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Edited on Mon Aug-01-05 07:20 AM by BlueIris
2. Civility: Treat other members with respect. Do not post personal attacks against other members of this discussion forum.
3. Content: Do not post messages that are inflammatory, extreme, divisive, incoherent, or otherwise inappropriate. Do not engage in anti-social, disruptive, or trolling behavior. Do not post broad-brush, bigoted statements.
4. Copyrights: Do not copy-and-paste entire articles onto this discussion forum. When referencing copyrighted work, post a short excerpt (not exceeding 4 paragraphs) with a link back to the original.
They're also clear on how to deal with objectionable threads and posts:
5. Forum Administration: Respect the moderators and administrators, and respect their decisions. You can help make their job easier by clicking the "Alert" link on any post that might need moderator attention. Please understand that moderating errors and inconsistencies are inevitable on a large website like this. If you have a question about DU policies, or if you have a concern about an action a moderator has taken, please contact an admin privately.
Trust me, I wish there were other ways of dealing with objectionable threads, but I've given up attempting to make changes. I think we have to go by what the rules we've agreed to adhere to state we should do about objectionable shit on the boards.
So, I alert immediately on any thread or post that violates the stated guidelines. As to whether I respond before or after alerting--Kerrytraveler, I get what you're saying with this, I really do:
"If we're ever going to get back to a sense of common ground and dialogue in this country, we have to learn how to speak to one another and listen to one another."
But I don't feel that anyone who has violated the posting guidelines is someone I'm obligated to "listen" to, or try to communicate with. Also, the DU forums aren't "this country," they're a message board. There are slightly broader laws, rules and boundaries governing how civilized individuals should interact with each other in the "real world," especially considering how tolerant that world has become of incivility, misogyny, bigotry and brutality. Sometimes, there really is NO POINT in trying to explain to someone why he or she is wrong, being inappropriate, or in violation of the rules. In my experience, there are very few occasions in which trying to reason with someone who is being misogynist in particular can lead to a "productive" outcome. My new strategy is to alert, sometimes after pointing out the misogyny of the poster in a post of my own, and move on.
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