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I know part of bipolar is spending money recklessly, but that is in conjunction with mania - EXTREMELY hyper, lots of energy, other general recklessness, god-like superiority complex, and so on. What you are describing seems not to be consistent with that.
My mother is the same way. She can barely pay her rent (she pays the rent for June by the end of June, has to wait on July's rent till the end of the month and so on. She is lucky to have a landlord who allows it. Despite that, she has steak and skinless chicken breasts for dinner (pretty much the most expensive food at the store she goes to), smokes heavily, and her husband drinks a lot. AND yet they still have the money to go to Laughlin, Las Vegas, and rent a cabin in the mountains.
Me on the other hand, I try and live within my means... I have crushing student loans, but I make my payments on time. My credit card is mostly used for emergencies (I got my appendix out in April and I'm still getting bills for hundreds of dollars).
My brother makes a lot of money, but he spends a lot, too. I think he has some savings, though, which is a good thing. For a while he was giving my mom money to help ends meet, but then he saw that no matter how much he gave her, she spent it, so he stopped. My sister is good with money... probably better than me, from what I can tell.
So I don't think it's genetic. I think people grow up with this, and they go one of two ways - they vow never to be like their parents who wasted all that money, or they think they can waste money like their parents.
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