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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:05 PM Original message |
Do parents have a moral obligation to pay for children's college? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
1. No |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
2. Yes, if you have the money and can do it. |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:07 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. What if the kid is kinda dim? |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:07 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. They can still get an education. There is a college for everyone. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:28 PM Response to Reply #5 |
23. Some folks just aren't cut out for college. By that, I mean |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 09:48 AM Response to Reply #23 |
120. I agree, but I don't think that is what the OP was asking. |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 11:35 AM Response to Reply #5 |
124. a college for everyone? not quite. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 12:25 PM Response to Reply #124 |
129. Yes there is. |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 09:44 PM Response to Reply #129 |
133. Do you really think the lowest 5% in IQ are capabale of getting a degree? |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-30-06 08:57 AM Response to Reply #133 |
135. Of course. I taught in college as well. |
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Freddie Stubbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-30-06 09:29 AM Response to Reply #135 |
140. "If the drive is there" |
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LuckyTheDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 07:45 PM Response to Reply #2 |
88. I agree (nt) |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:07 PM Response to Original message |
3. If it's not an undue hardship on the parents, |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:07 PM Response to Original message |
6. You tell them to claim to be illegal or undocumented to get |
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demobabe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
7. In divorced families |
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saltpoint (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:11 PM Response to Original message |
8. When it wipes out the nest savings, then the obligation of parents is |
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Iniquitous Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
9. I think parents should do everything possible. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
10. Government loans require parents to submit financial forms proving need. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:21 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. What? They require submission proving need? |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:39 PM Response to Reply #16 |
25. Of course they do |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:40 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. Like I said, it was a number of years ago when I first went to |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:36 PM Response to Reply #26 |
53. I graduated in the 70's and even then I had a friend that couldn't go to |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:52 PM Response to Reply #53 |
59. Then I must have faulty memory, and my parents DID have to |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 06:40 PM Response to Reply #59 |
77. Maybe it changed in the few years between you and me? |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 12:06 AM Response to Reply #77 |
94. It well could have. I am curious now, so I'm gonna have to ask |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 01:46 AM Response to Reply #94 |
100. I bet whatever forms they had "way back when" weren't the nightmare |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 02:09 AM Response to Reply #100 |
103. I do know the forms were easier, simpler. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 03:21 AM Response to Reply #103 |
111. Could be! |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 04:36 AM Response to Reply #111 |
114. I don't hate the government, but I do hate the awful waste |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 12:28 PM Response to Reply #59 |
130. My parents wouldn't provide the information, either. |
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Bill McBlueState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 06:49 PM Response to Reply #25 |
79. but it's not really only "a couple thousand" |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 01:59 AM Response to Reply #25 |
102. Actually, top schools (eg., Princeton) expect the lowest income students |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:50 PM Response to Reply #16 |
34. Oh yes, things have changed. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:14 PM Response to Reply #34 |
47. And the "haves and the have mores" continue to screw the |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:38 PM Response to Reply #47 |
54. My sister had that situation, but she and her new husband -- together -- |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:57 PM Response to Reply #16 |
39. If you can still be claimed as a dependent |
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ldf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 01:09 PM Response to Reply #39 |
131. according to the FAFSA you are independent if |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 04:49 PM Response to Reply #131 |
132. Best friend's stepdad does financial aid |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:11 PM Response to Reply #16 |
44. If you claim them on your taxes, you have to offer that info if you want |
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wain (803 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:11 PM Response to Reply #16 |
45. when you take government money you lose some of your freedom |
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wicket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 12:04 PM Response to Reply #16 |
126. I asked this question of the financial aid office many times |
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conflictgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 02:26 AM Response to Reply #10 |
106. Yes, I am familiar with that |
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demobabe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
11. It isn't a moral obligation... |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 01:20 AM Response to Reply #11 |
97. Agree Demobabe |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
12. no, no, and no.... my parents paid for ours, i will pay kids, yet NO |
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wildeyed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
13. Yep. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
14. Absolutely not. I don't know where this idea came from anyway, |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:23 PM Response to Reply #14 |
18. This idea came from keeping up with the Joneses |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:31 PM Response to Reply #18 |
24. Good point, JVS |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-30-06 09:33 AM Response to Reply #14 |
141. My mother worked 4 jobs while my brother and I were in college |
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skipos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:18 PM Response to Original message |
15. My dad made me get a job since I was 12 and kept all the money |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:22 PM Response to Original message |
17. No, It's A Decision That They Make On Their Own |
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napi21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
19. Absolutely not! I guess if a family has a LOT of $$$$, it's OK, but |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
20. It depends on the situation but usually the parents should help |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
21. Here in the UK it's much less of an issue, thankfully. |
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Hamlette (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
22. yes, I see it as a moral question |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
27. Depends on what you set the expectations up to be |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:43 PM Response to Reply #27 |
55. And courts have agreed with you. In divorce cases, judges have said that |
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Lisa0825 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:43 PM Response to Original message |
28. NO. Parents should help their children pursue their path.... |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:46 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. That's similar to what I said in post #23 |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:08 PM Response to Reply #28 |
43. That is a good point. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:20 PM Response to Reply #43 |
48. I like that idea, xmas74. |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:33 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. I attended college. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:55 PM Response to Reply #51 |
60. It absolutely shouldn't be diminished. |
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conflictgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 02:38 AM Response to Reply #28 |
107. But working your way up is fast disappearing as an option |
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Lisa0825 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 12:25 PM Response to Reply #107 |
128. But crafts, trades, and manual labor are not disappearing. |
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conflictgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-30-06 02:48 PM Response to Reply #128 |
142. Yes, of course you're right |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
29. Depends on the Child. If there's Motivation + Apptitude + willingness |
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Dogmudgeon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:47 PM Response to Original message |
31. College isn't a right! It's a Privilege! |
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AnotherMother4Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
32. I see it as an investment in the family - When my youngest was |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:27 PM Response to Reply #32 |
50. I like the approach you took with your son. |
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AnotherMother4Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 06:53 PM Original message |
Thank you - It's never too late to go/return to school even part-time |
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U4ikLefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 11:33 AM Response to Original message |
123. Hey mom4peace, cool you didn't give up....40 year old graduate here!!! |
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Igel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:50 PM Response to Original message |
33. No. |
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Nimrod2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
35. No; and should not ever spend retirement to do it... |
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Totally Committed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:54 PM Response to Original message |
36. People who can afford to help, should... |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:55 PM Response to Original message |
37. I think the gov't has a moral obligation to pay for it. Good of the common |
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Bill McBlueState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 06:54 PM Response to Reply #37 |
81. agreed! |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 07:41 PM Response to Reply #81 |
86. I know it is! Fixing our economy isn't tax cuts for the rich, it's |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 03:56 PM Response to Original message |
38. No, I do not think they have a moral obligation. |
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U4ikLefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:00 PM Response to Original message |
40. If society doesn't want it's best & brightest to fall by the wayside |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 06:53 PM Response to Reply #40 |
80. Congratulations! Woohoo! Good for you, U4ikLefty! |
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U4ikLefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 12:00 AM Response to Reply #80 |
93. Thanks so much!!! |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 04:03 AM Response to Reply #93 |
112. good luck! |
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Uben (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:02 PM Response to Original message |
41. This is not a yes/no question |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:04 PM Response to Original message |
42. If my daughter chooses to attend a local school and live |
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bikebloke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
46. I paid my own way. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:46 PM Response to Reply #46 |
56. It used to be a lot cheaper to pay your own way. My own college costs |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 01:28 AM Response to Reply #56 |
99. College has gone up way faster than |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 04:08 AM Response to Reply #99 |
113. I did read an explanation once, that kind of made sense, but I'm |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:21 PM Response to Original message |
49. Parents should want to help their children achieve their dreams |
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U4ikLefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:36 PM Response to Original message |
52. Let me give some parents/students some advice. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:51 PM Response to Reply #52 |
57. The problem with many state schools is that they limit the number of |
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U4ikLefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 05:00 PM Response to Reply #57 |
62. Yeah, that sucks big time. My best advice is to "back door" the major |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 06:45 PM Response to Reply #62 |
78. good idea U41kLefty. That would certainly work when there is a choice |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 05:46 AM Response to Reply #52 |
118. The Community College a few towns away has a great |
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U4ikLefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 11:16 AM Response to Reply #118 |
122. Your daughter will thank you if she takes your advice. |
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Marie26 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
58. As much as they can |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 05:00 PM Response to Reply #58 |
61. If parents do want to help, but can't afford to pay all or part of |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
63. No, nor weddings either. nt |
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stanwyck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 05:18 PM Response to Original message |
64. Yes. Why have kids if you're not going to |
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Thtwudbeme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 05:22 PM Response to Original message |
65. According to most DU posts I read, they have a moral obligation to pay |
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Itchinjim (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 05:27 PM Response to Original message |
66. My parents didn't think so, |
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mac56 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 05:29 PM Response to Reply #66 |
68. Mine neither. |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-30-06 09:03 AM Response to Reply #66 |
136. Families need to help each other! |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
67. I'm not sure it's an obligation. |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 05:30 PM Response to Original message |
69. hell no |
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loudestchick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 05:37 PM Response to Original message |
70. If they are able. I didn't qualify for aid for the first two yrs because |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 05:47 PM Response to Reply #70 |
71. If you only make $6,000/year more than free lunch |
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conflictgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 02:55 AM Response to Reply #71 |
109. Unfortunately, I don't think so |
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Demeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 06:03 PM Response to Original message |
72. I Would Willingly Pay For My Daughters To Go To College! |
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AnotherMother4Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 06:38 PM Response to Reply #72 |
76. Gently encourage your daughter to take a class or two in subjects |
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solinvictus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 06:07 PM Response to Original message |
73. Here's my story.. |
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kaygore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
74. Children should first contribute by making good grades, |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 06:31 PM Response to Original message |
75. It depends on the circumstances |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
82. No--but parents have a moral obligation to help |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 07:01 PM Response to Original message |
83. No. |
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momster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 07:08 PM Response to Original message |
84. If they don't.... |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 12:11 AM Response to Reply #84 |
95. Voc colleges aren't just for the mechanically minded, though |
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lumpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 07:18 PM Response to Original message |
85. NO |
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DarbyUSMC (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 07:44 PM Response to Original message |
87. Phooey. Parents have a moral obligation to bring their children up with |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 12:13 AM Response to Reply #87 |
96. Darby, |
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kevinbgoode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 07:46 PM Response to Original message |
89. No...the child is a legal adult at the age of 18. |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 02:50 AM Response to Reply #89 |
108. Yet at 18... we can't drink, gamble, or rent a car or hotel room |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 07:47 PM Response to Original message |
90. No but it might keep enlistment down. |
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Lochloosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 08:00 PM Response to Original message |
91. Rules of my house |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 05:14 AM Response to Reply #91 |
117. Sounds similar to my parents' rules: a hand up, not a handout, so to speak |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-28-06 08:07 PM Response to Original message |
92. a MORAL obligation to help in some way, yes... |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 01:26 AM Response to Original message |
98. If they make that promise, they should keep it. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 02:11 AM Response to Reply #98 |
104. Agreed, unless unforeseen circumstances preclude it. |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 01:51 AM Response to Original message |
101. Even if it's not strictly a *moral* obligation... they're kinda stupid if |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 02:14 AM Response to Original message |
105. The government has a moral obligation to educate it's citizens. |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 02:55 AM Response to Original message |
110. No |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 05:13 AM Response to Reply #110 |
116. And that is the way it should be, Nicole. Along with the ability |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 10:41 PM Response to Reply #116 |
134. Yes, ability makes all the difference |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 05:09 AM Response to Original message |
115. Interesting question. |
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Yollam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 05:57 AM Response to Original message |
119. If their parents paid for them to go to college, yes. |
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Malikshah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 09:52 AM Response to Reply #119 |
121. Good answer. To do otherwise is hypocrisy in its grossest form |
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Yollam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 12:03 PM Response to Reply #121 |
125. In my case, I'll do what I can to help my kids. |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-29-06 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
127. No. Obligation stops at 18. |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-30-06 09:05 AM Response to Original message |
137. If they can afford it and the kid takes school seriously, yes |
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newportdadde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-30-06 09:25 AM Response to Original message |
138. If you can swing it it gives them a great start on life. |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-30-06 09:29 AM Response to Original message |
139. Yes and No... |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-30-06 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
143. The best gift you can give your kid is an education. Forget the |
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RedStateShame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-30-06 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
144. I got nothin' |
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patcox2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-30-06 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
145. Each family has its own customs and dynamics, judge not. |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-30-06 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
146. There are no guarantees in life; well one |
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