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GliderGuider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-27-11 06:27 AM
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On being put into a box
I think many of us on spiritual paths have had this experience.

On Being Put Into a Box

A friend will sometimes come to me and say, "I've been thinking about you recently. Look at this fabulous box I made for you! Isn't it just perfect?"
If I'm awake right then I might say, "Why thank you! What a kind and thoughtful gift. You've decorated it so beautifully! Let me take it for a spin."
And for a while I'll have a grand time playing in my new box, exploring how my friend thinks of me.
Eventually my friend goes home and I climb out of the box, smile fondly, and put it on the shelf beside all the others.

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Celebration Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-27-11 10:10 AM
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1. resonates with me
Interesting, because my German grandmother gave me a china (usually Dresden) box every Christmas when I was growing up. I still have all these things up on shelves. What else would I do with them? Well, for one thing, I will start to look at them as metaphors, thanks to your post. ;)
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rosesaylavee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-27-11 11:13 AM
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2. Have you read Godin's 'Poke the Box'?
Will find it and post here when I get a chance. Just read it last night and laughed out loud. It's the crux of his new book by the same name.
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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-29-11 08:48 PM
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3. Sometimes a friend will keep bringing the same box repeatedly...
and will insist that you never have any other boxes other than that box.

My life motto is "Your only obligation in any lifetime is to be true to yourself." - Richard Bach

Therefore, forcing myself to stay in that box will never work. I guess the lesson is theirs to learn in that situation. It's sad when it happens though.

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WhiteTara Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-30-11 08:02 AM
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4. Must be why I spend most of my time without friends.
I'm trying to be authentic.
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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-30-11 09:36 AM
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5. ....
:hug:

:pals:

:loveya:

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WhiteTara Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-30-11 09:43 AM
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6. But you are my anam cara
which is my soul friend and that is different. We're here to open our hearts to the universe and to be free in the spiritual sense of the word.

:loveya::pals::hug: right back at you my dear IHAD
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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-31-11 12:07 PM
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8. I love "anam cara"...
What an honor you have bestowed on me, WhiteTara; I am deeply touched. :)

Thank you for being "you", my friend.


:loveya:

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WhiteTara Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-31-11 07:14 PM
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9. ...
I wouldn't be White Tara without you!:loveya:
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Fire Walk With Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-30-11 12:55 PM
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get the red out Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-11 02:33 PM
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10. I've been thinking of this post
I've thought of what you wrote off and on for a few days now. I have lost friends and had to leave social situations because I was way to squirmy to stay in the box I was presented with. Squirmy people are apparently difficult to deal with. It seems to be a running theme in my life, what to do with all these boxes I have stacking up? I've been tripping over them for YEARS.

Or maybe I have difficulties communicating with people who have climbed into a box they were given and closed the top so tight that that I have to scream to be heard. I walk away in the end because they just can't make out a thing I am saying. Sigh.
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