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Creideiki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-31-10 09:45 AM
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A tool for the people who come here to lecture
Derailing for Dummies

Because you know AND we know that you're really here to tell us what things look like from the Lofty Perch of Privilege.

I am REALLY, HONESTLY, and TRULY glad that you're here, snowflake. Just knowing that you're extra-super-special lets me live life.
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-31-10 09:51 AM
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1. The lectures are so fucking condescending.
It just makes me want to heckle them. Even that is sort of forbidden as of late here though.
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The Uncola Donating Member (519 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-31-10 10:41 AM
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2. Yep...
.. but do ya have to lecture me about it?

:shrug:
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joeybee12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-31-10 10:42 AM
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3. KNR...it's offensive, the condescension and the dishonesty...
apparently people overnight become lawyers around here.
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bahrbearian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-31-10 10:54 AM
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4. I got my Law degree online it took a few days,but I'm a little slow.
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queerart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-31-10 03:15 PM
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5. Hugs & Recommend..... (nt)

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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-31-10 03:56 PM
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6. Many of those are ALLOWED here if they are presented
in a polite enough way. But calling it a defense of homophobia, or an outright homophobic argument usually gets us in trouble.

That's really sad. We see a lot of those regularly, and they're allowed to stand.

:(



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Creideiki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-31-10 06:59 PM
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7. Autumn Sandeen pointed out the link at PHB
I just read through and thought that it would be a useful reference.

Oftentimes, I'm sure, the Privileged (TM) don't even realize they're speaking from the Perch of Privilege (TM).

The hope would be that the good people who come here and try to tell us Marginalized People that we really aren't Marginalized will take heed. Many others are just here to make themselves feel better by putting others down.
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QC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-31-10 09:41 PM
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8. Pointing out homophobia will get you in a lot more trouble than posting homophobia.
It's weird, isn't it?
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-01-10 02:27 AM
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9. Only until you remember that this place is run by and for straight people.
:(
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