never been known for her tact.
I too, think she's right, but now is not the time.
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-05-10 08:04 PM
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3. Sad story about Osmond.....
Roseanne does have this habit of truth-telling...
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Bicoastal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-05-10 08:05 PM
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5. Fuck Roseanne. She's the rare celebrity who, when conservative commentators talk about entertainers
needing to shut up and stick to entertaining, I can kind of see their point.

In this particular instance, Roseanne is assuming that

A) Marie Osmand's son was gay
B) Marie and her family shunned him
C) He killed himself because of this.

There's absolutely no proof of any of this. There's not even any proof that the Mormon Church is at fault--there are a lot of straight, non-Mormon teenagers out there struggling with depression out there, and some do kill themselves even though their parents do everything they can to help them.

But EVEN IF THERE WAS, this is the last sort of thing the mother of a dead child wants to hear immediately after the fact from a total stranger. Roseanne is liberal, yes, but she frequently writes without knowledge, without understanding, without tact, and now without compassion.

Fuck Roseanne.
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-05-10 08:10 PM
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7. Agree with the timing. But the possibility is strong that this is another LDS gay teen suicide.
http://sparklepony.blogspot.com/2010/03/reading-between-lines.html

Marie has said gay-positive things before, the LDS church, though, is virulently anti-gay.

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David Zephyr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-05-10 08:23 PM
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10. In my eyes, the LDS murdered him.
Good for Roseanne. She wasn't attacking Marie Osmond, but the evil institution that drove this kid to kill himself.
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StopTheNeoCons Donating Member (608 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-05-10 09:39 PM
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11. +100
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Tyo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 01:21 AM
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13. Just what we need...
Someone defending the indefensible. The reality of being enmeshed in the Mormon Church and culture would be burden enough to make any rational free-thinking kid pursue an escape of some sort although perhaps not suicide. But for many, being gay would probably be the final unconquerable hurdle. Whatever the circumstances in this particular case, if the Church believes what it says about its power to influence lives it has to take the lion's share of the credit for another death.
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mistajefferson Donating Member (30 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-24-10 10:26 AM
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21. nawww
nawww... I don't think so. This is an important message. Timing seemed bad to me too, but after thinking about it, the timing gives her message extra meaning.
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lifeliberty345 Donating Member (30 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-24-10 02:58 PM
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22. Let's throw yet another Liberal under the bus N/T
"Fuck Roseanne. She's the rare celebrity who, when conservative commentators talk about entertainers
needing to shut up and stick to entertaining, I can kind of see their point."

There's never a bad or wrong time to call bigotry, bigotry.

There's never a bad or wrong time to call out bigots.

If Roseanne can't give her opinion, then no one can.

Go Roseanne. :patriot:
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David Zephyr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-05-10 08:21 PM
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9. Good for Rosanne. She's not attacking Marie but the Mormons.
In our old neighborhood a 15 year old boy killed himself. Mormon.

The Mormons killed this child.

Period.
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Bluenorthwest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 08:58 AM
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14. I agree with Roseanne
And I have been thinking the same thing since I heard this sad news.
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WVRICK13 Donating Member (930 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 09:03 AM
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15. The Mormon Church Is In A Class
all it's own. Founded by a known con artist and ran like a secret society demanding total compliance in every facet of life.
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XanaDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 12:03 PM
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16. Didn't Roseanne grow up Jewish in Salt Lake City?
She may have a lot of ire due to that - although this is not a good time while the Osmonds grieve.
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Toasterlad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 12:12 PM
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17. It's Not a Question of Timing When Calling Bigots On Their Bigotry.
Quite frankly, whether Marie Osmond's son killed himself because he was gay or not is incidental. Many gay children who were raised mormon HAVE killed themselves, and those people who continue to fund this evil cult with their money and support it with their kind words are indirect contributors to those deaths. Marie Osmond chose the cult over the lives of gay mormon children, as do those who call themselves catholics, and most other christian denominations. As such, it's hard to find sympathy for her. She deserves a big heaping helping of the grief she contributed to.

I wish there WAS a heaven, so Osmond's son could at last find love and acceptance. But at least he's forever free from murdering religious cults.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 02:22 PM
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18. recommend
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mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 05:02 PM
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19. I tend to agree with Roseanne
I felt that almost immediately when the news broke. I went on a mini LDS rant
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Not Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-08-10 09:31 AM
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20. check out this site
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-25-10 03:44 PM
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23. I wanted to recommend, but missed the time limit.
Suddenly Roseanne Barr sounds like a genius! I guess that is not apparent in her act.
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RetiredTrotskyite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-26-10 12:45 AM
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24. Maybe...
if Marie had cared more for her son than her ridiculous religion, the lad might not have killed himself. So yes, I would say she bears at least some responsibility. Good for Roseasnne!!
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