Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

Is it just me or...

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » Topic Forums » GLBT Donate to DU
 
Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 02:20 AM
Original message
Is it just me or...
...is Foleygate is bringing the DU homophobes out of the woodwork? I've seen some doozies. :shrug:

Am I completely offbase in thinking Foley's alleged orientation is not the issue, but the issue is the fact he abused his power and authority in order to prey on minors? Anybody?

Bueller?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 02:24 AM
Response to Original message
1. It is not you...
...the last great "awakening" was the Oscars and the buzz around "Brokeback Mountain."

"Am I completely offbase in thinking Foley's alleged orientation is not the issue..." You are absolutely correct! Sadly, that is the spin we are already beginning to see, it will only get more ugly, IMHO.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Tom Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 02:25 AM
Response to Original message
2. a point to be brought up to is that the age of consent is 16 in DC.
not saying what foley is did is right or proper, just sayin. but it would be the same if the object of his desire were male or female.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 02:28 AM
Response to Reply #2
4. I have no idea why
you feel it's necessary to bring up the age of consent, but since you did, there is evidence that some of Foley's IMs were issued from Florida to Florida, and I don't believe the age of consent is 16 there. In any case, you sound a lot like people on the other board who keep repeating this same inane factoid.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 02:31 AM
Response to Reply #4
7. If FL to FL...
...you are correct. The "age of consent" there is 18.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
undergroundpanther Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 02:40 AM
Response to Reply #4
9. Thank you
The age of consent is only part of the issue, the real issue is THE IMBALANCE OF POWER. Before this scandal broke,when the pages were being harassed by Foley, I ask you.. In terms of social clout,respect,and who's considered the elder, who's got more power? Foley or a pre/teenage Page? Which of these people was most likely to be heard and taken seriously? Foley already had powerful adults ready to cover for him,and spread denial and try to discredit the page should he ever go public,whom did the pages have? Each other? And with the complicit right wing suck up media ..Who would defend them?

A page is in a much lesser position of power, in that sickening situation. Pages, they are young, they are working at the whitehouse hoping to have a career in politics someday,and a bad word from the likes of asshole Foley could ruin their hopes,get people to dismiss the page as a hysterical teenager,a youngster who is telling tales,and their hopes would be gone. Because the political world is a big clique. Before the scandal broke Foley had alot more power over the life and future of a teenage page than the page had over Foley..It was an abuse of power and trust of a young inexperienced innocent immature person that makes Foley such a detestable scumbag to me..
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Tom Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 09:10 AM
Response to Reply #9
19. Right. If the Pages were young college students, even 21 years
old, there would still be a big ethical issue, if not legal issue.
They are working at the Capitol building, btw.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Tom Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 09:06 AM
Response to Reply #4
18. You ignored most of ,my message Cali. You do that often.
habit with some people.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 09:13 AM
Response to Reply #18
20. Your message was exactly one sentence, Tom,
What's more, that you think I ignored part of your message, is hardly a concern to me. Nor is your ad hominem attack. What you don't seem to get, and Lord knows, it's common enough, is our perceptions are strongly influenced by the prism which we view things through. I try to keep that in mind, and to recognize that opinion differs from fact. Mine, yours, and everyone elses.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Tom Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 11:01 AM
Response to Reply #20
21. 3 sentences.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 02:25 AM
Response to Original message
3. Sadly, you're correct.
And goddamnit, of course Foley's sexual orientation is NOT the issue.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
undergroundpanther Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 02:28 AM
Response to Original message
5. Yes the problem is..
Foley abused power and abused minors. And the others around him whom should have known better than to enable or tolerate a page abusing, old disgusting scumbag,the heartless in denial assholes who covered for him and enabled him to mess with the pages are to blame too. The problem is Foley and the enablers both are who failed to protect the pages ,they have no conscience.
That's the problem.

And THAT has NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING GAY.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 02:30 AM
Response to Reply #5
6. I missed you UP
Of course you'd get it. :hug:

God damn I'm just sick of DU. One brilliant post said the GOP congress was turning into an SF bathhouse (!).

Excuse me a moment, I'll be pounding my head into the keyboard.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
undergroundpanther Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 02:49 AM
Response to Reply #6
10. Uhh stop pounding
*panther gently rubs the keypad marks out of Chovexani's tensed forhead..*

remember 1 in 4 people fall somewhere on the spectrum of having authoritarian,psychopathy or narcissism personality either in combo or alone in varying degrees of severity.That means it's pretty damn common for people on a website with 80,000 plus subscribers,to be defective some way in the moral compass department..

Don't let the assholes get you down.(I know I get down alot too)

I know and YOU know what the truth about this whole Foley mess is.And that my dear ,will never stay buried forever,no matter how many people pretend lose their soul to enable those with no soul to get away with it.Lies reach critical mass and stop making any sense after awhile.. and when they do,the fools who went into denial and obstructed this will have no choice but too look at what we said say it is the truth,and eat a big crow..
Just wait.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 03:00 AM
Response to Reply #10
13. Ah, sense-making logic.
That feels good to hear.

I just have to keep believing one day this crap will go the way of the dodo...and keep turning lights on the roaches to make them scatter.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
undergroundpanther Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 03:15 AM
Response to Reply #13
15. Just as long as the roaches scatter
Once they stop scattering and they get bold enough to not cower from words anymore ,It's time to get some boric acid and Diatomous Earth out and nail them all.. wipe them OUT of the kitchen..forever. Put away the pity for these scuttling carrion scented parasites and hurt them, make the demise as ugly and horrifying to watch as pouring salt on a slug.

The resulting revolting slimy mess and the resultant stains on the pages of history and in the memories of all who saw..will remind overly complacent "fortunate" people with too much comforts to be vigilant,to not tolerate infestations of such insectile vermin breaking and exploiting ethical conduct boundaries like Foley did in places of power or authority in our society anymore.They could get the salt shaker shaken on them next if they FAIL to to their jobs to protect our nations halls of law and power from future corruption infestations.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ninkasi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 02:34 AM
Response to Original message
8. From a heterosexual woman's point of view
I have never, in my recollection, read of the crimes of a pedophile where the predator's sexual identity was mentioned if they were straight. I have seen many stories, over the years, of fundamentalist Christian pastors who were charged with child abuse, and improper advances toward minors, and when they were men preying on girls, the word "heterosexual" was never brought up.

It is disgusting to me that the far-right smear machine, which is ready to criticize gays at every available opportunity, remain mute when the outrages are committed by straight predators. This is probably glaringly obvious to most of us here, but what we post is not what is reported in the MSM. In my opinion, homophones have no voice at all that is worth listening to. Molesters are most likely heterosexual, from my own observation.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
undergroundpanther Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 02:57 AM
Response to Reply #8
11. You know, you are right
Edited on Wed Oct-04-06 02:58 AM by undergroundpanther
They always point out gay or transsexuality as being the reason pedophiles are pedophiles,but ironically most pedophile males go after little girls.

Pedophilia is most common in males, although it does occasionally occur in women. Ref 113 Many pedophiles are attracted to children of a specific age, such as girls ages eight to ten. Those attracted to boys usually prefer slightly older children.
**Attraction to girls is more common **
than to boys, although some pedophiles are sexually aroused by both young boys and young girls. Ref 114

http://www.smdc.army.mil/ADR/sexbeh/sexT3.htm
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 02:59 AM
Response to Original message
12. And they're being encouraged by people like Jay Leno who's allowed
to get away with blatantly homophobic jokes like:

"After being caught sending explicit emails to underage boys, Florida congressman Mark Foley has resigned. So his seat is up for grabs, which is what got him in trouble in the first place." --Jay Leno


"This is like the worst thing to happen to congressional Republicans since last Thursday. ... Most people think GOP stands for Gay Old Pedophile." --Jay Leno
:wtf:

What does gay have anything to do with pedophile?? :grr:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 03:02 AM
Response to Reply #12
14. Jay Leno is a homophobic tool
And always has been. Remember how he went on and on and on about Brokeback Mountain, for months prior to and following its release? :puke: His monologues are just frat boy humor.

Man I can't wait for Conan to replace him.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 03:16 AM
Response to Reply #14
16. Yup. I can't stand him....Fortunately, I've always been a Letterman guy.
I do remember all of those Brokeback comments from Leno and I'm with you! :puke:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
undergroundpanther Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 03:22 AM
Response to Reply #14
17. I like conan
and letterman much better Leno is just an ass .
But Conan's thing about the puking frog I can't stand it.I wish he'd scrap that skit.

However long ago he had a skit about the Laryngeal Sphincter that had me laughing so hard I peed my pants.And the Sphincter had cowboy boots and a ten gallon hat on..It was hilarious one of the funniest skits Conan ever did. Oh and the Farting Weiner,priceless.Duh ..duh...duh duh duh,PFFFT..
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
meegbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-04-06 01:40 PM
Response to Original message
22. I do and I made some cracks myself ....
but I am taking it in stride, for now. And I will say that people are at least saying they do not associate being gay with being a pedeophile.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
G Hawes Donating Member (440 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-05-06 01:27 AM
Response to Original message
23. It's not just you.
I'm new here and I'm still kind of finding my way around but I posted this on another similar thread:

I'm new here but I already seem to have unwittingly stumbled across homophobes and I have to say that I am terribly dissapointed. I didn't think that I'd see some guy's "feeling" that someone is gay (based solely on his appearance) being promoted as evidence that the 'someone' is gay, and I didn't think I'd see this being presented as semi-factual and then having such a ludicrous suggestion going unchallenged on the basis of the poster's "gaydar".

Apparently, I was wrong. I am not impressed.



Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
bliss_eternal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-05-06 05:58 PM
Response to Original message
24. Nope--
not just you at all. It's a pattern we've all seen before.

Katrina brought out the racists, Hezbollah and Mel Gibson brought out the anti-semites, The Duke rape case brought out the rape apologists, sexists and misogynists, Brokeback Mountain losing at the Academy Awards brought out the homophobes and here they are again.

:(
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Mon Apr 29th 2024, 10:29 PM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » Topic Forums » GLBT Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC