in it, but she lays out her case very well. I'm interested to see where her next few posts take us.
Conversely, we are inundated by just how horrifying it is when women say “No”. Over anything, it is common knowledge that a simple “No” from a woman is a horrifying thing to have happen and that those words alone will strip a man of every shred of dignity and power.
Don’t believe me? See if this rings a bell.
In sitcoms, movies and the like we watch the sympathetic camera follow our hero at a club, he approaches the young, beautiful woman and says, "May I buy you a drink?” His eyes are bright, his manners impeccable. Suddenly, the camera slows down and turns to the beautiful woman, her faces screws up into a mask of disgust and revulsion; her once pretty features turn almost harpy-like as she surveys our hero. "No" she says, her voice dripping with disgust and scorn. The camera has now slowed to a crawl and the "No" is dragged out to sound like, "Nooooooo”. We watch as the hero’s face falls, the light goes out of his eyes, the camera resumes in normal speed, “I wouldn't let YOU buy me a drink if you were the last man alive" she turns, and in a flurry of movement she disappears. Our hero is crushed and we watch his face fall as every single man looks at him with barely concealed scorn and pity. He is a failure, he is beaten and she has embarrassed him and defeated him. He slinks away, his power stolen by the vindictive bitch who told him "No".
This scenario is repeated time and again, with varying hitches. Sometimes it’s the well-meaning boyfriend who has taken his unwitting girlfriend to lovers lane. When he tries to lovingly kiss her she pushes him away and says “No” the music takes a dramatic turn. Our poor, neglected boyfriend looks more like a kicked puppy than anything and he looks around to see all the other men in all the other cars “getting some”. We feel pity for him, why? Because that cold, callous bitch said, “No”.