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The episode with the elderly gay couple and the sick guy's family really got to me. As a heterosexual female, and I like to think, a compassionate and open minded one, I have known peripherally about the struggle that the GLBT community faces when their loved one is sick and there is no paperwork discerning the caregiver.
I had a friend whose family refused to allow her to see her dying partner and then contested the life insurance money and it was absolutely horrible to watch. This was in the 80's, and I guess I was busy with my own family and didn't realize how much things haven't changed.
In June, my husband had to have a quadruple bypass. During the two days leading up to the procedure, family and friends came to see him/us and he was pretty doped up due to a special pump that they had inserted to help his heart prior to the operation.
I cannot imagine being cut off from the man I love during such a stressful and upsetting time. I can't imagine my love for him being discarded and dismissed in the manner I watched last night.
For this 'revelation', I want to tell you all that I am sorry I dropped the ball for so long. I pledge to work harder for gay rights here, where I live as well as nationally. I am going to make phone calls this weekend to challenge people NOT to vote for the ridiculous marriage amendment act that the assholes here have placed on the ballot.
Until we are all equal, Peace.
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