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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 02:26 PM
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Police: Pastor Spanked Girl Who Claimed Abuse By Relative
Police: Pastor Spanked Girl Who Claimed Abuse By Relative

POSTED: 2:36 pm EDT May 12, 2006

ELGIN, Ill. -- A pastor was charged with spanking a 13-year-old girl with a piece of wood because he thought she was lying when she said she was sexually abused by a relative.

Police said the Rev. Daryl Bujak struck the girl hard enough to cause bruises and welts after she was brought to him for counseling because her mother doubted the claims.

Officials said they believe the girl's allegations of sexual abuse, and this week authorities in McHenry County charged a 33-year-old man with abusing her from September 2003 until March 2005.

"It's unbelievable," said Lt. Mike Turner. "It's a sad case for this girl."

The mother said Bujak, pastor at First Missionary Baptist Church in suburban Chicago, told her the girl had acknowledged lying when they met between March and May.


http://www.local6.com/news/9207489/detail.html

Ummmm. Yeah. Not even sure where to start...
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ComerPerro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 02:28 PM
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1. Must've got the idea from Focus on the Family
after all, Dobson advocates child abuse as punishment.
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yellowcanine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 02:32 PM
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3. Maybe he confused the girl with a wiener dog.
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NVMojo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 02:28 PM
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2. the gene pool is corrupt ....perverted ....rotten ....
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Lerkfish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 02:33 PM
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4. wow. where to start? I'll just start with simple:
that's just messed up, on so many levels:

1. that a mother would not take her own daughter seriously about being abused by a stranger (I'm assuming, the article doesn't state his relationship to the family).
2. And even if the girl was lying (she wasnt, but even if) that she would take her daughter to a pastor to administer discipline instead of doing it herself. There's years of therapy right there even if the pastor hadnt...
3. ...spanked her with a piece of wood hard enought to cause lasting injury. SHE WAS THERE FOR COUNSELING, sheesh!
What is that, the "walking tall counseling stick"?

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TrogL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 03:23 PM
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8. Why take her to a pastor?
Take her to a competent child psychologist and/or the police.
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Lerkfish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 04:57 PM
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11. exactamundo! no need for clergy whatsoever. its a crime, not a faith issue
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Ms. Clio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 05:22 PM
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12. As to your number 1, headline says the abuser was a relative
which is all the more reason to believe her, actually, as most abusers in these situations are not strangers to the victim.

This story makes me sick and furious. I'd like to do something Biblically vengeful and crude to that "pastor" with that "piece of wood."
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Lerkfish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 07:13 PM
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13. you're right, my bad, missed it first reading.
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 02:35 PM
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5. It's one of the abused worst fears - not being believed
Which is one of the reasons why so many stay silent :( That poor, poor girl.
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KurtNYC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 02:46 PM
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6. Does the law not apply to religious employees?!
First preists molest 1000s and the police won't get involved and now this guy beats a girl with a piece of wood.

No human being has the legal right to beat another with a piece of wood - period. Frickin' insanity.
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No New War Donating Member (118 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 07:16 PM
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14. Haven't you heard of seperation of church and state?
This is one place they'll make sure it applies. :sarcasm:
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BlueStorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 03:14 PM
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7. This is just so wrong on many levels
Tells you how much the mother cares for the girl. This poor little girl is now going to go through life having a hard time trusting people because of this incident. I do hope she gets some real counseling.

Blue
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sutz12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 03:27 PM
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9. When does this crap start to affect recruiting?
Edited on Fri May-12-06 03:28 PM by sutz12
Sheesh, you'd think the fundies would be screaming for converts when they treat them like this.

Talk about a victim mentality. :shrug:

Hey, I'm not blaming the girl, here. She's too young to even know she's being abused, and obviously has no support from her mom. Another lifelong source of income for the shrinks.
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 03:45 PM
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10. It's called "Pastor is sexually aroused by spanking minor girl."
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