There is a Narcissist on the web - who apparently stokes his ego by posting essays on all things Narcissistic. This is from one of those essays ->
Narcissists are misogynists........The narcissist often says that he has a contract with his girlfriend/spouse. This contract has emotional articles and administrative-economic articles. One of the substantive clauses of this contract is emotional and sexual exclusivity.
...The narcissist, though highly amoral (and at times, immoral), holds himself, morally, in high regard. He describes contracts as "sacred" and feels averse to canceling or violating them even if they had expired or are invalidated by the behavior of the other parties.
...Still, some narcissists prefer less complicated and less threatening sex: devoid of all emotion, anonymous (group sex, prostitution) or autoerotic (homosexual or masturbation). The sexual partner, in these conditions, lacks identity, is objectified and dehumanized. Exclusivity cannot be demanded of objects and the potential risk of unfaithfulness is happily allayed.
...Moreover, the narcissist himself is unlikely to cultivate a long-term relationship with a psychologically healthy, independent, and mature woman. He seeks her dependence within a relationship of superiority and inferiority (teacher-student, guru-disciple, idol-admirer, therapist-patient, doctor-patient, father-daughter, adult-adolescent or young girl, etc.).
http://samvak.tripod.com/msla5.htmlhttp://samvak.tripod.com/index.htmlSeems like I've heard some of this before.