Is Loners Group the Loneliest Group?

Looking at the numbers, one may think so. Some of the biggest numbers in the group section, by participation, are 'cooking and baking'.
The Suzy Homemaker syndrome.
A disappointment to me.
John Kerry is perhaps the biggest section. Ok.
Oh, Keith Olberman, the biggest? Who is he?
I would certainly like to see greater participation and support in these groups, for some of the other topics.
Help is needed here, but help can only help if the helpee accepts the help as that. A gift, some help.
One here says, I like to be left alone, but yet posts. How can that be? That is like jumping into the pool, then saying, oh, I don't want to get wet. You already are.
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